In the past dadaji has taken away chaya's child for the name of the rjp image and for the society...he let her decide what she believed that was rite,a poor life for her son or a rich and respectful one...
In the new times...he asked again the same question...to radh to give an answer...he burden her with such an important decision...for the name of rjp and society...To correct dev's name and shut people mouth..."life unfairness is not irrevocable ,we can balance the scales for others,if not always for ourselfs"This what dadaji asked the both women ,to be selfless when he was so egoist...If them could not be saved they should make it better for others?!Chaya gave her child cause she thought was better for him...she balanced the scale for others but failed ,dev didnt have a great life...Radhika's name is at the ground,with it the rjp name if marries dev...how will she balance scales when even if she doesnt marry him,she already is. Devs wife...her connection with rjp is still there..."women are like tea bags,put them in hot water and they get stronger" Kanha has to make radh one of these strong women...and dont let the past harm the future...sacrifice is not the best solution...dadaji,s habit of letting important decisions on others to bear doesnt have to affect her rite mind... She must go trough the people's words of fire and take the rite path...