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Posted: 14 years ago
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I dont thino we can blame gauri for that. But i dont think she helped matters in regarsa to his actions and perceptions. Jagat was not a child that was being moulded, gauri may have been an influence but she only brought out feelings and attitudes which were already in him.

Gauri may have influenced his behaviour but i dont think she is soley to blame, Jagat was not being coaxed for manipulated into doing what he did.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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G is one confused soul. From what they have shown, she doesn't believe or cannot live up to what she says. She gives tall talks but doesn't have the maturity, patience and experience to stand by them. She is short tempered, very stubborn, insecure and wants things done her way. She may realize things momentarily but is quick to overlook it if she sees that she cannot control the situation as per her linking. Her childhood trauma unfortunately has made her into a person who constantly craves for attention and acceptance. When she faces a challenging situation she lacks the maturity to tackle it prudently. All these things go against her. Her marrying Jagya and seeking the acceptance from the Singh family is only as far as I understand to satisfy her bruised ego from her broken child marriage.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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gauri will never ever change. she is SELFISH. in my opinion she asked sorry only to grab attention from her Dr.J
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I watched the video posted above... OMG, Gauri is insane and crazy. The way she was yelling and yelling at Anandi was absolutely UNBEARABLE, I felt like slapping her, how could she behave like this, and how could everyone around her tolerate it. Dadisa I understand, but even Sumitra and Gehna didn't bat an eyelid? How could they tolerate her shouting at Anandi? Where is Jagya? Someone needed to step in - this is absolutely ridiculous and why does Anandi put up with it?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Gauri's resolutions have always been short lived be it staying away from jagath or having a bit more patience and the latest is this attitude. I don't think it will last long and if it does then maybe the CV's are planning for a track change.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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regarding jagat, he is one lost soul too... he has lost jagya's innocence long back but he still kept the other traits - like thinking only for himself, getting things done his way, by hook or by crook... assuming every one to be at his service etc etc... that had been him - all through... and a lot of that comes from his upbringing. he was brought up to believe that way... and old habits die hard!

as with gauri... she did influence jagat to the point where his ready-to-sway soul became obsessed with the 'modern life - modern ladki' fixation. apart from that i think there wasnt much she could do... coz she developed her way of thinking based on the bitter experiences of the past , badly wanted to do something for the society and all that only till the time she had to come face to face with life... even after the marriage with jagat, she was living under the false ideas - that she can correct every one and everything... when she failed, unlike in studies where she always excelled, she couldnt take it... and is now trying different way - by trial and error... quite natural... life is a struggle for most of us... nothing comes easily... i find this character very close to reality...

anandi - she is someone i cant relate to these days... i mean... how could a girl be so selfless... well, may be there are , but am unaware of the existence of such ppl... the limited circle of mortals around me do think of themselves at least during a crisis... it may be my lack of exposure that i still wonder how on earth can she think of gauri's plight when she is equally a victim and has her heartaches to deal with.

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