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Posted: 14 years ago
#11
i still dont uderstand why is meeta reacting like this she should not have slapped. Navya knew the reaction of her mother so she kept quiet and the.Precap police complaint this is too much did navya do such a big mistake
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Posted: 14 years ago
#12
This story is fully based on the concept of balance between modernity and traditionality..
i think most of the parents in this generation will not allow a girl havin an affair..this story wants to reveal all the facts of being loyal to d tradition & as well as to the modern era..
and wat we have to see is sabke life mein aise situations aaye honge jaise anya ki relationship mein hai as of now..so CV's should handle this situation in such a way that ki aaj ke young generation bhi story se kuch seekh sake...
This is a story which helps to co-ordinate between childrens and parents in this era..
dis is nayi soch,naye dhadkan.naye sawaal...according to me...
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Posted: 14 years ago
#13

Well.. i know at this point it feels as if hiding is the best, but unless you want to run away, you'll end up coming clean sooner or later...

Mebe the whole point in showing Meeta react so strongly is to see how she comes around...coz she will...rather she should... they live in Mumbai, not in some village where she doesnt know that these things do happen!
In fact, if i were in her place, I wud be thanking my lucky stars that my daughter is at least straight!!!😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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this is the same way parents react...but thnx god my parents are not like that..they gave me full liberty to chose my partner...during college life.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey though discussing a seious matter i feel like laughing by reading all your comments yaar😆jokes apart i agree with you;i guess todays parents are really not trying to understand their children though their concern is justified and in the case of meeta she should have given navya a chance to speak her part before taking any decision
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Posted: 14 years ago
#16
however modern we are in our outlook...even now no parent in middleclass households will tolerate their child having candlestine affairs at such a young age for that matter even later ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
#17
thanks to evryone for replying i think here we all have same questions in mind and same doubts what navay was having
so th point here came is there is alck of communication between parents and childrens first parents fully understand their children and gain their faith then expect that their child will be sharing issue liek that
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Posted: 14 years ago
#18
if parents are going to react this way...

obviously kids wil lie...
parents do worry... bt even thy should think...til 18[+]yrs, their kids were brought by thm,...the values, knowledge...evrythng children gt were given by thm...if thy love sum1...y cant parents stop and think...for a moment atleast...my kid may not be wrong, should i consider / atleast think abt him/her?


meeta screamed at navya...for telling lies...even she lied to dadi////...wen appy asked her...she justified it...by saying if i tell...do u know what wil happen to navya????????/ even if navya/ renu,ritz, appy...would tel truth to meetha...ths mess would hav happened... i dnt say want meetha done was wrong...parents get worried... all guys/gals would choose perfect person in d world... but wen meetha shouted at anant,in front of college saying...police and so stuff...i got irritated... she could spoken abit softly... even she could warn navya...😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I don't think that's what the message is from the CVs. I think what they're trying to convey is that hiding their love is just making the situation worse. Parents trust their children and love them unconditionally but when their very own children break their trust, obviously they're going to react with anger, frustration and most of all with sadness because their own children didn't trust them enough to tell them that they love someone.

Of course, Navya's circumstances can be understood because in her house (and almost in every other ordinary Indian-cultured and valued house), it is NOT permitted for a girl and boy to be together in a romantic relationship because of societal norms, regulations, culture etc etc. However, no one has control over what they feel! You can't instruct your heart NOT to fall in love. It's upto destiny. So keeping in mind that your feelings are right but you don't want to break your house rules, Navya decides to hide the truth.

So both POVs are correct in their own way. However this generation gap that the CVs are trying to show is only to build a bridge later on. Renuka who is in the middle of her mother and sister can build that bridge because she understands both POVs. I'm surprised, Renu isn't doing MUCH to help. She's mostly consoling Navya and Meeta but she's not doing anything to build that bridge or help out Anant and Navya. But again, she can't go against her mother, so I guess we have more in store to watch!

As far as the decision to send Navya away is concerned, as a mother it is totally legit to keep your daughter away from someone you don't trust, you don't know and someone who is capable of making your very own daughter lie to you. But on the other hand, it is quite unfair on Navya because legally she is allowed to take decisions herself. She is above 18 and has the right to do whatever she wants! Even Meeta realises that, that's why she said to Renu on the phone that Navya isn't a child that she can treat her like that! But again, as Indians we are more closely knit to our families, customs, culture etc. and so age doesn't make a difference. If someone in your family is older than you, you HAVE to listen to them, respect their decision and follow it. No matter if you're 18, 35 or 55. You have to listen to your mother! So I guess we will be seeing Navya go away...for sometime.

Since this is a 'Nayi Soch' show, I think Meeta will try to know Anant without letting anyone else know. She will use her own motherly instincts to know Anant and finally will realise that Anant and Navya are a perfect match for each other. Though, she might protest on the fact that Anant and Navya date and so might want to get them married ASAP in a way that no one knows that Anant and Navya are having a love marriage. But CVs will come up with twists and turns.

This was all Navya's family side drama. We have the Bajpai's in store. I can't even imagine how bad it'll be if anyone even gets a HINT that Anant is seeing someone. God save Anant from his Baba and Papa and Bua Dadi. *fingers crossed*
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Posted: 14 years ago
#20
in my life i already tell my mother about my love😳and mom supporting me

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