Jealousy, Thy Name is Bani! Q & A!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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For one, would any of the India viewers explain to me what "exactly" was Bani's expression suggesting, when she saw Roshini flirting outrageously with Jai and then dragging him to show her new house?

Was it a feeling of disgust and anger against Jai that she kept waiting like a fool for him and he goes away leaving her without even a word?

Was it a feeling of getting embarssed in front of Pia and Pushkar, because she had been telling them pretty emphatically that she came with Jai and would only leave with him?

Or was it plain and simple jealousy that Bani felt when she saw another woman take away her husband right in front of her eyes?

For those who havent't seen the episode, my take on Bani's reaction was that she looked very angry (which is pretty unlike her) and also quite upset....but she wasn't heart-broken and crest-fallen as she normally is when Jai puts her down...and also, I thought that Bani was throwing invisible hate-bombs in Roshini's direction as she flirted with an extremely uncomfortable looking Jai!😆

Another question, incase Bani was slightly jealous or possessive about Jai going away with Roshini, isn't that really strange on Bani's part? I mean, Bani has no qualms about Jai uttering, "I love you Pia" in his drunkeness, she has no regrets or animosity towards Pia knowing that Jai is still madly in love with her....but just one moment of flirting from Roshini, and Bani gets mad!

Does that mean, Bani has no problems sharing her husband, as long as it in in the Family?😆 Its ok, if Jai is in love with Pia, but he shouldn't even look at another woman in front of Bani.....kya chakkar hai?

Btw, I loved it when Bani tells Jai with full wifely authority that they have to leave right now and Jai is just about to agree to her, when Roshini intervenes....🤢

Here are some questions for today:

Do you think that Bani was a wee-bit possessive about Jai when Roshini was flirting with him, or was she just angry with him for ignoring her in the party and generally causing an embarssment to her?

When Jai goes with Roshini to the Terrace (or rather Roshini drags him with her forcibly😡) Bani is shown searching for Jai desperately and the song in the background is, "Meri duniya hai tujh mein kahin...tere bin me kya kuch bhi nahin..." Was that song an indication of Bani's feelings for Jai or was it just a random song selection being played?

Do you think that Bani will keep waiting for Jai at the party venue for him to come back and pick-her up? (Not out of any love but simply to prove a point)

Do you think that Bani will agree to get dropped home by Pia and Pushkar? Or will she go home with Jigyasa, Aditya and Ranveer? Or will she just take a taxi and reach home on her own?

What do you think will Bani tell Mausi when she asks her why has she come alone? Will she once again defend Jai making an excuse for him, or will she keep mum letting Mausi guess on her own or will she blurt out in anger that Jai left her alone at the party?

Do you think that Jai will offer an apology when he comes back home? Or will he be his usual non-expressive mode?

Do you think that Jai ignoring Bani in the party was a conscious act on his part or was he just too rattled by Roshini's sudden arrival that completely made him oblivious to Bani's presence?

What do you think is going to be Bani's reaction when Jai and she are alone in their room? Will she be angry with him and ask him point-blank about his leaving her stranded alone or will she be cold to him and just ignore, not doing any of her usual, taking clothes out kind of duty?

Love,

MT

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Posted: 19 years ago
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i havent' seen this, but after reading the india updates , think Bani is Jealousy.........
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I have no idea how Bani reacted, but I sure hope that she is upset with Jai for leaving her high and dry at the party. She should let him know that if he insists staying married to her - albiet for only a few days according to him😉, he better start treating her like his wife. Like I have said before, I would like to see a Bani who fights for her rights and for the man she loves - and looking at today's UK episode she does love Jai.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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i think it Was it a feeling of getting embarssed in front of Pia and Pushkar, because she had been telling them pretty emphatically that she came with Jai and would only leave with him?😭

