Ishq chupta nahin chupane se...Q & A!

What a rocker of an episode....seriously, no wonder we are so addicted to KS! The romance and intensity shown between Jai and Bani is enough to turn even the most die-hard non-romantics into mushiness!

The whole "Tying the Dori" scene between Jai and Bani was so well-directed and so classy...it instantly conveyed the buried passion and deep love they both have come to develop for one another...there was no lust or physical attraction in Jai's eyes, just a warm sense of affection and caring and the way he puts Bani's hair in front of her shoulders and proceeds to help her tie the Dori was enough to make anyone go weak in their knees....the best part was Jai's extremely serious expression and the way he refuses to take his eyes of Bani while doing so! I rememberd the old song for this situation, "Mere dil mein aaj kya hai, tu kahe toh main bata do...teri zulf phir savaroon, teri maang phir saja do....."😳

And the very moment when Jai tells Bani, "Mujhe nahin pata tumhare man mein kya hai..." I instantly got it that he knows she has fallen in love with him....you only doubt other's feelings when you already know what is going on in their minds! Probably, sensing that Bani is falling in love with him, Jai decided that he is not going to play with her emotions or lead her to a wrong path by showing her any dreams that he won't be able to fufill and hence he decided to speak to her and get out with the anguish and pain that he has been storing in his Heart!

And Bani.....even if she was half-decided about her feelings for Jai, after the way he spoke to her yesterday, I think now she has hopelessly fallen in love with him! Jai, you are not helping Bani's case one bit!

Here are questions for today, I want to see all my Old Faithfuls coming to answer them😊:

Do you think that when Mausi comes back from her 10-day Haridwar Trip, Bani would be the one to open the Doors of the Walia House for her, as promised by Bani?

Do you think that these 10 days would make Jai realize fully that he has never loved anyone in his life more than Bani? Do you think that Jai would be able to overcome his personal prejudices and confess his feelings to Bani?

Why do you think Jai did something as audacious as helping Bani knot the Dori of her blouse, considering that what he did was very personal and intimate.....and he wasn't flirting with her at all, because he looked extremely serious. Please give your opinon on Jai's gesture?

Going by yesterday's episode, Jai telling Bani, "Main nahin jaanta ki tumhare dil mein kya hai..." Do you think that Jai has a strong inkling about what Bani feels for him?

What do you think was the primary reason for Jai's sudden change of heart and his decision to let Bani free of this marriage? Was it an overnight decision or was the guilt of making Bani a target of his hatred and anger always lingering in the back of Jai's mind, which prompted him to stop this madness once and forever? Or was it the sudden onsurge of his feelings for Bani which scared him out of his wits and he decided to terminate the relationship before something else occurs?

Can you guess the meaning of Roshni's sly smile when Jigyasa tells her to be a part of her plan? Do you think that Roshni will double cross Jigyasa and eventually help out Jai and Bani come together?

After yesterday's episode, what sort of change in Jai's behaviour do you see towards his attitude to Bani? Will he still scream, shout and insult her as before, or just avoid her altogether?

An analytical question; We have seen the worst part of Jai and also the innate goodness of his Heart. What sort of a human being do you percieve Jai Walia to be? Please be as descriptive as you want to!

Will be eagerly awaiting your answers....

Lots of Love,

MT

PS: I am well on the way to typing the second part of Bani's letter of Love & Regret Fan-fic. Thank you so much for the encouragement!😳😊 Wil be posting the second part by noon today!

MT tell me about it!! i just loved the episode!! kya scene tha!! arggg why can't i see it on t/v today; god we are so behind!!

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Here are questions for today, I want to see all my Old Faithfuls coming to answer them😊:

Do you think that when Mausi comes back from her 10-day Haridwar Trip, Bani would be the one to open the Doors of the Walia House for her, as promised by Bani?

