C'm on! Give Abhimanyu a break!

hey FG good day,

he could have told her on their last date...but no he wanted 2 b in TOP 4..so ratan would come 2 his place & hiz family & him get free publicity...

@harpkaur for the first time I completely agree wid u😆

Originally posted by: rose-girl

@harpkaur for the first time I completely agree wid u😆

Originally posted by: harpkaur

he could have told her on their last date...but no he wanted 2 b in TOP 4..so ratan would come 2 his place & hiz family & him get free publicity...

so datz dhokhaa..

i fully undrstand about having feelingz for other girl even after they broke up..

where were the feelings when he said i love you???? where were the feelings the whole tyme???

just because his friends told him that his ex have been calling them he got the feelings back???

he said he didnt have tyme...he spent so much tyme with her but didnt tell her.

the show may be scripted but even if it was real it would be wrong...any girl would feel liek ratan iz feeling

well hiz manliness iz fake...if he wz man enough then when he said dis yamla jatt wantd 2 say something 2 u...dat same yamla could have also said oh ratan i still have some feelings for other girl...

then he would be eliminated & sent home & wouldnt get 1-2 more episodez of fame

he said"maine kaha comptition tough ho raha hai chal i love you bol daal"

we r nt bashing him...itz a fact

I agree with your point of view. I'm just putting myself both in Ratan's and Abhimanyu's place.

From Ratan's point of view, her anger is justified. If a guy told me something like this during my swayamvar, I would kick him out. No doubts on that.

But since it's not my swayamvar and I have been in a similar situation to Abhimanyu, I understand him. If he's genuine (i.e. he didn't use this as a ploy to reach Top 4), he is not wrong. He is only a confused person which definitely is not ready for marriage. Even Ratan said that he's confused. It's not easy when you start falling for someone (he might have misunderstood infatuation for love which is why he said he loved her) and give the person hopes, and then say you cannot go ahead with it/you love someone else. It takes gut to say something like that, you have to face the person's wrath and emotions. That's why some guys disappear when they wanna break up/give lame excuses or whatever, they're not man enough to face a girl's disappoint. That's why he took some time not just to realise he still has feelings for his ex but time to prepare himself to say the truth.

Moreover, about him saying he loves Ratan, many people often use "I love you" even if they don't genuinely mean it. Mostly it's not because they want to fool the person, but rather they are themselves fooled by their own emotions. They think they love you when it's only a crush. Plus, it's easy to have a strong crush on a girl when you just break up.

Anyway, bottom line is that Abhimanyu is not ready for marriage. He is a confused person. He cannot go ahead with this Swayamvar

abhimanyu shdnt hve been dere...he jst went 4 fame..hez despo 2 get into tv industry...

if he was confused then he should have told her about the othr girl

when he went their with the intentionz of marrying then he shouldnt be thinking about the other girl...

feelings tabhi vapas aayi jad usne socha😆

i think feelingz were never gone...they are still a thing

Originally posted by: JaspalToronto

hey FG good day,

You have brought up some interesting points. First of all I do believe that this show is partially scripted. Have you noticed how Anupam's mother, father or Abhinav's or Abhimanyu's family put up questions to Ratan? Furthermore all the street and house decorations are done by the show's organizers.

I guess Abhimanyu has done the right thing by telling her about his ex. Its natural that a guy can't just forget his ex in a few weeks and move on with his life. He knows Ratan for about a month now. Who knows how long he had been with his ex. In my opinion he doesn't want to get married to Ratan otherwise he would never bring this ex.girl friend issue at this point in time.

I believe he is prepared for the consequences and as a matter of fact he wants to get eliminated. We have already seen Ratan's reaction as she was complaining that it was too late to bring that up.

Originally posted by: Amri174

Case in point- both Abhinav's bhabhi and Abhimanyu's sister said the same thing to interrupt the conversation between Ratan and her dulhas' parents- "Aapne bahut baat kar li, ab hum ratan se baat karenge"

Hell of a coincidence, huh?

And because they were not professional actors, they were very awkward. It's very clear that all the lines are scripted.

ps did u also notice how dey look at d camera & say their linez😆😆😆😆

Originally posted by: harpkaur

ps did u also notice how dey look at d camera & say their linez😆

Even the dulhes at times...😆 Abhinav for instance is often uncomfortable

It's like...they're saying to producers-mera chehra achi tarah se dekh lo aur apne serial ya film mein kaam de do