Heart's reminder and it price..

Thinking about yourself you forgot others, thinking about others u forgot yourself...Thats what happened to radhika,she thinks too much of others well being,and image and forgets her identity,her own heart belief...She is a married woman...since 12 years ...she kept beliving that...and dev today along with kanha reminded her that...Their union is sacred,made in a great day...by god's will and power not a single human touch was there,werd just two souls and kanhas doings..
Dev pointed to her the sindoor,gods blessing, the importance of the childhood marriage,she rembered it with his every word..."this is indication from your kanha witch u are not understanding or maybe you dont want to"Dev told her that, but she suffered more,gulped her guilt and pain and still dind want to admit it...so he chalanged her to prove that they dont have a relation...so to untie the chunri knot..To keep her promise that he will receive a rite name in society she tried to ...but faild...Why u want to do smth for wich god will not give you permission...As i said before human knt break what god united...But radh didnt listen,and tried again...this time kanha warned her that she is crossing her limits and sent danger to her husband as saying Ur duty is protect ur husband not to break ur tie with him...She was reminded of her identity and almost payed a great price for it...if she didnt save dev...[0]What bothered me was if only dev have said that he too strongly believes that they are married may be then radh would have had a gread reason to reconsider...[/COLOR]All in all was a great scene,a rememberance of the great power of god to give us a name,an identity,for radh...a married woman...a gods will that need to protect and admit...

Totally agree with your pov. I felt today that initially Dev was using Radhika's own belief in persuading her to change her mind but ended in believing and accepting that this relationship God has made and they can not or everyone can break it. I am hoping now to see Dev accepting their childhood marriage in front of the whole world on ME.

Myra very good post , i love to read your post as you give new meaning to whole one incident ...It was a good scene and they both were brilliant ,Dev throwing challenge at her ...

well said myra,this line is so true-
'if u think about urself then forget others and if think about others then forget urself'
when rads initially remembered her childhood marriage,she didn't listen to dev and now when she is thinking about dev,his rights and place in society then for some moments she forgot even her marriage.she didn't think about herself what she will do if dev marries someone else.will she live near that shanti whole life.
now dev reminded some things and rest may be kanha helps her in reminding and importance of her childhood marriage,her beliefs.

You're right, Mira with yours reflections<Thinking about yourself you forgot others, thinking about others u forgot yourself>.Radhika spirit of sacrifice is supreme, she wanted at all costs, the high priest name you will get Dev, was notspotted, by marriage with her, the woman who have been unjustly thrown gossip. She wanted to open up marriage, founded in heaven with divine powers, with her helpless ??hands and by her will, but it failed. Will of God to overcome the common man nothingness and demonstrated that the fate of each is written just for him. Yes, she convinced by futility of his attempt, and by wrath of God through that sign, that branch of the tree, that would hurt her husband. Note that her duty is to protect, to love, to be stubborn and not to forget the self.

Originally posted by: zam123

Totally agree with your pov. I felt today that initially Dev was using Radhika's own belief in persuading her to change her mind but ended in believing and accepting that this relationship God has made and they can not or everyone can break it. I am hoping now to see Dev accepting their childhood marriage in front of the whole world on ME.

Thats what i expect,him beliving all he said to radh,and make all know she is worthy of rjp-ain and his wife!

Originally posted by: Neerjaa

Myra very good post , i love to read your post as you give new meaning to whole one incident ...It was a good scene and they both were brilliant ,Dev throwing challenge at her ...

Thank you neerja!! Yes it was a brilliant scene that gave alot of food for thought about their reactions and feelings and not forget kanhas interventions!

nice post myra... you did bring out the meaning of the scene perfectly well...rads will eventually learn that she cannot win against god ones the rasam of marriages starts...

Originally posted by: ekta-avinafan

well said myra,this line is so true-
<font color="#FF0099">'if u think about urself then forget others and if think about others then forget urself'</font>
when rads initially remembered her childhood marriage,she didn't listen to dev and now when she is thinking about dev,his rights and place in society then for some moments she forgot even her marriage.she didn't think about herself what she will do if dev marries someone else.will she live near that shanti whole life.
now dev reminded some things and rest may be kanha helps her in reminding and importance of her childhood marriage,her beliefs.

Thanks ekta,glad u liked my thoughts...radh didnt want to remember her marriage cause she knew she will break down and go weak,thats what happened when dev explained abt their strong bond and kanha showing that too by not leting her untie the duppata...Hope she understands soon that she knt fight gods will and accept what He is giving her now,a chance to tell the truth...