I'm definitely sure that bani will be the one opening the door for mausi!! In these ten days, thing will drasitcally change!! Bani is someone who fulfills all her promises and i'm sure she'll fulfill this one too!! I see jai and bani love story getting some where now!

Do you think that these 10 days would make Jai realize fully that he has never loved anyone in his life more than Bani? Do you think that Jai would be able to overcome his personal prejudices and confess his feelings to Bani?

I was thinking about this!! I think jai will come to a point where he will realize that he is indeed in love with bani and i think i know it'll happen in ten days!! Personally, i think jai is falling for bani too, so that's why he asked her that she should just leave and is free from the marriage bond!

Going by yesterday's episode, Jai telling Bani, "Main nahin jaanta ki tumhare dil mein kya hai..." Do you think that Jai has a strong inkling about what Bani feels for him?

Yes i have a feeling too!! I mean why would he even say that i don't know what lies in your heart!! Come on that's a big clue right there😆! And it's just surprising all the sudden his tone towards bani just changed!! kya baat hai jai ki!!

What do you think was the primary reason for Jai's sudden change of heart and his decision to let Bani free of this marriage?

One of the reasons might be that he thinks that bani is falling in love with him, or he for the first time listened to his heart rather than his ego!! He knew that bani has done so much for him and always covered up for him, but he was never able to give her what she deserved! Bani on one hand fulfilled all the wife duties towards him, and he couldn't even fulfill one!! So i guess there was a drastic change there because jai is coming to realize that it was never bani's fault!

Can you guess the meaning of Roshni's sly smile when Jigyasa tells her to be a part of her plan? Do you think that Roshni will double cross Jigyasa and eventually help out Jai and Bani come together?

Oo i'm having a strong feeling that jigyasa will be outsmart by roshni!! i think roshni will help bani and jai to unite!! waisay bhi jigz kay plan hamesha chopat hotay hein!! 😆 Jai said the right thing to ranveer one time, that jigz never thinks before she does something, and in this case i have a really strong feeling that she'll be bullied by roshni!!

After yesterday's episode, what sort of change in Jai's behaviour do you see towards his attitude to Bani? Will he still scream, shout and insult her as before, or just avoid her altogether?

No, he will not do that anymore because like he told her that he'll not taunt her or scold her anymore! After yesterday's episode, i'm sure there will be a good connection with them two, and he might actually talk to her nicely!

An analytical question; We have seen the worst part of Jai and also the innate goodness of his Heart. What sort of a human being do you percieve Jai Walia to be? Please be as descriptive as you want to!

Jai walia to me is a man who has everything in his life except he too made wrong decision when choosing love!! He has been decieved many times, that it actually changed him from good to bad. Bani was right one time to tell him that he is just like a child, who needs attention, love, and is stubborn!! I guess he has been through a lot and this has change the person he use to be; now that bani has entered in his life, he is changing back to the way he use to be; bani coming to his life affected him to a great extent! To me jai walia, is somewhat like bani!

PS: I am well on the way to typing the second part of Bani's letter of Love & Regret Fan-fic. Thank you so much for the encouragement!😳😊 Wil be posting the second part by noon today!

eh i loved the fan-fic letter you wrote!! amazing man; first i thought it was the update! lolzzz but u deserve an applause for that!!👏

love~~khoo~

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Here are questions for today, I want to see all my Old Faithfuls coming to answer them😊:

Do you think that when Mausi comes back from her 10-day Haridwar Trip, Bani would be the one to open the Doors of the Walia House for her, as promised by Bani?

I have a fear it will be Roshni. but then Bani is one girl who keeps her promises. lets see what happens

Do you think that these 10 days would make Jai realize fully that he has never loved anyone in his life more than Bani? Do you think that Jai would be able to overcome his personal prejudices and confess his feelings to Bani?

