Has Damini given correct advice to Ichcha?

Friends, do you think Damini gave correct advice to her daughter 😕, she said 'you did whatever best you could do, now don't look back, forget Veer & move on with your life'
I don't think so 😊 she knows how much Veer loves Ichcha...okay...things are not looking good today, but this is a passing phase & does not mean that Ichcha should break all ties with her husband...
Its ammo's responsibility to at least once talk to Veer & sort things out, Ichcha has also not done exactly the right thing by just running away from bzoo.

Veer has made a mistake by not trusting Ichcha...but Ichcha made a bigger mistake by forcing her beliefs on Veer all the time, now she is just reaping the fruits of what she sowed, how can she run away leaving Veer in such a mess.

There will be such moments in life when there's a disagreement between couples, but Ichcha should give Veer some time to get out of this situation, after all both of them love each other dearly & separation in such a case is not a solution at all.

I expected ammo to explain this to Ichcha & not provoke her further to snap all ties with Veer.😔

Ek se badhkar ek discussion 😛 Now the forum is actually sounding like a Discussion forum in the true sense of the word rather than Gang fights 😆😆

Vijaya, firstly you've put forth a fabulous point 👏👍🏼 Very very meaningful post. You might just get labeled "old schooled" though 😆 Because, these values, of family interventions to sort out a problem between a couple pretty much fall in that category. In today's world - women will want to slap a divorce notice the minute a husband questions the wife. They're willing to be infidel at the drop of hat and they'll have no guilt about it and in turn will blame the husband for ...may be .. one week in a row he did not sing praises on how she looks 😆 or may be didnt 'do it' when she wanted it 😆 Ego ego and more ego!😆

Firstly, Iccha deserved to be questioned. I cannot garner any sympathy towards her 👎🏼 she dug her own grave And after series of suspicious activities you still expect a man to be your loyal puppy-- thats just nonsense!

Now talking from Iccha's perspective, she expected her husband to trust her and couldnt deal with the mistrust she got from her in-laws and this time even her husband! And she was always the one who had to prove herself. She was always put through all sorts of authenticity tests. So that's the only point I'd sympathize with..

I too felt that Ammo was a lil out of her character today. Agreed Ichcha has suffered a lot but this is a husband wife matter and should be sorted out with each other like Umed said. I think Divya accusing Damini of having an "affair" with Jogi has shocked her so much that she probably does not want any men around. Moreover Veer is still thinking that Ichcha is at Jogis place with Ammo. What if he comes to know that both have left together?

Originally posted by: sonali_dg

Ek se badhkar ek discussion 😛 Now the forum is actually sounding like a Discussion forum in the true sense of the word rather than Gang fights 😆😆

Vijaya, firstly you've put forth a fabulous point 👏👍🏼 Very very meaningful post. You might just get labeled "old schooled" though 😆 Because, these values, of family interventions to sort out a problem between a couple pretty much fall in that category. In today's world - women will want to slap a divorce notice the minute a husband questions the wife. They're willing to be infidel at the drop of hat and they'll have no guilt about it and in turn will blame the husband for ...may be .. one week in a row he did not sing praises on how she looks 😆 or may be didnt 'do it' when she wanted it 😆 Ego ego and more ego!😆

Firstly, Iccha deserved to be questioned. I cannot garner any sympathy towards her 👎🏼 she dug her own grave And after series of suspicious activities you still expect a man to be your loyal puppy-- thats just nonsense!

Now talking from Iccha's perspective, she expected her husband to trust her and couldnt deal with the mistrust she got from her in-laws and this time even her husband! And she was always the one who had to prove herself. She was always put through all sorts of authenticity tests. So that's the only point I'd sympathize with..

Thank you Sonali.😊...I really felt this was a point worth discussing...we're talking about a sacred relationship like marriage...cant just toss it around frivolously...if one has taken a decision to get married, then it is your responsibility to protect, nurture & maintain the sanctity of this relation to the best extent possible.
Don't mind if it somebody thinks this as coming from an 'old school of thought'...but I do strongly object to taking marriage vows so lightly ..😕..from either parties.

I think She was trying to make Ichcha come out of her trauma by suggesting this 🤔

I think Ammo is angry on Veer n that made her say these words. Like Iccha she kept on telling to Nani n co. that she has a lot of faith on Veer. She is hurt, that's all. Even Ammo had a lot of high expectations from Veer like us😆 n she was let down by him

Originally posted by: souroj

I think Ammo is angry on Veer n that made her say these words. Like Iccha she kept on telling to Nani n co. that she has a lot of faith on Veer. She is hurt, that's all. Even Ammo had a lot of high expectations from Veer like us😆 n she was let down by him

Rightly said Souroj, 😉...but phir bhi...after so many incidents, now even ammo should understand that her daughter's happiness eventually lies being with veer...they are a made for each other pair yaar...and I'm waiting for some happy moments to make a nice VM on them 😉

Ammo gave her wrong advice, it is fine if Damini leaves house for her self respect, but Icha should have advised to be brave and fight with Tapori and not too run away from problems

Lol, when damini always gave mata icha right motivation and advice icha was least bothered to listen and to follow but now when Damini is horribly wrong, Icha decides to take it , wow wat a daughter ... Looks like she is attracted to Negativity in life

Originally posted by: vijayam

Friends, do you think Damini gave correct advice to her daughter 😕, she said 'you did whatever best you could do, now don't look back, forget Veer & move on with your life'
I don't think so 😊 she knows how much Veer loves Ichcha...okay...things are not looking good today, but this is a passing phase & does not mean that Ichcha should break all ties with her husband...
Its ammo's responsibility to at least once talk to Veer & sort things out, Ichcha has also not done exactly the right thing by just running away from bzoo.

Veer has made a mistake by not trusting Ichcha...but Ichcha made a bigger mistake by forcing her beliefs on Veer all the time, now she is just reaping the fruits of what she sowed, how can she run away leaving Veer in such a mess.

There will be such moments in life when there's a disagreement between couples, but Ichcha should give Veer some time to get out of this situation, after all both of them love each other dearly & separation in such a case is not a solution at all.

I expected ammo to explain this to Ichcha & not provoke her further to snap all ties with Veer.😔

fab post Vijayam ...

Now damini does seem to be the logical n sane person she was earlier ...she is advising her daughter to break off ties with her husband because he did not trust her viewpoint & they had a misunderstanding ..she is not even eager to talk To veer abt What happened & how

why veer is to b blamed ..every proof has gone against Dumb Ichcha ..she could nt provide any counter proof & Veer did not even fight or argue with her ..He spoke out his disappointment over her behavior..its his perspective

What does Damini want a divorce for her daughter & a 3rd hubby for Ichcha ...I dont get it why CVs r trying to show her as someone who is not trying to save her daughter's marriage 😕