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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: tejeshec

@red well said..When u are @ an extreme something is got to give in and thats what happened with Rajni. She was like a volcano ready to explode any moment and when u have so much ill feeling in your heart n mind it can come out any time any moment any where



Tejesh this is the thing which is troubling me in this track... rajni is supposedly most mature ans sensible bahu of all kasyap bahu's...then instead going straight to suhana and talking to her why did rajni choose to humiliate suhana in front of whole family...rajni was saying we all know everything about suhana then by now she should have known that suhana can't read between the lines...then why blaming her for everything
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: 111192



Tejesh this is the thing which is troubling me in this track... rajni is supposedly most mature ans sensible bahu of all kasyap bahu's...then instead going straight to suhana and talking to her why did rajni choose to humiliate suhana in front of whole family...rajni was saying we all know everything about suhana then by now she should have known that suhana can't read between the lines...then why blaming her for everything

She is the most mature agreed. But she is not God. Even she needs attention. Everything in this world has a limit. That limit varies from person to person. If Suhana was there in Rajni's place she would have exploded much earlier.
What will Rajni go and tell Suhana that she doesn't like her getting all the attention in the house and even she needs attention. No one can say that on the face. Also there are multiple things cuz of which Rajni is annoyed with Suhana so which things will she share with Suhana.
Also Rajni started believing that even the elders care only for Suhana. She can't talk about it to Suhana right. It had to come out in front of the whole family as she was annoyed with them as well. Rajni wanted even the family members to know that whatever is happening is not acceptable to them.
KK and Sanju shouldn't have been involved in this but the rest of the Kashyaps being there is still fine. Even they need to understand.
When mind and body gets biased towards one thing we need to restore it to the zero bias condition. It is called restoration of the mind and body in psychology. Something equivalent to reverse of brain washing.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: 111192



Tejesh this is the thing which is troubling me in this track... rajni is supposedly most mature ans sensible bahu of all kasyap bahu's...then instead going straight to suhana and talking to her why did rajni choose to humiliate suhana in front of whole family...rajni was saying we all know everything about suhana then by now she should have known that suhana can't read between the lines...then why blaming her for everything

In a family, just saying that one cant read between the lines is not good enough. yes, suhana is too obtuse to read between the lines of rajni and disha's words, but like badi-ma pointed out, she can read ishaan's silence and moods. why, because suhana cares about what's happening to Ishaan. I think the fact that suhana has not learned to understand their moods and mannerisms even after a year of living together tells rajni and disha that suhana doesn't give a damn about anyone but herself and ishaan. it was proven to them again and again by methi homework situation and the inder breakfast situation. Innocence and Ignorence cannot be an excuse for not understanding when your actions are unwittingly hurting others or pushing them to the limit. Even mothers scold their children when their selfish and self-centered attitude hurts others. you have to sometime shake a person to wake them up.

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