In the next 10 days, I do think that Jai will realize that he is in love with Bani and that he needs her like he has never needed anyone before. An article mentioned that Roshni will be staying at Jai's house, now if that happens in the next 10 days, then it might very well be Roshni who is somehown responsible for Jai realizing his feelings. But I don't think Jai will confess his feelings to Bani. Keeping in mind that this is kekta's serial, this eagerly awaited confession isn't likely to happen any time soon!

Why do you think Jai did something as audacious as helping Bani knot the Dori of her blouse, considering that what he did was very personal and intimate.....and he wasn't flirting with her at all, because he looked extremely serious. Please give your opinon on Jai's gesture?

Although he has denied it vehemently before, somewhere in his heart, Jai has come to accept Bani as his wife. He is not aware of this himself. Jai was trying to avoid Bani when he entered the room, but I guess his heart overtook his mind, and in an impulse he decided to tie the knot for her! Somewhere in his heart, i think, he believes that he has the right on her.

Going by yesterday's episode, Jai telling Bani, "Main nahin jaanta ki tumhare dil mein kya hai..." Do you think that Jai has a strong inkling about what Bani feels for him?

Oh yes he does! The main reason he has this talk with her is to protect her from further emotional distress. He doesnt want Bani to fly too high with her dreams and head for a fall on the face. ( diverging from this, somewhere i have a fear that jai is playing with bani only to give her a massive heart ache later😭)

What do you think was the primary reason for Jai's sudden change of heart and his decision to let Bani free of this marriage? Was it an overnight decision or was the guilt of making Bani a target of his hatred and anger always lingering in the back of Jai's mind, which prompted him to stop this madness once and forever? Or was it the sudden onsurge of his feelings for Bani which scared him out of his wits and he decided to terminate the relationship before something else occurs?

It has to be both reasons. Subconciously, I think, he never felt truly happy hurting Bani. With the sudden onsurge of his feelings for Bani, I think he is afraid of his own heart's desires. (Let me present an analogy: when i have a test, i pack my laptop, put it away from my vision so that im not attracted/lured to use it and ofcourse log onto IF😆) silly comparison but Jai wants to keep Bani away from himself because he doesnt want to fall for her further. there could be two reasons. One, that, he thinks Bani will reject him because she never approved of the age difference... Second, that,Jai is a man with a massive ego. it could be that he wants to stop himself from feeling what he has begun to feel for Bani, because in his mind, by doing so Jai Walia will be settling for an alternative (Bani) instead of his choice (Pia) That may be a mental block he has and once he truly understands that what he feels is love, then he will also understand that he wont be settling/compromising by continuing his relationship with Bani. Rather he will possess greater than what he had wanted if he gets Bani in the true sense.

im not sure whether the second point was clear. not even sure whether i believe in it. but it sure is a possible answer for his actions.

Can you guess the meaning of Roshni's sly smile when Jigyasa tells her to be a part of her plan? Do you think that Roshni will double cross Jigyasa and eventually help out Jai and Bani come together?

I really wish she double crosses jigs! but she is one mysterious woman. I really cant guess what shes upto!

After yesterday's episode, what sort of change in Jai's behaviour do you see towards his attitude to Bani? Will he still scream, shout and insult her as before, or just avoid her altogether?

Not expecting anymore screaming/shouting.. Thank God. but I think he will tell her to stop doing the little things she does such as keeping his night suit ready or bring his morning tea. He will try to avoid her too but the show directors are going to fail him miserably!😆

An analytical question; We have seen the worst part of Jai and also the innate goodness of his Heart. What sort of a human being do you percieve Jai Walia to be? Please be as descriptive as you want to!

Honest to the core and also passionate. He himself said once that he is not a backstabber. He does what he shows and shows what he does. He is a good human being and it is evident in the way he treats his Maasi. Respectful of talent and hardwork. He does have a tinge of pride, rather arrogance, in his attitude, but I guess that is the excess baggage when one is so so high in status.

