well, i completely fail to understand the financial woes of G_J.. for
1. Their studies were sponsored by their families..
2. Their rent and living expenses in Mumbai was sponsored by their famillies..
3. They need to do 1-yr "stipended" internship to get their MBBS degrees..
also.. In India its compulsory for thm to practice in "Villages" 4 1 year as interns.. to get their MBBS degree...and J didnt want to practice in village?😲
Looking at these two doctors and their attitudes, now I wonder wether they even have those degrees?😆..
well, clearly G had lost his mind to have chosen such an immature, irresponsible, shortsighted, and completely dependent person as J as her husband..
1. He didnt secure himself financially before thinking of marraige.. when Bhairon clearly told him he wont b lending him any further money..
2. What happened of the stipend money.. as it is a full-time job they get a really okay salary of around 12-20 k per month if not hefty sum.. for 1 year.. wat happened of it.. with their living expenses incurred by their parents/gaurdians they shud've saved some sort of money...
3. Wat abt G's stipend money?
4. if J deposited his "earned" money in his currently "blocked" account.. the account cud'nt have been blocked for more than 2 mnths.. and living expenses in Mumbai for a couple for 2 months aint tht much especially when one of thm is already "sponsored".. 2 months of incurring own living expenses with at least 2 months salary inhand wont make u bankrupt! I m shocked tht this newly married has no money on his hands..😲 was he incurring expenses of G too in Mumbai?😲
3. Their mrg expenses were almost nothing.. travelling from Mumbai to Jetsar aint tht expensive..😲
I understand thrs not ATM in Jetsar.. so G cannot withdraw money.. bt y didnt they come with sufficient funds in hands to Jetsar... with no money on hands.. wat wer thy thinking b4 coming to Jetsar.. borrowing from angry Singh parivaar...😆.. wen they didnt know whethr DS wud actually support thm.. wow.. J is totally confident of DS.. he believes her blindly..😆 he believed DS wud support him financially.. and tht they wud actually provide money for G's education finances as well... how naive!
expenses to travel to Mumbai rnt tht high.. otherwise how a common man wud travel? 1500 is enuf for thm to travel back like a common ppl and work for a few days.. as they already have a rented house.. to live in..
For a solution, Y shudnt J let go doing MS and seek a job instead and let G do her MS.. or rather both forgo their dreams of doing MS for their own "self-respect".. eh... who m i talking abt?
btw, they have nothing to avail a student loan.. and also v dont know how they fared in their exams!😆
all in all, G has choosen a worst husband .. he can b a gud lover/BF, bt he is a failed husband..😆.. and its jst starting.. wat happens of thm, wen they start their mrd life a amidst financial crisis..😆 the tense situation has already strained their r'ship.. wat happens wen it will b compounded by financial burden and household responsibilities..😆
its one thng to say goody goody lovey dovey words and its another thing to live upto it!😆.. Ask me.. we had a courtship of nearly 5 yrs b4 getting engaged.. still for 1st two yrs it seemed as if i didnt know him completely..😆 even wen my BF/hubby was/is the most responsible person between us!😆.. well G-J have plus pnt thy did live together bt it was more like roomsharing thn living like a H-W..hmm.. thier real test will b in Mumbai..😆
Edited by achiever - 14 years ago