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Posted: 14 years ago
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After watching this crap(sorry ratananians-but it is) I ask whether this girl is really into settling down.Coz every time she opens her big mouth and is asked if she can handle the house vis - s -vi careeer,she shoots off answers like i cant leave my career-etc...Why then marry???😉

Dear u shud know marriage is adjusting from both sides not from groom's side just bcoz u r a celebrity!!!!!My analysis is she is too confused about marriage thing or is frustated about not getting someone to tag along a s a boyfriend in her filmi circles!!!!I I feel Imagine is totally murdering the concept of a marriage which is still considered sacred in India.😭😭
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I don't really give a damn whether she really marries or not, but I'd like to correct one of the things you've expressed in your post----there are plenty of actors both in Bolly and Telly (wood) wqho are doing an about-fine job of balancing career and marriage. Look around a bit. Yeah, it might be a momentous task, but things are made easier by the amount of support and assistance that one receives from their Hubby and In-Laws. If Ratan IS serious about settling down, I'd want her groom and his family to be supportive on her carrer decisions and not pressurize her to become a housewife.
On your "Marriage-Farce" point, I agree. 😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: krystal_watz

I don't really give a damn whether she really marries or not, but I'd like to correct one of the things you've expressed in your post----there are plenty of actors both in Bolly and Telly (wood) wqho are doing an about-fine job of balancing career and marriage. Look around a bit. Yeah, it might be a momentous task, but things are made easier by the amount of support and assistance that one receives from their Hubby and In-Laws. If Ratan IS serious about settling down, I'd want her groom and his family to be supportive on her carrer decisions and not pressurize her to become a housewife.

On your "Marriage-Farce" point, I agree. 😊

I didnt mean she shud quit her career post marriage-look closely whenever the talk is about her post marriage life versus career she was adamant come what may she firsts career over her marriage-then why marry??That was my opinion not to sit at home after marriage-but ifthe situation demands u have to place family over rest which she wasnt agreeing.What did she mean by can i do daily up down-from chandigarh to mumbai????-hw much she earns will go off in up down itself-ridiculous answer!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I do see your point. But then, this is all a game. 😆
Btw, I have a feeling she IS gonna marry.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I dont think she is going to marry I guess she will only do engagement or more less only rishta pakka😆 I agree whenever she is asked about career Vs marriage ,her reply will neevr have the statement of balancing things together or making little adjustments.I guess she is little immature for marriage and she seems very casual also😛
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: india2050

After watching this crap(sorry ratananians-but it is) I ask whether this girl is really into settling down.Coz every time she opens her big mouth and is asked if she can handle the house vis - s -vi careeer,she shoots off answers like i cant leave my career-etc...Why then marry???😉

Dear u shud know marriage is adjusting from both sides not from groom's side just bcoz u r a celebrity!!!!!My analysis is she is too confused about marriage thing or is frustated about not getting someone to tag along a s a boyfriend in her filmi circles!!!!I I feel Imagine is totally murdering the concept of a marriage which is still considered sacred in India.😭😭
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To reply to your question, it is RATAN'S Swayamvar. The so-called mum-in-laws asking her to leave her career were very well aware of their sons participation in it. The participants came to her show by their own, no one forced them to. So definitely they knew the implications of marrying an actress. Asking for a compromise is fine but asking for her to leave her career is total BS.

And her "shooting off answers" of not leaving her career is very fair enough. She can't lie and be hypocrite about it. She just wants to be honest before marriage.

Ofcourse, these points apply ONLY if the Swayamvar is real!

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