Ofcourse, physically he is one appealing man! what with those eyes, that smirk, that smile, (lets leave the teeth aside, smoking is bad ppl😆), the way he keeps his hands in his pocket (shows he is somewhat introvert), .... oops that wasnt the question!

Will be eagerly awaiting your answers....

Lots of Love,

MT

PS: I am well on the way to typing the second part of Bani's letter of Love & Regret Fan-fic. Thank you so much for the encouragement!😳😊 Wil be posting the second part by noon today!

waiting for it eagerly! one more reason to come to kasamh se forum!👏

Do you think that when Mausi comes back from her 10-day Haridwar Trip, Bani would be the one to open the Doors of the Walia House for her, as promised by Bani? Yes

Do you think that these 10 days would make Jai realize fully that he has never loved anyone in his life more than Bani? Do you think that Jai would be able to overcome his personal prejudices and confess his feelings to Bani? These 10 days will make Jai uncomfortable as he will be drawn towards Bani, He will neither be able to confess nor will he be able to supress his feelings for Bani. Well I think he will confess his love for Bani at the very moment when Bani will be leaving him or while signing the divorce papers.....

Why do you think Jai did something as audacious as helping Bani knot the Dori of her blouse, considering that what he did was very personal and intimate.....and he wasn't flirting with her at all, because he looked extremely serious. Please give your opinon on Jai's gesture? He did it because ... I think Jai was ashamed of how he treated Bani and how she repayed it by taking care of Masi, moreover he couldnt stop himself, actually it wasnt him it wa his un confeseesd and un felt love which made him do that. He still is in dark that he is feeling soft for Bani.

Going by yesterday's episode, Jai telling Bani, "Main nahin jaanta ki tumhare dil mein kya hai..." Do you think that Jai has a strong inkling about what Bani feels for him? Yeah Jai has somehow caught it that Bani feels for him, that she has started to like him...

What do you think was the primary reason for Jai's sudden change of heart and his decision to let Bani free of this marriage? Was it an overnight decision or was the guilt of making Bani a target of his hatred and anger always lingering in the back of Jai's mind, which prompted him to stop this madness once and forever? Or was it the sudden onsurge of his feelings for Bani which scared him out of his wits and he decided to terminate the relationship before something else occurs? I think Jai was ashamed of how he treated Bani and how she repayed it by taking care of Masi, he is repenting his behaviour he had towards this innocent girl who didnt ever intend to hurt his esteem. Bani's behaviour towards him and Masi also Bani saving him and handling the awkward situations for him are hammering his conscience like hell so he wants to free her, it isnt an over night decision. Also he himself is unaware that he has a soft corner for Bani, ge is developing feelings for Bani, but he has come to know that he is falling soft for Bani and before something happens ...he wants to set everything back in its place.

Can you guess the meaning of Roshni's sly smile when Jigyasa tells her to be a part of her plan? Do you think that Roshni will double cross Jigyasa and eventually help out Jai and Bani come together? No. No doubt Roshni will create situation to throw Bani out. But she knows that once Bani is out Jigs wont support her as Jigs wants to rule alone and so she will make a bad image of Jigs too

After yesterday's episode, what sort of change in Jai's behaviour do you see towards his attitude to Bani? Will he still scream, shout and insult her as before, or just avoid her altogether? No, he wont do that instead he will try to avoid her as much as he can

An analytical question; We have seen the worst part of Jai and also the innate goodness of his Heart. What sort of a human being do you percieve Jai Walia to be? Please be as descriptive as you want to! Jai is a a matured person, a well settled and sucessful business man, he is arrogant, aggressive, a go getter but somewhere within him is a person who is very loving, caring and as innocent like a child. He is tough to the world but craves for love. When Pia came to him he was overjoyed as he found love when she left him he was filled with hatred just like the chuild who is deprived of his fav toy, who goes mad when his mum gives his toy to someone else. Same with Jai he went crazy when destiny snatched Pia from him. As a child throws tantrums and gets stubborn to destruct everything as his fav toy is shared, so was Jai...he got mad and tortured Bani as she was related to Pia his love. As a child finds solace in his mum after he is terribly hurt or sad Jai turned to Masi, remember himpleading to Masi to come to India saying I need you....

