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Posted: 14 years ago
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I know that Dakshna fans are unhappy with the Abhi track but I think it is a most interesting track that is touching on some very vital aspects of marriage from the traditional viewpoint.

Naina a smart, hardworking modern girl is being expected to change completely and submerge her personality to fit in with her new life.
Minu mousi is dicating her clothes, her work, her cooking, her habits, her lifestyle, her relationships- everything!! Yes, marriage means making some adjustments but this is a wholesale makeover!

Is this fair? Does Naina's life, her attitude, her work ethic, her warmth, her own mind count for nothing? She has lived so many years backed by her own self - why should she now change so drastically for someone else? Why does Abhi need to marry such a special girl like Naina if it means changing everything about her?

Minu mousi does not even appreciate Naina's career, which she has built from scratch in a strange city! Professionalism comes by delivering on promises and respecting your work. As family, everyone should respect a person's professional commitments. How can mousi ask Naina to take off from work so abruptly? It's not as if Naina has EVER had a problem balancing her personal and professional life.

Naina is bending to mousi's every whim because she wants to give it her best shot. But how long can she do this.

I'm happy to see Daksh fuming at every single change Naina is being made to make. Abhi meanwhile 😡 is only making sweet syrupy noises to everyone concerned while actually doing very little to protect Naina from this very severe woman. 😡😒

Waiting to see how it will pan out.

Will Naina call it off herslef?
Will Mousi come to know of Naina's family and illegitimacy and that will break the engagement?
Or will Daksh, who knows that Naina said yes because of him, step in and say enough of htis rubbish! Naina will not marry Abhi and I will marry her because I can give her a better life!

What do you guys think?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ditto. This mother and son are getting on my nerves.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I dnt thnk daksh will speak out infront of every1 just like that bt if naina needs hm he wil do that as well abhi is good for nthng he just smiles at each n everythng he doesnt care what others hav to say for daksh m feeling really bad
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Posted: 14 years ago
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totally agree with you everything you said
maybe daksh will speak to abhi tell him why do you want to change her if you love her and tell him to grow a spine and talk to his mother.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i still have a feeling that abhi is wantedly doing these things...he keeps quiet in a way to make daksh confess his love for naina...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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You are rite... marriage means we have to change to fit in the new evironment and do some adjustments and sufferings. But that doesn't mean that we have to surrender our all ethics and mannerism for that. Where love exists one will be automatically ready to do the adjustments and changes by their mind I think. Thats the magic of love. But one compells for that it will be difficult. Here this woman needs a girl like Gopi bahu of Saathiya. It is difficult for Naina to be like that. Also, Naina does not love Abhi. She tries to compromise all these for keeping her promise I feel. Very soon, she will be annoyed with this Meenu Moushi I think.

Today I got a better side from Daksh. He had annoyance in his moushi and abhi's attitude. He spoke up for commenting about her cooking. Thats happy thing for me. Naina does not love Abhi. But still she took his proposal in her consideration. At least now he must feel that if he proposed her in right time, she shouldn't suffer all these. And he should regret in not taking the initiative to tell his mind to her before.

And moushi - she noticed the Dakshna closeness today. when Abhi found the change in Daksh for Naina, he had a doubt that whether Daksh is in love with Naina or not... whether this moushi also will have such a doubt? she noticed them when collar case and Daksh spoke up supporting Naina.

Anyway, I would like to see Naina wants to call it off by herself and at the same time Moushi rejects for the mrg. I don't think Daksh will speak up until he knows Naina really loves him.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nila_music

i still have a feeling that abhi is wantedly doing these things...he keeps quiet in a way to make daksh confess his love for naina...

I don't think so as daksh wud have already confessed his love for naina on maha ep if it wasnt for him
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hell on Abi ...really logo ko yese type ladka zyada hai ...kya karun ? only in india a women itself never respect other women ...if mousi always having the proudness of handling both house and work why she is restricting naina to do so...
she is a dam type women who fears inside lot of lossing her only son to other girls...charm ...so only torturing naina...
And that stupid son has no eyes and ears and heart too for knowing what his own lover feel at real times...life is not a romeo juliet or fairy tale ...one never wants to know about others.. background...in real ...he is realy many centuries back in novels...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: vanadhi

if mousi always having the proudness of handling both house and work why she is restricting naina to do so...

i think she said to take time off work to learn housework
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Posted: 14 years ago
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but as a educated women she too know s that one cannot put off ...work all of sudden ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,thats over ...(taking advantage on her cell phone to cut off calls...)what will if the client too like in thinking

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