6th July... Old Lover confrontation - Page 3

Wat an episode! Deepti was simply awesome! How well her expressions convey her feelings…how well d smallest nuances were brought forth! 👏👏👏

IMV can't accept CP's renunciation of d world, seeing it as running away. CP sees her renunciation as finally being at peace wid herself nd d world at large. Both hv taken extreme steps 2 cum 2 terms wid their past. IMV hasn't yet cum 2 terms wid his past where as CP has, by completely erasing her past self nd starting anew. But aren't we all a product of our past?

Duniya mein hum aaye hai toh jeena hi padega

Jeevan hai agar zeher toh peena hi padega

Compared 2 IMV-CP it is Charu who has truly tried 2 make the best of her lyf in spite of d adversities she too faced! Actually Charu as well as Cp's lyf couldn't hv been so bad 2 take such extreme measures. I know having a drunk as a husband who is totally irresponsible is not an easy life, but not beyond endurance as CP had a rich father for support. The same goes for Charu as although she had an ambitious husband 4 whom success was d bottom line nd basically their take on life was drastically different, but she too wasn't deprived as such.Whereas IMV had it all but was too engrossed wid d one thing he couldn't hv, 2 appreciate nd nurture d love nd family tht he had, as CP rightly pointed out to him. Many ppl hv marriages based on less than dat. As those 2 lines frm d song convey u hv 2 face d world nd try 2 make d best of wat lyf offers.

So my POV is dat both CP nd IMV chose 2 run frm their past. The only difference is tht CP has found inner peace whereas IMV is still a lost soul.

BTW I felt d last confrontation between IMV nd CP was turning out 2 be a clash of egos!

Originally posted by: sonali.19281

@Kools...ooo what an entry dude..😆 bahut majaa ayega in discussing this.. I advice u to watch it pronto.. I completely agree with what you wrote.. it is a battle of lifestyles and perceptions.. as usual to each their own. but i felt CP hit the nail at one point when she said.. IMVs own self.. or spirit as you call it.. has become so big.. tht he himself is scared of it.. he controls everyone outside.. but has no control over his own mind.. how else can one explain his life going topsy turvy.. by just meeting a familiar face.. thts what she calls herself a face.. of CP.. n he acc to her.. she really let go of tht face.. n the illusions tht come with it

@Munira... told ya you would love it.. deepti just elevates the whole level by leagues.. I do see what you are trying to say.. both had their own insecurities.. their own weakness.. bottom line they dealt with it differently.. running away is not what i call it.. its making a choice for me.. and I think you are being critical when you think Charu and Chandru have it better off and CP took the easy route by resorting to escapism by some ways.. well I find it hard to judge someone's way of life.. I may or may not have done the same.. but I can't take a call on it..😆

@Kools: I was saying the same thing to Munira.. first I am the worst when it comes to taking calls on love.. n worse even trying to comprehend its depth😆.. I dont think CP loved IMV lesser.. her love was different.. it was stronger if anything.. she could let go.. I dont think Sabina loved Vaibhav any lesser.. her love again had immense strength.. and dignity..

Originally posted by: sonali.19281

@Munira... told ya you would love it.. deepti just elevates the whole level by leagues.. I do see what you are trying to say.. both had their own insecurities.. their own weakness.. bottom line they dealt with it differently.. running away is not what i call it.. its making a choice for me.. and I think you are being critical when you think Charu and Chandru have it better off and CP took the easy route by resorting to escapism by some ways.. well I find it hard to judge someone's way of life.. I may or may not have done the same.. but I can't take a call on it..😆

As I see it.. individuality is a very imp thing. .Charu found it in her alternative life.. in her ashram.. that keeps her in peace.. Devki finds it in work.. and CP found it in spiritualism.. I know what you mean by survival instinct.. but at what cost.. for me its better to fight for your individuality and peace of mind than lead a miserable existence.. Like I said b4.. CP may have taken the step for BBs sake.. but on the way she couldn't sacrifice one thing.. that's HER SELF.. and she found it through Parimita

Sure did love it!

^^ I am loving this debate.. and while I completely agree with your noun and adjective insinuations.. I would like to point out tht a apart from IMV no one has really isolated themselves.. yes Parimita says the aura of CP is no more.. but thts coz after her accident she found a new awakening a new birth of sorts.. but in reality.. all of us have tht sense of isolation even if we reach out to everyone.. that sense of self.. that we may or maynot want to share and expose to even our loved ones.. that very sense of self that feels threatened now and then.. the ease and degree depends from a person to person..