Do you think that when Mausi comes back from her 10-day Haridwar Trip, Bani would be the one to open the Doors of the Walia House for her, as promised by Bani?

ah ha...i mean yes i think by the time mausi cums bak from her 10-day Haridwar trip, bani wud b the 1 to open the door for her.....aw we all noe bani is gurl of her promise..........she always keeps all her promises.......no matter wat..........so this time it wudn't b an exception....n not just tht..........i m pretty sure in b/w these 10 days so many thigs will happen..........dat will also force her to stay bak at the walia house........n 1 of the main reason wud b roshni...😳

Do you think that these 10 days would make Jai realize fully that he has never loved anyone in his life more than Bani? Do you think that Jai would be able to overcome his personal prejudices and confess his feelings to Bani?

definitely........well atleast i hope so😳......this is taking in considaration to the article tht talks bout roshni facing an accident by rano's car........(YAY!! u go gurl!!!😆........hehe......joking😳)......but yea as it said tht roshni wud stay in the walia house n mausi, jai n bani although hates this fact........but allows her to stay........tht mean.....well mostly i think tht in this 10 days jai will surely fall for bani deeply....n wud start to realize his feeling for bani.......n yes he wud b able to overcum his personal prejidices.........but i don't think he wud confess his feelings to bani........(but it will b awsome if he does😉)

Why do you think Jai did something as audacious as helping Bani knot the Dori of her blouse, considering that what he did was very personal and intimate.....and he wasn't flirting with her at all, because he looked extremely serious. Please give your opinon on Jai's gesture?

wow!!!!........hard 1........hmmm.......i think he did it cuz.....as we cud all c he is developing sum sort of feeling fer her.....n also the fact of him feeling guilty for his actions toward bani....how he was very rude.....n he felt bad tht bani has done everything for mausi n his sake........no matter how rude he was to her........how she has always full filled wifely duty toward him......n how she was always there to protect him from mausi's accusation😳....(awwww)...also i think he kinda realized or noticed tht bani was falling for him.....n he felt bad......n i think helping bani tie the knot was a way for him to say sry n to tell her thxxx for everything he did.......as he is too shy to say sry out loud😳😛

Going by yesterday's episode, Jai telling Bani, "Main nahin jaanta ki tumhare dil mein kya hai..." Do you think that Jai has a strong inkling about what Bani feels for him?

yup......i think he does as he has been observing her for quite sum time.....n u can tell as he tends to b pretty calm toward her for a while now.....(well forgetting bout the shirt scene)....n also the fact tht he asked i don't noe wat id going ontht heart of your's.....tells a lot as....he has indeed noticed bani's is developing strong feelings for him😊

What do you think was the primary reason for Jai's sudden change of heart and his decision to let Bani free of this marriage? Was it an overnight decision or was the guilt of making Bani a target of his hatred and anger always lingering in the back of Jai's mind, which prompted him to stop this madness once and forever? Or was it the sudden onsurge of his feelings for Bani which scared him out of his wits and he decided to terminate the relationship before something else occurs?

as i said before...he felt bad for his action n rudeness toward bani....n i think he actually never like to hurt bani....cuz afterward he felt bad.......n as no matter wat she did bani has always full filled her duty toward him (caring for mausi, protecting him, never complaining).........n i also think he realized tht it was never bani's fault......n felt even more guilty for punishing her...when she didn't do nething.....n then ofcourse he noticed bani falling for him.....n bfore bani really falls for him badly........he wanted to prevent it......cuz he thought he wud never b able to keep her happy or give her wat she want.....(aww.....little does he noe tht bani has already fallen for him madly...w/ no doubt)😛😳

