If Jai doesnt LOVE Bani- Should she Stay

lets Say Jai .. has accepted his Marriage to Bani ..as Fate and has forgiven Pia and Pushy.But tells Bani he will Give her a divorce if she wants .either way . he will respect her choice .

and Jai is not in Love with Bani .. but Bani as we can see is .

Should Bani continue to stay . in this Marriage even though .. Jai hasnt confessed his Love for her or rather .. Bani senses .that he isnt in Love with her . Can she be Happy in a Marriage wherein there is no gurantee of Jai falling in Love with her

or- should Bani agree to the divorce since Jai doesnt love her ..and is just accepting this marriage .. hence its a marrige of compromise ..here onwards. ?

hmm...that's a good question...Bnai being Bani, she'll probably leave cause she'll think it's the right thing to do...but it's kinda sad cause the first time she fell in love, he got bagged by her sister, and know this khadoos doesn't give two hoots about her!!

I dont think the discussion is relevant anymore at this juncture coz as much as we can see Bani in Love with Jai, we are seeing Jai realising his Love for Bani 😳 .
In case as u say if we have to assume Jai doesnt love bani and there is going to be NO Future there is no point sticking a Loveless marriage, To an extent a marraige can survive on traditional Values but... it needs Love to see it through.
As of now both Jai-Bani are in Love... there is no question of sticking together in a loveless marraige now. All Jai-Bani require is some time and Massi around for sometime 😆

But what is the cause of concern is will Bani stay back with Jai, after the so called dreaded Past comes into light 😕
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Anu

till today we ar sure Bani is totally in Love with Jai .. But .. its not same on Jai's side .. Just because jai has stopped screaming at Bani and isnt in Revenge mode anymore .. it cant be that he is in LOve .
he is just Gulity as hell .. for he Knows he was Very wrong . to hurt bani .. for pia's mistakes during this time he forgot his past.
But Now the past is Back in the present ..and is threatning jai.
had Roshni not come Jai would be flying hi on revenge Mode wasnt it just a short while ago .. he accused bani of being a thief and her sisters a Tramp ..?
Roshni ne aake jai ki Hawa nikal di and he crashed down .. to Planet earth .at this point in time i wouldnt say Jai is in Love with Bani .
jai is the kind of Man ..who isnt dependent on anyone . and if situation calls for he can even stay away .. from the person dearest to Him - a man of self control and discipline .
i think Bani will have to Move a mountain .. if she has to bring Jai down to His Knees to confess Love for her.

Yes . jai has stopped screaming at Bani and isnt in Revenge mode anymore .. it cant be that he is in LOve . but he does realise that Bani's developing feelings for him ( he doesn't show this but sometimes you can figure it out in his deadly stares 😳 , and smiles 😳 .He definitely respects her for whatever she's done for Maasi.

Yes . jai has stopped screaming at Bani and isnt in Revenge mode anymore .. it cant be that he is in LOve . but he does realise that Bani's developing feelings for him ( he doesn't show this but sometimes you can figure it out in his deadly stares 😳 , and smiles 😳 .He definitely respects her for whatever she's done for Maasi.

I don't think that Bani should stay with Jai if he does not show some genuine affection towards her. Yes, he might feel guilty for his actions towards her since their marriage, and also some guilt based on the "raaz." But, I think that Bani is past all that. Although she stayed first to be a buffer between Jai and Pia and Pushy, she no longer is staying just because of that. Massi aside, she is starting to think of Jai as her husband in more than name. Her feelings are gathering strength, and it would be unfair for her to stay if she knows that Jai cares nothing for her, except for through guilt.

hmmm... If jai shows genuine affection and feelings for bani then I think there no point in divorcing…because … there relationship has a chance of working out!!! But if jai is not convinced with their…relationship and desires a divorce…then bani is better off divorcing him…!
Although now its become obvious that both jai and bani seem to show a lot of concern and care for each other… so there is no need for a divorce…plus honestly speaking…bani has suffered so much now… so she might as well suffer a bit more…coz I think jai is on the verge of accepting her anyway!

no she shudnt stay bcuz he still yells at her during intervals but not for revenge like he wanted to torture her...but wats the use when he doesnt love her? mayb its a good thing if she leaves cuz thats when he'll realize that he loves her the most. and i think she shudnt let him know when she leaves but hint it out to him..wat do u think?

Good question Klueless!

Bani is surely in love with Jai, but as of now, Jai is going through a very turbulent period, worse than the Pia phase! He is very concerned, affectionate and protective towards Bani, but even I agree, that he is not in love with her yet...but then at the same time, if you are concerned, affectionate and protective towards a person who is actually a stranger to you, that can only mean you are on your way falling in love!

Bani is the sort of person any man would fall in love with, maybe not at first sight as she is an introvert and not a very attractive and vivacious girl but once someone comes to know her, he is bound to get attached to her for life and same is the case with Jai! Hence, even if Jai doesn't really love her as such, their marriage will still succeed because atleast one of the partners is in love and at times that is enough to make a relationship successful!

But Bani being the sort of girl she is will never agree to stay in a marriage devoid of love, even if her partner is understanding, caring and affectionate towards her.....Bani can overlook everything but Love!

Hence, Jai has to not only fall in love with Bani but tell her clearly so, then only will she stay in the Marriage!

MT