Do you think that Bani was a wee-bit possessive about Jai when Roshini was flirting with him, or was she just angry with him for ignoring her in the party and generally causing an embarssment to her?i think she is now cuming on the track being possesive abt jai(sahii raste par jaa rahi hai)😆

When Jai goes with Roshini to the Terrace (or rather Roshini drags him with her forcibly😡) Bani is shown searching for Jai desperately and the song in the background is, "Meri duniya hai tujh mein kahin...tere bin me kya kuch bhi nahin..." Was that song an indication of Bani's feelings for Jai or was it just a random song selection being played?well i m a little confused but i think it was an indication of bani's feelings towards jai😉

Do you think that Bani will keep waiting for Jai at the party venue for him to come back and pick-her up? (Not out of any love but simply to prove a point)yes she will but i think jigs will force bani to go home n bani will agree😭😡

Do you think that Bani will agree to get dropped home by Pia and Pushkar? Or will she go home with Jigyasa, Aditya and Ranveer? Or will she just take a taxi and reach home on her own?she will go home with jaigs n aditya n ranveer😡

What do you think will Bani tell Mausi when she asks her why has she come alone? Will she once again defend Jai making an excuse for him, or will she keep mum letting Mausi guess on her own or will she blurt out in anger that Jai left her alone at the party?she will make an excuse to defend jai😡

Do you think that Jai will offer an apology when he comes back home? Or will he be his usual non-expressive mode?he his usual non-expressive mode😡

Do you think that Jai ignoring Bani in the party was a conscious act on his part or was he just too rattled by Roshini's sudden arrival that completely made him oblivious to Bani's presence?it was an conscious act😭😡

What do you think is going to be Bani's reaction when Jai and she are alone in their room? Will she be angry with him and ask him point-blank about his leaving her stranded alone or will she be cold to him and just ignore, not doing any of her usual, taking clothes out kind of duty? will be cold to him n ignore him but will do her duty of removing clothes 😉

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Do you think that Bani was a wee-bit possessive about Jai when Roshini was flirting with him, or was she just angry with him for ignoring her in the party and generally causing an embarssment to her?
I think that she was feeling uncomfortable at being ignored. For a change Bani behaved like aic typical wife having some expectations from her husband.

When Jai goes with Roshini to the Terrace (or rather Roshini drags him with her forcibly) Bani is shown searching for Jai desperately and the song in the background is, "Meri duniya hai tujh mein kahin...tere bin me kya kuch bhi nahin..." Was that song an indication of Bani's feelings for Jai or was it just a random song selection being played?
In fact even I noticed this one. I feel that it indicated Bani's feelings for Jai.

Do you think that Bani will keep waiting for Jai at the party venue for him to come back and pick-her up? (Not out of any love but simply to prove a point)
Actually that would be very romantic. I hope that she waits for him.

Do you think that Bani will agree to get dropped home by Pia and Pushkar? Or will she go home with Jigyasa, Aditya and Ranveer? Or will she just take a taxi and reach home on her own?
I think that she may go home with Aditya.

What do you think will Bani tell Mausi when she asks her why has she come alone? Will she once again defend Jai making an excuse for him, or will she keep mum letting Mausi guess on her own or will she blurt out in anger that Jai left her alone at the party?
Knowing Bani am sure she is going to make up an excuse making Jai feel more awkward.

Do you think that Jai will offer an apology when he comes back home? Or will he be his usual non-expressive mode?
Non-expressive Jai. He is at present shocked with Roshni's appearance. So I don't think he is going to say anything as such.

Do you think that Jai ignoring Bani in the party was a conscious act on his part or was he just too rattled by Roshini's sudden arrival that completely made him oblivious to Bani's presence?
In fact what I liked in party was when Pushkar made an appearance, Jai wanted to leave the party immediately. But he also remembers Bani and asks her to leave along with him. Meaning he considers her as a part of his group. But with Roshni's appearance he was kind of rattled and hence unwiitingly ignored Bani.

