Who then is Real Krishna ??

For Babitha [The source who made me write this piece]


I am reproducing a poser posted by Babs to me here , Hoping that she will not mind

But Sathya, what he is doing now, I agree, fine, we avoid looking at him as P's husband, but dunno what exactly this K is... His world revolves around P... is my POv, but u may be having a different one... ab tum batao... who is K in Real???? he kinda disrespect his true friends too, he disrespect his love , his biwi, by doubting her n has no trust... iam not able to se him without P, how ever I try to go around he ends up with P...


What he is doing now, Babs is trying to prove, trying to delude to himself that he can and will live without Pratigya and is being unsuccessful at it ...

what exactly this K is ??????who is K in Real????

Damn Good question's , don't you think ... Who exactly is this K and what and who is the real K ...

Is he the spoilt brat who stubbornly wanted Pratigya as his consort,??

Is he the stalker who was intimidating Pratigya, ??

Is he the husband who stood for Pratigya and stood against his family??

Is he the brute who tormented Pratigya when he thought that Pratigya used him ??

Is he the SIL who shouldered Pratigya's family's grief and acted as the anchor... ??

Few might say ..he is all of this and many more would say that he is some of this ..This are his various roles ...Excuse me ! Did I say Roles !! ...what roles ??..here we are seeing a Pratigya obsessed lover, Pratigya loving Hubby, concerned about Pratigya , disliking Pratigya...In short we are seeing a Krishna whose only reason for existence appears to be Pratigya ..Have we ever seen him in any other role ??..His foray into friendship has been far ,brief and inconsistent ...


Pratigya ...We have seen a dutiful daughter , a patient and concerned sister , a voice of the vox populi , A conscientious Sister in law, A loving, gentle wife, A reserved, distant but respectful DIL... and what have we seen of Krishna , apart from Pratigya fixation...we have seen nothing !!! ...


Who then is the Real K ?? The answer quite obviously is WE DON"T KNOW !!

we don't know what makes him tick ?? what are his thinking ?? what are his views..what does he feel ?? what are his feelings regarding the other members of family ??what has he done that his friends are willing to give their lives for him?? Do we know that apart from the mandatory view thru Pratigya Prism.. My answer is a BIG NO !!


Now that they are exploring Krishna, trying to give us a peek into his mind, trying to explain why Krishna is loved , why are the members devoted to him,loyal to him ..why then are we refusing to understand him, why are we insistent on him being just Pratigya's husband..why do we want him to restrict him , why are we resisting the attempt of the CV's to show Krishna and his other roles ..would not it be interesting to know what exactly are his feelings, emotions vis his family including Pratigya.. what constitutes Krishna the individual..


Babitha and few other's have confided that they are unable to see Krishna without Pratigya...here a window is being opened , allowing us a glimpse into seeing Krishna WITHOUT Pratigya ... peek in, check him out without any prejudice, without any bias, without any ill conceived notion ...Do not be in a hurry to shut the window...who knows you may even discover some hidden gems...Just give it time

Detachment,open mind are required for understanding Krishna..

The points you have put out have given a lot to think about. Yes...all these months ..we have been seeing Krishna with his focal point only around Pratigya...but now we are seeing him in other relationships..which is perfectly fine.

My only worry is...he shouldn't do something that he will regret his entire life and something that would be nonredeemable.

Anger..resentment.."hate" all justified ...but one should still be able to see the undying love underneath all this...

hmm dear as far as I understand we r thinking from both sides krishna and pratigya we are thinking about a women whose hubby will agree or will give second marriage a thought after showering soo much love on her here we r not talking about normal love an obssesive love and this serial is all about krishnas changing for good due to pratigyas love him changing into a better human being thats why we r not thinking k without pratigya and vice versa and its not oyr fault its creatives fault as they made us love to k who loves his wife unconditionally who tell pratigya the true meaning of love as prats was unaware of a feeling called love it has been aroused by krishna

Originally posted by: Pragati.T

In short u need to take a PHD to understand who Krishan is., How he reacts to particular situation,can't predict him and his unique character just after seeing one or two episodes...😛😆😆 Hatts off to cv's for creating such a unque character whom we both love and hate at the same time...👍🏼

No need for PHD, just remove the Pratigya glass and see him as Krishna ...and then u will begin to understand from where he is coming... as long as u look thru pratigya lens, every action of his will cause outrage ...

good post chechi😃
Krishna is depicted as a normal human being...and how he would react in such situation,ie caught between mother and wife...

Its only we look at K from P's point of view...but if we really try to understand K from his pov then we might be able to justify his doings though some are extreme...but K can't be blamed...he was brought up that way...
no one is perfect...sometimes we are good...sometimes unintentionally we do wrong things and hurt others...understanding the mistakes and correcting them is the necessary quality...CVs are doing a good job exploring K mind...

