Originally posted by: niksidfan
this was my question few days before and i made a post on it...but some of the friends have answered it very well...its only dat naina wants to prove herSself a good DIL...she underestimates herself as she had not got the pervarish and all dat ..dat is reqired to be a good DIL...and she thinks she is very lucky to get this proposal and trying her best to satisfy her MIL...and in dis process she is not even considering whom her heart wants to be with...
Yes, I also tried to justify Naina. But still I am not satisfied with the current track. I feel other saaz-bahu ramayan is better than this as it is more close to our brain. In that, the torturing starts only after the marriage. So we can think in the way that the marriage is already happened. There is solid reason for that bahu to have such sufferings considering it is her fate for saving her own life and family. Here things are different. I agree, she felt lucky in getting this proposal as she was thirsty for the care of a family in the beginning. It is not necessary to do all these sacrifises now. Instead, Naina like an intelligent girl should now recognise that the marriage is not already happened. She has to rethink whether she needs to do it or not. If this is the situation b4 marriage itself, after mrg the things will be worse. She should understand that the love and care she wanted ever is not going to get from this mrg. The most important thing is she does not luv Abhi. If the things go like this whether she can ever love that guy??? If so, it is going to be drastic for herself, at the same time for Abhi and family tooo... here this girl is stuborn on her one "YES" with no reason.
I find only following reasons in CVs show all this non-senses.
1. To drag the Dakshna story (otherwise, within this time Naina has a lot of reasons to understand her feelings. Many time we felt that she already understood her feelings).
2. They want to show Naina shed tears and picturize her also as a suffering girl to capture the sympathy of viewers (till the Moushi's arrival, only Daksh was in tears.. now let this Naina also be in tears for sometimes - I like that policy but this track is not registering well).
3. To show the devdas rendering of the guy - the angry young man who hesitated to admit Naina who is in madly love with her now!!!!
4. To show whatever happened, Naina is unstable with her promises and words...