I dont see why anyone should be forced to do something they dont want to do. It is all a matter of choice.
If someone likes to cook, they should cook. If someone likes to clean, they should clean. Why should anyone be compelled to do anything that they dont want to do?
Particularly in a household like the Parekh one, where they are economically well-to-do and can hire cooks, maids and so on and so forth - so it is not necessary that family members engage in division of labour.
Do you think that Neeta Ambani cooks in her own home ...or that the ambani daughter in law will have to do it when she gets married to Neetas son.
Leela and ba were doing fine in terms of cooking and cleaning before the bahus came into their own home. So there is no need for them to sack maids and compel koyal or sejal to do housework.
New bahus do not mean new maids.
Sejal enjoys cooking and doing housework, so those are her hobbies. She is happy to do all these things and it brings her joy.
Doing all these things will have no joy for Koyal - she sees then as a burden.
I believe that it is worse to force people who have no joy in that activity to do it.
We do not see the full ambit yet - Koyal may have other talents etc. which may come to light later.