As far as i am concerned my primary concern is kriya, then K n P...nothing , absolutely nothing , even K n P r not allowed to disrupt my kriya ... while one grew up seeing n doing all that's wrong the other grew up hearing n practicing what is truth n right ...both r extremely innocent but where as P is capable of extreme kindness n compassion n selfless love, K is selfish, kind when he choses to be n has loved only his babu with true heart ...one is the epitome of idealism with a good heart set at the right place the other is a true realistic person with an innocent heart...n its their union i love, ie kriya, destined lovers, soul mates...more than i love/see them as individuals...as individuals i love both of them...with all their flaws...i love P , with the same intensity as i love K...but i can't tolerate it when any one of them disrupts my kriya ...😊

Originally posted by: ssweety007

good post chechi😃
Krishna is depicted as a normal human being...and how he would react in such situation,ie caught between mother and wife...

Its only we look at K from P's point of view...but if we really try to understand K from his pov then we might be able to justify his doings though some are extreme...but K can't be blamed...he was brought up that way...
no one is perfect...sometimes we are good...sometimes unintentionally we do wrong things and hurt others...understanding the mistakes and correcting them is the necessary quality...CVs are doing a good job exploring K mind...

Thank You, Sweety,

Yes, we are finally getting to see Krishna without any other shadow looming over him ..

I agree, CV's are presenting both the good points and negative points of Krishna ..and not that of Pratigya's husband...one should appreciate the CV's attempt at their exploration ,lean back , enjoy the shades instead of getting worried about some future tracks...

Originally posted by: tanthya

Thank You, Sweety,

Yes, we are finally getting to see Krishna without any other shadow looming over him ..

I agree, CV's are presenting both the good points and negative points of Krishna ..and not that of Pratigya's husband...one should appreciate the CV's attempt at their exploration ,lean back , enjoy the shades instead of getting worried about some future tracks...

So, Sathya, u mean to say,by attempting to get rid of Prats, we'll see the real K... acc to many of us, K came into existence n continued to be loved bcos of his undying love for his wife[purposely, iam avoiding P's name here].. he saw a girl, hw wanted to marry her, things fell into place, he got married, he waited for the fruit to ripe on its own,he showered her with all his love... now, bcos of a small misunderstanding, he asked her to go out of his life, he is trying his all ways to get rid of her... he didn't even tried to know the real truth in what really happened n he didn't got her POV, his is the final decision...if he wants, she should be with him, if he don't want she should walkout... what a love, what a love???n he considering remarriage is the biggest blow to his one n only good trait... he is truthful n loyal to one girl in his life... Its a real test for K's love...Let's see what he is gonna do...

Originally posted by: ramanbabitha

So, Sathya, u mean to say,by attempting to get rid of Prats, we'll see the real K... acc to many of us, K came into existence n continued to be loved bcos of his undying love for his wife[purposely, iam avoiding P's name here].. he saw a girl, hw wanted to marry her, things fell into place, he got married, he waited for the fruit to ripe on its own,he showered her with all his love... now, bcos of a small misunderstanding, he asked her to go out of his life, he is trying his all ways to get rid of her... he didn't even tried to know the real truth in what really happened n he didn't got her POV, his is the final decision...if he wants, she should be with him, if he don't want she should walkout... what a love, what a love???n he considering remarriage is the biggest blow to his one n only good trait... he is truthful n loyal to one girl in his life... Its a real test for K's love...Let's see what he is gonna do...

Babitha,



What I am saying is By taking Pratigya out of Krishna's orbit they are focusing on Krishna the individual and not on Krishna the lover...and if u really do watch the show..u will notice that Pratigya is not rid ...Pratigya is there in each n every frame ...

Krishna came into focus with his dabang style, became entrenched with his obsession , wanted her , stalked her and won her..I would never call that initial phase as LOVE...what did Krishna know about her to Love ...only her physical attributes !!


According to him, he knows the truth, Unlike u ..he has not had a ringside view of all the happenings ..so unless Amma trips up or someone points out the loop hole, he will not go snooping ..He did not ask her to go out which is substantiated by the fact that he suffers a momentary shock when he hears that Pratigya left ..and also by his muttering that P chod ke chaligayi ...I do not recall him throwing her out nor coming home , seeing her in the room and telling her to get out ..Do You ?? she approached him when he was in a tizzy, and he lashed out ,,I donno about u , Babs..but in anger, ppl will lose control over their tongue and let rip ..and that is what happened ..

What a love indeed...a love that hurts itself and self destructs ... and she ..hears one angry word, misinterprets the loathing and leaves ?? wwhat a love indeed ??How can that be Love ??


Now u r far ahead of me..Krishna has considered re-marriage..when??

what u say about Krishna's love is applicable only if he is considered to be Pratigya's husband...but when his other relationship intrudes , dynamics will and should change ... and I am more interested in the Individual Krishna's thinking as Pratigya's lover is predictable..