What do you think is going to be Bani's reaction when Jai and she are alone in their room? Will she be angry with him and ask him point-blank about his leaving her stranded alone or will she be cold to him and just ignore, not doing any of her usual, taking clothes out kind of duty?
Whenever Jai speaks to her softly Bani is mostly lost with words. In fact till now she has never ever confronted Jai on her own accord. So this time also she may not do so. But seeing Bani Jai might remember his behavior with her in the party and feel sorry. But he will not express it in words.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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hi mt.

- i think bani had a mix feeling on her face when she saw roshani flirting with jai. the feeling of curiocity and jealousy. on one hand she couldn't recognised her and on other hand she was curious who was the lady flirting with her husband. she was not angry but feeling embrassed for her lonelyness without jai. she was constantely looking for jai like a wife looking for husband. that shows a typical wife behaviour.

- ya, when that song came, it exactly reflect bani's love for jai. very suitable for bani at that situation.

- i think something different will be happen. jai will wait for bani outside leaving roshani alone. 😉

- if above mention thing will not happen 😭 , she might go with aditya.

- she will make an excuse. but masi is smart too. she will immediately recognise something is happened at the party and find it out by her own method.

- right now he is not a position to express anything. if you remember, just hearding a name of roshani at farm house, his face turn out to white. now all of a sudden roshani is in front of him. so another shock. ye jai ke sath kya ho raha hai. ek shock se bahar nahi ata aur dusara a jata hai. 😭

- he wasn't ignoring her. if he so, then he would have left alone without bani on seeing pushkar as his working partner. rather he went to bani and in husbandly manner told her to leave. that shows he start behaving like a husband too. but on seeing roshani, it was a gr8 surprised for him. so he became confused. thts it. also he was about to introduce bani to roshani.if wanted to ignor her, he wouldn't.

- here jai feel sorry for leaving bani alone at the party. so it might be happend that jai opologise to bani. but you never know. thisis ekta's serial. anything can happend.

hope you like my answers.

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kiah
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Do you think that Bani was a wee-bit possessive about Jai when Roshini was flirting with him, or was she just angry with him for ignoring her in the party and generally causing an embarssment to her?

MT I haven't seen the episode but I guess she was just plain embarrassed to be alone in the party.

When Jai goes with Roshini to the Terrace (or rather Roshini drags him with her forcibly😡) Bani is shown searching for Jai desperately and the song in the background is, "Meri duniya hai tujh mein kahin...tere bin me kya kuch bhi nahin..." Was that song an indication of Bani's feelings for Jai or was it just a random song selection being played?

About the song it seems to show Bani's feelings but I think its too early for that. She is not hopelessly in love with Jai as of yet. That's just my personal opinion.

Do you think that Bani will keep waiting for Jai at the party venue for him to come back and pick-her up? (Not out of any love but simply to prove a point)

Do you think that Bani will agree to get dropped home by Pia and Pushkar? Or will she go home with Jigyasa, Aditya and Ranveer? Or will she just take a taxi and reach home on her own?

I would love to see Bani waiting for Jai and then sulking in the car all the way home. Would teach him a lesson. But that's not going to happen. She will go home on her own. Not with Jigs nor Pia-Pushkar

What do you think will Bani tell Mausi when she asks her why has she come alone? Will she once again defend Jai making an excuse for him, or will she keep mum letting Mausi guess on her own or will she blurt out in anger that Jai left her alone at the party?

She will make excuses for Jai but for once I would love to see her not giving any excuses for him. Maybe when she is about to say something he will walk in. that's probably what's going to happen.

Do you think that Jai will offer an apology when he comes back home? Or will he be his usual non-expressive mode?

yes I think he will apologise but in his own way.

Do you think that Jai ignoring Bani in the party was a conscious act on his part or was he just too rattled by Roshini's sudden arrival that completely made him oblivious to Bani's presence?

