whats happening in this serial?

whats happening in this serial? i really can't understand. what i mean is that why this is happen to jai only. this is very common in balaji serials that if something bad happen with somebody, it continue and that too within a short period of span. same is happen with jai here. after his falling in love with pia, all the bad incidence occurred with him one by one without giving him a time to think over it or come out from it. we all knew those bad incidences. he confessed in y'day's episode that he is battling with himself to come out from it. that he is trying to forget his horrible past and he is already on his way to forget. but again something is happened and take away all his efforts. AND NOW tsunami in form of roshani chopra. the expression on his face on seeing roshani OMG.... again he is out his natural behaviour. but one positive sign. he didn't give much attension to her and behave very coldly with her.

we could make out that he already develope a spark of love and liking for bani in corner of his heart. the love and care of bani changing jai. he is aware of this process of change withing himself. he also know that being a wife, bani is suffering too. his hatred feeling for bani reduce day by day. he never utter a word but his gesture tells everything. then damm what is the need of roshani at this moment? let the love blossom between these two. let him spend more and more time with bani.

note : i notice that we all in india forum are eagerly waiting to see jai and bani's love. so when we get disappointment for one or other reason, we throw our frustration (actually proper word is not coming to my mind right now) feeling and start capturing the very minute mistake or behaviour (whatever u call) of a character. i mean e.g. in today's episode we all noticed that jai way not paying attension to bani. but again as i wrote the bad incidence he was trying to forget came in front of him in a form of first pushkar and then roshani chopra. then how can we expect from him to behave in a natural way? even i expected that some lovy dovy scene is going to happen with jai-bani but happen exactly. so i disappointed. so imagine jai's position.