juda hoke bhi tu mujme kahi..jai & bani

juda hoke bhi tu mujme kahi baki hai....... earlier when this song came in back ground it was purely for jai's rememberance of pia and her betrayal but this time? was it again pia? no. jai's eyes was searching something when he was alone in goa. was it pia's? no. then was it bani's rememberance? answer is yes. as adi said yesterday that whatever happened between him and bani, jai had the choice to got apart from her. but he never did it coz he has a very strong feeling for bani. there is a hidden understanding alongwith feeling between them which bind them together. at the same time he don't forget the bani's words that she is with him and in walia house till masi is there. when roshani asked about love, his answer was he has nothing to do with it. but he very well knows that he has lot to do with the meaning of this word. remember his words that after certain age when a man loves someone, he gives his life for the happiness of that person. he gave his life to pia but pia throw him like a stone in the food. 😡

now comes bani. from the beginning he has a feeling for bani but in different manner. he always has a feeling and respect for her maturity, sincearity, her understanding and caring nature. after their marraige bani's these quality convert in love for her. his eyes tells everything. but as i said he remember the fact, thats why he keep distance from her. 😭history repeat itself with different situation. when a man love someone after certain age, he gives his life. but here is bani who never ditch him he knows but he don't want to go through the turmoil of heart breaking with the bani's walking out of his life as soon as masi leave. he knows that first time he somehow manage but this time he can't be able to bare it. it will be a very difficult for him. he will be completely shatter. so to hide his true feeling for her, he always become rude or shout on her when she is around him. as soon as she left, the feeling of pain show on his face.😭

so, this song is for bani.
juda hoke bhi tu mujme kahi baki hai...(bani is not with him),
palko mein banke ansu tu chali ati hai... (bani's rememberance),
ab to adat si hai mujko aise jine mein...(knowing the fact that bani will leave him one day)

wwowow kiah.. u r so right...i agree for Jai being angry to Bani.. but somehow he will realize his love for Bani and will stop her.. dont u guyz think that? but the question - does Bani really love Jai or she has feelings of sympathy or being insult in front of everybody? i really like the way u put song for Jai - Bani.....

very well said kiah. now the person is changed. first it was pia and now its bani. way to go jai and bani.

It is true...Jai is falling for Bani..Yes. he does insult her every moment/ chance he gets but yes there is a remorseful face shown later...MT or Khoo mentioned in one of their posts that he is in Denial...he somehow is starting to realize he loves Bani but wont give in because of too many heart breaks i gues...

i havent seen the episode yet but i too agree that now the words of the song were for bani. i agree with what u said for the most part except that u used the words "he knows"

to me it seems like jai is getting/has gotten attached to bani but i dont think that he knows that she is the one he needs, that she won't ever leave him....

he is still in the initial stages, once she leaves me may feel the pang of lonliness, question himself, upon getting hints, he may then go into denial mode and finally upon being confronted by his own thoughts, adi and others, he may realize that yes bani is the one he needs, the one he respects, the one he cares for and ofcourse the one he loves.

usually passionate and intense feelings are momentary, but the strong, slowly developed feelings are permanent and have a greater grasp on relations.

what he experienced with pia had great intensity and it was more like admiration which he mistook for love. he admired her guts, her courage in talking so playfully with the man, Jai Walia, who people (not his family) are intimidated by. he liked the way she challenged him to do what he never did in years (wear a red pullover!) and it seems like he knew that one of the things pia really valued in life was money which had the power to buy her everything she desired. that is why he proposed to her the way he did. saying that he has enough money to support her desires, fancies..... blah blah. and if pia did get married to him, i do believe that he would be satisfied and pamper her to the greatest limits. and he would flaunt her to the world too!

but now that jai is married to bani, he will experience the sweetness of sacrifice (esp. when he finds out that at one point bani loved pushky) , the strength of endurance, and the satisfaction in caring for others. once he reaches the point of realization that bani is the one for him, he will look back at what he lost (pia) and find that what he has lost is nothing compared to what he has gained (bani)

aww i cant wait for this to happen.

what do you guys think??

i agree kiah.....jai is falling (or has already fallen 😉 ) for Bani but of course he doesn't want to give up everything for her like he did for pia and return empty-handed 😊

I agree Kiah...yesterday the song that was played when Jai was roaming aimlessly near the Beach, it was meant for Bani and not for Pia....as Anu mentioned in her post, Jai's eyes don't have any pain or anger in them, there is just a confusion and hurt...as if he is wondering why is he hurting Bani so much when he knows in his heart that she is innocent!

Jai is surely falling big time for Bani...he had such a heartbroken look when he tells her to go to Mount Abu, and specially so, because Bani looks so sad at the thougth of not being with Jai....its like both of them know what is happeing to each other, yet one is not able to express and the other does not want to express!

I wish Bani comes to Goa and Jai and she are forced to spend a day or two in Goa...that would surely bring about a sea change in their relationship!

MT

I just wanna say, that i really like that song!! such deep words!! in this matter, it suits jai's situation perfectly!!

i think this time it was bani; i'm sure he has forgotten pia, or is trying to forget her!! u know probably he just thinking about the womens that stepped in his life!! to think about it, each women left an impact on him!! but yaa atif can sing good!!

me too even i agree with kiah jai is falling in love hes mising bani n thats y he was so upset n each word u said was absolutely right n ram is gr8 actor he conveys the emotions his dialogues dont say so much but his eyes speak
annu

well said Kiah...if it reall was for Bani...then a big thankypu to mausi and Roshni...as cause of them Jai probably realised that his happiness lies in Bani!!