Can you guess the meaning of Roshni's sly smile when Jigyasa tells her to be a part of her plan? Do you think that Roshni will double cross Jigyasa and eventually help out Jai and Bani come together?

no!!!!............she is one character.......tht goes in circle😆......i mean it.....1 time she seems like a positive character n the next min a negative character.......(i m going absolutely kraze keeping up w/ her😆😆).......i have no clue as to wat goes in tht head of her.....(but honestly i hope she turns out to b a positive character afterall...n help jai n bani get together😳...it wud b fun seeing jigz plan bak fire once again..hehe😈😆)

After yesterday's episode, what sort of change in Jai's behaviour do you see towards his attitude to Bani? Will he still scream, shout and insult her as before, or just avoid her altogether?

no!!! i don't think he will scream, shout or insult her like before......n yes he wud try to avoid her mostly.....cuz he realizes tht bani is indeed falling for him.....n to prevent it....he wud try to stay away......but by staying away from bani....jai wud start missing her.....n wud wish for her to b next to him....😳...n u noe wat happens next😛...yes ofcourse both falling for eachother...😳...YAY!!!!!😃

An analytical question; We have seen the worst part of Jai and also the innate goodness of his Heart. What sort of a human being do you percieve Jai Walia to be? Please be as descriptive as you want to!

wow!!!...honestly there is so much to tell bout jai.....if i start i cud keep going on n on)....but in sum wayz i find jai n bani to b pretty much alike.....both caring n understanding....as both faced an unexpected condition.....where they were both helpless.....but over all they are brave n strong...as they fought for wat they belived.....(no wait tht was bani who fought....hehe😆)...jai on the other hand although threatened bani for many things never really did ne thing awfull....which shows his gud nature.....n as khoo said jai changed due to his failed luv.....but w/ bani by his side he is overcuming all tht sorrow n becuming the kool person he used to b😛.....n to add to tht he is actually learning to luv again....n this time tru luv (which he hold for bani)..

k i will stop for now.....cuz i cud go on n on.....great question MT...👏👏👏...keep it up😉😳

YIPEEEEEEEE😛............i m so happy..........i luved the letter.........it rocks big time👏........i m so excited to read the 2nd part.........to tell u the truth as soon as i come from school today.......i will run to mi comp............just to read the letter.........hehe.......btw thxxxx for continueing w/ the wonderful letter😳

luv, lisa😊

Hi MT!

Do you think that when Mausi comes back from her 10-day Haridwar Trip, Bani would be the one to open the Doors of the Walia House for her, as promised by Bani?
Bani is surely going to be there opening the door for Massi when she is coming back. She promised Massi she will keep it… and our hero must have been ecstatic when Bani promised…just didn't show it. He kept quite coz he promised Bani she will be free from his will, whatever she does is what she would want to do. After looking steady at her for something, he started looking down and elsewhere. It is going to be an eventful 10 days though… Jai Bani need to survive it.

Do you think that these 10 days would make Jai realize fully that he has never loved anyone in his life more than Bani? Do you think that Jai would be able to overcome his personal prejudices and confess his feelings to Bani?
Jai will realize the depth to which his emotions for Bani run in the next 10 days. The next 10 days is going to be tough… no guardian angel around to protect them, Jigyasa Roshini will be in full form…but if Jai-Bani survive these 10 days there is nothing ever going to come in between them. His heart to heart talk with Bani changed almost everything between them… he doesn't have a reason to be giving her those deadly glares and even Bani wont be scared in front of him… will relax both of them a lot in eachother's presence.
He has already overcome his prejudices towards Bani. Bani as Bani has a deep influence on his life she being Pia's sister also wasn't reason enough for Jai to hate her… but that was the only reason that had any negative influence in their relationship. Jai is so OVER that negativity… Will he confess? I would have to say no, not until Bani is going confess her love for him. I wont be surprised if he typically says "itne se bath kehne mein itna waqt laga diya"

