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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Kools and Dabullis

Wow 2 years since we talked. I hope you guys are well and yes I do remember our debates. Kools I sent you the link today because even though it has been two years since we have talked, I did not want to mention you in a post, as if I was talking about you, without you knowing about it. I know that you have always liked things straight and wanted to give you that respect.

I did not expect you to post, or Dabullis. Reading your writing I am jarred back to former debates. You certainly have a way with words. As you remember I write in a quieter nature. I remember having debates with you and sometimes my stomach would hurt a little bit before I geared up to post. You got under my skin.

But you made me think. You made my time worthwhile, because of the ways that you made me think and re-think. I had to sharpen my words and ideas to post to your level. And that is the highest compliment that I can give to anyone, and to both of you I say this.

While we think differently, write differently, choose to express ourselves differently, I could never deny your intellect, nor your right to speak. For that I always stood up for you guys.

Frankly, sometimes it was hard for me to debate you. We were not friends, or friendly on that forum. I am quieter by nature and avoid confrontation, but I became a better thinker because of my debates with you. So thank you. You gave me that. And for that I will always be grateful to you. You have my regards, affection and respect.

I see you have made a home for yourself at the Pavitra Rishta forum. I wish you a life of healthy debate. Maybe I will come debate you one day on that forum for old times sake :)

BBAT is also a great story you guys may like it.

take care and indeed despite differences in thought, we do both love healthy debate and that is always a bond of mutual respect and admiration that we share

Peace
Edited by jpalagrawal - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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A few things I'd like to say...since I am the development team of Bhagonwali (fortunately or unfortunately for some)

One this conversation and discussion has moved past from pertaining to the series itself...so I'm going to close it (not trying to suppress anyone's views, if you feel it is unfair feel free to let me know)

As much as I appreciate the insight provided and I've seen it happen at the forum, my role has always been to discourage it. I've always advised people to refrain from jumping down people's throat when they've had differing views. I am biased I will admit to it. I have certain opinions and I'm allowed to them but I've never forced them on someone and have never allowed others to do the same. If any member has felt such or felt like they've been targeted they're welcome to come to me. I've always been fair in my dealings, as far as I know.

Personally to me I refrain using the like button because I might like something in a post and not like something else...so I'd rather take the time to quote a person and respond to them. If people have thanked me for their updates then I do press like because it's my way of thanking them for their responses.

So pertaining to Bhagonwali, any views for or against it, constructively stated is welcome. If there are problems with the development team of Bhagonwali (which is me) you're welcome to open a topic as such or report it to someone who is higher up than me. If there is a complaint against other development team then this isn't the place for it unfortunately as much as you'd like to vent. It is a general discussion and is probably placed better in the general discussion forum.

Other issues with other members or if another member is rude to you regarding your opinion please bring it to my notice by PM and not making public topics like this because all it does is cause instigation and negative feeling within members, because people feel defensive and accused. If I can not deal with it or if my bias comes through then I will refer you to someone who can do a better job.


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