Anandis future

As much as i am loving the new anandi but these thoughts come to mind, i know working careers are equally important to women as they are to men, but what about motherhood, a partner who will support you to love you the way you should.
As for DS n family what are they doing? they should be thinking of anandis life with a family of her own her daughter her son.. when bhago said what is anandi doing there??? she told ds are few truths which needed to be said but now i want the family thinking of anandis life.

i think gauri will call anandi to tell her to divorce jagya

Originally posted by: chulbuli7

Yes, these things are also important in life, but right now Anandi needs education more than anything else. She needs to first find an identity for herself, an identity other than the "beendni of the haveli". I think once she becomes financially independent, the family members will definitely concentrate on her second marriage.

As of now, I would like to see her concentrating on career, getting the much needed education and turning into an independent, confident woman.

Even I want to see Anandi having proper education and a nice career. They can project Anandi still as a hurt woman who tries to move on and make the best of her life. Even if she has a career she can always do samaaj sewa. Even I know many women who work fultime and work as volunteers also. Even some friends of my teach kids for 2 days a week.(kids who arent very good in studies and need extra help) In this way she can do both things. Teach and have a good career.

Look things like motherhood and marriage are also important but right now Anandi needs to stand on her own feet!

Originally posted by: annika20

Look things like motherhood and marriage are also important but right now Anandi needs to stand on her own feet!

She will be crushed further if she is asked to marry again and go through it all over again. Let her get over Jagya and let her first forget and move on from the trauma of child marriage.

Also, this whole thing will then keep continuing like a vicious cycle! What is the guarantee that she will not be ditched again and labeled a gawar if she marries again without completing her education? What future will she be able to secure for her child if she herself stayed a puppet in other's hands and could never do anything for her own self?

I also want to know why should marriage be the only dead end for a girl's life? Is it wrong to stand on your own feet, get an education or have a career? Is it wrong to dedicate your life to a higher cause?

Are people like Mother Teresa, Irom Sharmila or Anna Hazare any less than anyone? They never married or had kids. Are their lives useless, meaningless or incomplete? Is it wrong if someone wants to do something for society? Is marriage and kids compulsory for all?

When you've been deserted by your husband, would you focus on rebuilding your life, or moving on or would you get married again immediately?

Also is marriage necessary to become a mother? I mean, look at Sushmita Sen and her girls. Is she any less than a biological mother to her girls? Can't Anandi adopt a child in future even if she does not want to marry? Are traits of caring and loving and bringing up a child always ingrained in a woman or is it a sperm which puts these traits in her?

Bhairon's first reaction was to get Anandi remarried! It was Anandi herself who told him she did not want to go through it all again!

Shouldn't it be left to Anandi to decide for herself whether she wants to marry or not?

Is education or a career only accessories or luxuries? Are they not important for survival and security? What is the guarantee for Anandi's future if she still doesn't stand on her feet and remains at the mercy of another man hoping he will not ditch her like Jagya did?

i understand everything you have said yes all of it makes sense. but today made me wonder what is next😊

Annika! i agree with you. A must build a career for herself first and become strong.