Why do you think Jai did something as audacious as helping Bani knot the Dori of her blouse, considering that what he did was very personal and intimate.....and he wasn't flirting with her at all, because he looked extremely serious. Please give your opinon on Jai's gesture?
I found him very caring and considerate. Just look at the situation Bani was in… she was trying to tie the string, and Jai walked in… she stopped, Jai looked at her and turned away. But she was feeling awkward getting dressed in front of Jai, so she tried to tie it up when Jai wasn't looking. Bani couldn't have left the room with the strings open. It would have been awkward if Jai had walked out considering he stayed back for a while and more importantly he had something really important to talk to her about. This awkwardness would have been for a longer time if jai had stood with his back against her till she finished considering Ma'am was having a tough time tying it. So Jai helping her out for the best available option, and Jai did it so beautifully.
I loved that scene for the understanding and trust they had for eachother. He moved towards her and she left strings. And Jai was ever so gentle and didn't make her feel uncomfortable or he didn't chance maro. Though showing her he cared a lot for her, he didn't make a big issue out of it. Only a Husband could have done that. It was a intimate. private moment between Husband & Wife…considering the situation, Bani should have been all flushed out and embarrassed and downcast her eyes… but no, Jai held her eyes with nothing but unspoken tenderness and complete trust. It set the tone for what Jai had to say to Bani… he was more honest and free to say what he said… varna he would have been complete cold talking to Bani.

Going by yesterday's episode, Jai telling Bani, "Main nahin jaanta ki tumhare dil mein kya hai..." Do you think that Jai has a strong inkling about what Bani feels for him?
Jai knows what Bani feels for him, but cant understand. He cant understand how can this angel Love him when he was at his devilish best. I think that was what he was pondering on when he was all by himself in Goa. He has seen the difference in Bani… they have always shared a very formal, official relationship and he has seen respect and admiration for himself in Bani's eyes and now all he sees are lovelorn looks… his careing gesture radiate happiness on her face and his ruthlessness evokes extreme hurt and pain in her. So I would say he knows…if he is unsure about anything it is if he can reciprocate her love with the same intensity and purity.

What do you think was the primary reason for Jai's sudden change of heart and his decision to let Bani free of this marriage? Was it an overnight decision or was the guilt of making Bani a target of his hatred and anger always lingering in the back of Jai's mind, which prompted him to stop this madness once and forever? Or was it the sudden onsurge of his feelings for Bani which scared him out of his wits and he decided to terminate the relationship before something else occurs?
It was a quite a change… but if you ask me, I would say it was his emotions we saw in eyes for a while now that found words this time around. That unspoken, confused fleeting softness in Jai's eyes found his voice this time around with a sense of clarity and convictions. I always knew Jai knows he is being wrong hurting Bani, but the Dday would the day when he finds himself incapable of hurting her more.

There was already a huge turmoil in his heart, and his malice toward Bani was draining him out the most. He literally had to fight himself to harm her and then suffer the pain he caused her. It was a double trauma for him… he had to put a stop it for his own sanity. He seemed to understand that he is being unfair towards Bani, and she isnt to blame for everything wrong with him. He seemed to have realized that no one but Bani could have saved this situation when it came to Bani. The way he said "agar tumhare jagah koi aur hota, tho najanne kya hota" He was indicating to his past Gfs Roshini, Pia who wouldn't have done so much even if the circumstances were conducive, which Bani did despite all adversity. He knows this lady is far to special to be treated like this, especially by him when she has done so much for his sake. The most important reason of them all was the fact he had begun to realize that this woman is this epitome of a perfect soulmate. He began to see his emotions are running deeper than he could have been comfortable with at this stage. Having realized he loves Bani, there are too many factors that stop him from accepting the truth. One is doesn't trust his emotions. Second, could be that he cant commit to a relationship now. Third, there is guilt that is stopping him. Fourth, he is apprehensive his Past(Roshini) will overshadow their relationship forever. Lastly it could be that he think Bani deserves someone better than him who can love and care for her with the same intensity.
The reason could be anything or everything put together… but all he seemed to have realized it he cant see Bani suffering, which she is with him. So he wants to set her free. He wants to see her Happy and nothing else. It is Love when u realize you want the other person to be happy even if that means you are not going to be a part of it. This is Love, may be Jai is not ready to accept it. All I have to tell Jai is "jahane lagae jab Dil kisse ke kushi, dillagi yeh nahi yeh hai Dil ki Lagi…"

