7th June 2011 - Written Update - Page 5

Originally posted by: intruderfast

ok lets do one thing, forget the past, live in present , abt future , lets see jab hoyega saari baat clear ho jaayegi,
the coming days will prove jagya love to gauri😊to those who r still not convinced
i think many ppl opposing us should see that cvs r exactly speaking our mind,
now why would they do that😉trust me maine cvs ko influence nahin kiyaa hain🤣

Originally posted by: pjyo

😉if we forget past then how can jagat argue to dadisa that he had brought home the bride of dadisa's choice..🤔 yeh acchi baat hai kal toh jagat ki logic ko 'smartness' bol rahe thhey aaj bolthey ho bhool jaao past hai bhool jao...😉 wah bhai wah😆 ..

haa they themselves said his past with gauri does not matter, the marriage was rejected

so the singh family is certainly not accepting him cos he was married to her in childhood😉

ab woh kaise sweekar karenge hoohhahha batao, aaj kal mein pata chalega 😆

zindagi mein insaan ko naa past bhoolna chahiye naa hi present buss better future ki koshish karni chahiye...🤔..., and as far as true love with gauri is concerned ,yeah, he loves gauri today but he did love anandi in the past-it may have been puppy love or whatever you may call it but it was a relationship that meant everything to him at that time..breakup ho gaya toh ex ko bewajah blame toh naa karo ganwaar bula ke..

right , he has no right to blame anandi ,heis wrong here

According to me it was a long distance relationship that didnt work out ,FINE, but stop analysing it as true or untrue-whatever it was he treated it like crap👎🏼 once he found the new relationship in his life ...Love your present but never disrespect your past -that's lack of character..

good then long distance relationship can work too, this did not , cheers to that😛

for me main reason was child marriage and he is not using it as an excuse ,

wah ji wah,i never said that how jagya treated anadi was right, he was wrong in that,

and he defiantely has got some part of the sazaa , his family turned against him , woh kangaal ho gyaa, har ek se slap pe slap khaata gayaa, ab anadi se bhi kha le phir tum saare log milke uska bharta banaayo ok , mainu ki farak padta hain , main toh bas yehi chahoon ki woh dono saath mein rahe , baaki sab jaaye tel lene😆😆

Originally posted by: divmath

copying a part of my post from another thread...as I am busy and cannot type another similar comment...pardon me

My two cents on Gehna's two cents - "Two people make a marriage work, Jagya didnt try from his end etc etc" ...but the most basic point which she was stressing..."love" ...thats exactly what was not present between Jagya and Anandi...this stems from my thought and belief that Jagya never loved Anandi, as opposed to most here who believe he did...again lets not talk about consummation, I have mentioned this 1000 times...in my view consummation is not a proof of love or marriage, it can also arise due to lust and physical attraction...another point which people make repeatedly is Jagya went to see Anandi those 5 years...for that my view is he just did that because he missed her as a friend...they had stayed together since childhood and when she was sent away suddenly he was mad at DS and wanted to be with her...thats all...there was no love there again...So yes what Gehna said applies to a normal couple...but not Jagya and Anandi...because Jagya never loved Anandi...so when there is no love...there is no scope for improvement in a relationship (I am not saying his behavior towards Anandi was acceptable, that is something which I hated)...however I feel what Jagya did was not wrong...he just chose his life partner cause he fell in love with Gauri...just my opinion.

Originally posted by: intruderfast