No it was not a conscious act on his part. I think its just the presence of Roshni that has rattled him. Its a mystery what kind of relationship they shared. Coz its not like Jai to be rattled so easily by anything.

What do you think is going to be Bani's reaction when Jai and she are alone in their room? Will she be angry with him and ask him point-blank about his leaving her stranded alone or will she be cold to him and just ignore, not doing any of her usual, taking clothes out kind of duty?

She will go on doing her wifely duties without saying anything. Its not Bani's nature to confront anyone.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Do you think that Bani was a wee-bit possessive about Jai when Roshini was flirting with him, or was she just angry with him for ignoring her in the party and generally causing an embarssment to her?
Bani was .. Damn possesive about Jai ..especially where Roshni is concerned .looking behind .. Jai and bani have always been apart ..at Parties ..and ..Bani has never shown this expression.


When Jai goes with Roshini to the Terrace (or rather Roshini drags him with her forcibly) Bani is shown searching for Jai desperately and the song in the background is, "Meri duniya hai tujh mein kahin...tere bin me kya kuch bhi nahin..." Was that song an indication of Bani's feelings for Jai or was it just a random song selection being played?

.This song .. is describing Banis feelings .. to the core. bani is Head over heels in Love with her husband .


Do you think that Bani will keep waiting for Jai at the party venue for him to come back and pick-her up? (Not out of any love but simply to prove a point) difficult to say... coz .. it all really depends on what ekat wants to show . I think she will wait to go with Jai ..if ..aditya ..and jigs ....do not leave .

Do you think that Bani will agree to get dropped home by Pia and Pushkar? Or will she go home with Jigyasa, Aditya and Ranveer? Or will she just take a taxi and reach home on her own?

i think .. taking a Taxi will be too dramtic .. and going over board

Why does she have to take a Taxi .. when other Family members .. r going to a similar destination

What do you think will Bani tell Mausi when she asks her why has she come alone? Will she once again defend Jai making an excuse for him, or will she keep mum letting Mausi guess on her own or will she blurt out in anger that Jai left her alone at the party?

She will Just Tell Maasi .. Jai had some bsiness to discusss ..and since .. the rest of the members were coming Home .. she followed suit .

If She had to reveal to maasi everything .. bani would have told her the real reason ..why she was sleeping on the Floor ..while jai was on the bed .

Do you think that Jai will offer an apology when he comes back home? Or will he be his usual non-expressive mode?
If maasi or aditya ... etc were coming .with him ..then ..he might apologise to them .But i doubt he will apologise to bani because they arent at that level in their relation where they owe explanations to each other .They hardly ever Converse ..regularly

Do you think that Jai ignoring Bani in the party was a conscious act on his part or was he just too rattled by Roshini's sudden arrival that completely made him oblivious to Bani's presence?
..jai defintly didnt ignore bani ..at the party purposely..i think he was so ..trying to digest Roshni's arrival..that may have taken him down memory lane.and trying to figure out Why is she here. in India..


What do you think is going to be Bani's reaction when Jai and she are alone in their room? Will she be angry with him and ask him point-blank about his leaving her stranded alone or will she be cold to him and just ignore, not doing any of her usual, taking clothes out kind of duty?

She will be her normal self.a little serious as usual but she will do her regular wifely duties and Not sulk like a immature scool girl .As i said earlier ..their relationship isnt at a level where .. Bani can question Jai, as a Wife or show .. her rite as a Wife . Of course in her Mind she will be battling with her thoughts about Jai's past ..with roshni and .. whats coming up

Edited by klueless - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I think Bani was slightly possesive today. But Jai did ignore after meeting roshni. What do you all say about Pushkar and Pia leaving her alone in the party and pushkar was going and introducing Pia to everone. Why hadnt pia taken Bani too along with theem. She was jealous of Pushkar and Pia that how Pushkar was introducing Pia to everyone and then she turns and looks at jai. Wanting Jai too also do the same. Jai was actualy not bothered about Bani after meeting roshini.

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