Can you guess the meaning of Roshni's sly smile when Jigyasa tells her to be a part of her plan? Do you think that Roshni will double cross Jigyasa and eventually help out Jai and Bani come together?
I think it is a mindblock or something, I just cant seem to see Roshini as a positive character. May be eventually she might turn a new leaf, but as of now, I don't think she has any good intensions for Jai-Bani's relationship. I find a streak of insanity in her. I find her dangerous and physical violent at times. I cant seem to get over the way she hurt Bani, nor can I ignore the fact she broke stuff when heard jai has gone back to Mumbai without telling her when he was supposed to have dinner with her. She gave me quite a fright when she said she knows how it feels when you something which is yours with someone else. But I am sure of onething, Roshini is going to con Jigyasa in a big way… that doesn't have to mean she becomes Bani's friend.

After yesterday's episode, what sort of change in Jai's behaviour do you see towards his attitude to Bani? Will he still scream, shout and insult her as before, or just avoid her altogether?
He is done with shouting and insulting her on purpose. He wish he can ignore her, but they say Love is about giving eachother soft glances which becomes a habit… and Jai is so much in Love, we are in for some serious eye locking sessions. Jai will put Bani at ease… she wont be the scared, timid Bani who kept gauging Jai's temper. Both of them will relax.

An analytical question; We have seen the worst part of Jai and also the innate goodness of his Heart. What sort of a human being do you percieve Jai Walia to be? Please be as descriptive as you want to!
I find Jai like a kid… who is pure at heart and honest about what he feels at the same time he is stubborn and doesn't want to accept things the way they are if they aren't not like the way he wishes them to be. After initial tantrums he does accept it as a way of life. He has this ability to forget very easily and not keep scores. I have observed it isnt a stray incident… he was angry with Bani for helping Pushkar out of jail, about the Mt Abu orphanage, abt getting Pia-Pushkar married in the walia mansion, abt that 70 lakhs he presumed she had taken from him but after that day he never brought it up… he forgets it completely. So much so, that he unceremoniously called off the revenge he had planned for Pia-Pushkar.
What I like about Jai the most is that he accepts his mistakes once he knows he is wrong… and he has no qualms about accepting his mistake… it might sound strange but I have never felt Jai was Egoist. Now I know u guys are going to say Anu has lost it… but seriously I haven't found him egoistic… I felt he stands by what he believes because he thinks it is right, once he knows he is wrong he will accept his mistake right away.
Jai is very Possessive and like anyone loves to be spoilt and pampered. He needs to be shown he his loved. He completely surrenders himself to the people he loves… he can go to any extent to see them happy, be it Massi, Dadi or now Bani. He values trust the most, he will forgive anyone expect those who betray his trust. Coz jai is a kind of a person who wont trust any one… he places his trust in them, only when they appeal to him or win his trust. Bani broke his trust, but won it back as well thought there is a cloud of uncertainty over it… but Jai wont forgive Pushkar or Pia for a long time now… he will ignore them though, for LIFE if I may add.
What I have always liked about Jai is very human, very relatable. To sum up all I have to say is Jai with his Positive and negatives is one man you cant help but accept him for what he is and Love him for the same.

How LOOOOOOOOONGGGGGGGGGGGG was that? Got carried away, afterall Jai was at his best Yday.
Lots of Luv
Anu.