Intership Stipend and financial woes of G_J

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Posted: 14 years ago
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well, i completely fail to understand the financial woes of G_J.. for
1. Their studies were sponsored by their families..
2. Their rent and living expenses in Mumbai was sponsored by their famillies..
3. They need to do 1-yr "stipended" internship to get their MBBS degrees..
also.. In India its compulsory for thm to practice in "Villages" 4 1 year as interns.. to get their MBBS degree...and J didnt want to practice in village?😲
Looking at these two doctors and their attitudes, now I wonder wether they even have those degrees?😆..
well, clearly G had lost his mind to have chosen such an immature, irresponsible, shortsighted, and completely dependent person as J as her husband..
1. He didnt secure himself financially before thinking of marraige.. when Bhairon clearly told him he wont b lending him any further money..
2. What happened of the stipend money.. as it is a full-time job they get a really okay salary of around 12-20 k per month if not hefty sum.. for 1 year.. wat happened of it.. with their living expenses incurred by their parents/gaurdians they shud've saved some sort of money...
3. Wat abt G's stipend money?
4. if J deposited his "earned" money in his currently "blocked" account.. the account cud'nt have been blocked for more than 2 mnths.. and living expenses in Mumbai for a couple for 2 months aint tht much especially when one of thm is already "sponsored".. 2 months of incurring own living expenses with at least 2 months salary inhand wont make u bankrupt! I m shocked tht this newly married has no money on his hands..😲 was he incurring expenses of G too in Mumbai?😲
3. Their mrg expenses were almost nothing.. travelling from Mumbai to Jetsar aint tht expensive..😲
I understand thrs not ATM in Jetsar.. so G cannot withdraw money.. bt y didnt they come with sufficient funds in hands to Jetsar... with no money on hands.. wat wer thy thinking b4 coming to Jetsar.. borrowing from angry Singh parivaar...😆.. wen they didnt know whethr DS wud actually support thm.. wow.. J is totally confident of DS.. he believes her blindly..😆 he believed DS wud support him financially.. and tht they wud actually provide money for G's education finances as well... how naive!
expenses to travel to Mumbai rnt tht high.. otherwise how a common man wud travel? 1500 is enuf for thm to travel back like a common ppl and work for a few days.. as they already have a rented house.. to live in..
For a solution, Y shudnt J let go doing MS and seek a job instead and let G do her MS.. or rather both forgo their dreams of doing MS for their own "self-respect".. eh... who m i talking abt?
btw, they have nothing to avail a student loan.. and also v dont know how they fared in their exams!😆
all in all, G has choosen a worst husband .. he can b a gud lover/BF, bt he is a failed husband..😆.. and its jst starting.. wat happens of thm, wen they start their mrd life a amidst financial crisis..😆 the tense situation has already strained their r'ship.. wat happens wen it will b compounded by financial burden and household responsibilities..😆
its one thng to say goody goody lovey dovey words and its another thing to live upto it!😆.. Ask me.. we had a courtship of nearly 5 yrs b4 getting engaged.. still for 1st two yrs it seemed as if i didnt know him completely..😆 even wen my BF/hubby was/is the most responsible person between us!😆.. well G-J have plus pnt thy did live together bt it was more like roomsharing thn living like a H-W..hmm.. thier real test will b in Mumbai..😆
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vasuja thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
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matured love aur marriage mein yeh sab kuch hota hein😉

J was not even planning to go to Jetsar remember.After marriage he wanted to take off to Mumbai. And even before marriage he knew his father has blocked his account. If he had planned to go to Mumbai immediately after Marriage, how did he plan to survive? where will he get money? If he had guts to go back to Mumbai that time, then why not now?

Was he expecting Gauri's poor parents or bade papa to fund him too?

or did he think his friends will give him money listening to their amar prem kahani even after being insulted by him?

What was his plans if he ever had any?

May be beleived too much in miracles😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yes even i have heard that they get stipend so why can't they just go and start a life in Mumbai instead of getting insulted repeatedly by everyone. Any person with even a percent self respect won't want to live like that. I mean they are capable enough to provide for themselves but ofcourse muft ki roti todne ko mikle to thodi beijjati bhi seh lenge🤢
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: vasuja

matured love aur marriage mein yeh sab kuch hota hein😉

J was not even planning to go to Jetsar remember.After marriage he wanted to take off to Mumbai. And even before marriage he knew his father has blocked his account. If he had planned to go to Mumbai immediately after Marriage, how did he plan to survive? where will he get money? If he had guts to go back to Mumbai that time, then why not now?

Was he expecting Gauri's poor parents or bade papa to fund him too?

or did he think his friends will give him money listening to their amar prem kahani even after being insulted by him?

What was his plans if he ever had any?

May be beleived too much in miracles😆


The best part is after all that happened he still believes his father will give him money😆 Love and Hope has no limits😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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u r absolutely right j might b a good BF (i dnt have ne clue) bt he is a failed husband... this is d 2nd time he is failed. ekbar experience hok bhi koi fayda nahi pehli shadi ki analysis kare bina hi doosri kar li..1st time sara kharch gharwale uthate the i think isbaar bhi usne wohi socha hoga.. poor gauri us bichari ki akal to ghas charne gayi hai.. jaitsar ki ghas 🤣 aur jaggu ka to akal naam ki chij se bhi door door ka nata nahi hai...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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the thing that irritates me more is that he never had plans to reconcile with his pamily or go to Jetsar..He was to go to Mumbai...how did he ever plan to continue???

Instead of all these dramas they could have shown GAGA in mumbai married all loving initially and when the financial crisis strikes Jagya comes back to his chauvanistic self and gauri realises he is a moron and dumps him.

On the other hand they could have shown Anandi study, rebuild her life and learn to get over Jagya
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: chocobear88


The best part is after all that happened he still believes his father will give him money😆 Love and Hope has no limits😆



Shamelessness at its worst. The guy has no self-respect. After all this to go and say bapusa, money pls!!! Educated gawars I say both Mrs and Mr Jagat😡😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: chocobear88



<font color="#3300cc">The best part is after all that happened he still believes his father will give him money😆Love and Hope has no limits😆</font>

bhairo ko dekhke aisa laga money nahi joote dega vo jaggu ko..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I guess he cv forgot about all of that, they seem to be forgetting a lot of real facts recently to suit their current track. Or are maybe its because jagat and gauri didnt really expect.to stay this long in the haveli and that is why they didnt bring much money with them.

But does that mean they only had 1000rupeess wih them because 500was given by ds as neg 😆 thata bit naive to do. I dont know kuch about coating in india but 1000rupees does not aound like a lot of money. How long would that last?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Bhairon should never have given power of attorney to Anandi. She will give him the money..Thats for sure😡 He should have kept the POA with himself. Becoz no one else can be strong with it like him, not even Basanth.

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