Is Kokila a hypocrite?

Kokila advised Kinjal to support her husband in whatever job he does, but she herself treats Parag like dirt coz he is a poet. Isnt she a hypocrite?

Yes she is, she knew the game Urmila was playing that's why she said that to Dhaval and she's tired of Kinjal, she put the family through too much natak, now she's married Kokila wants her out of her hair.

Kokila is a very ambitious lady, so her ambitions overrides her any feelings for Parag.

In Kinjal's case, Kokila is still angry with her daughter for ruining her life, probably Kokila wants Kinjal to learn from her mistake.If the Modi's continue to support her n spoil her , Kinjal will be as she is at present.This way Kinjal will adore n love her husband for the person He is.

Yes, Kokila seems like a hypocrite but not completely.

Originally posted by: queenyuks

Maybe Koki sees her own faults and sees the faults in her marriage, and she doesn't want Kinjal to turn out like her.
Maybe she sees herself beyond redemption, but wants to start of Dhaval and Kinjal's relationship off right.

Or maybe it's because whatever Dhaval is doing, he's doing it to meet Kinjal's demands and whims. Dhaval works to support himself and his wife.
While Paraag sits at home and doesn't do anything. He sits in room, or spends time with Baa, or listens to music. He can't support his wife. He could never support his children.
He made Kokila dependant on Chiraag for everything. It must have been so awful for her that all her married life she got a pocket money from Chiraag for her daily needs, or to raise her children.

Whatever small job Dhaval may be doing, he still wors hard, just for Kinjal. So thats why Koki encourages her to support her husband and appreciate him

Yuks

no she is not dear parag had his own family bussiness and he is not at all responsible husband or father it is koki's issue with him and in kinjal's case its different

its her jealousy with chirag that he is the owner on other side parag do nothing except poetry

Originally posted by: shobi12500

its her jealousy with chirag that he is the owner on other side parag do nothing except poetry

its not jealousy my dear every woman wants a supportive husband and she didn't got a partner like that😕

I love Kokila and she is mostly why i watch the show!! Unfortunately you are totally correct. She is a hypocrite. She needs to practice what she preaches. She also needs to see that her kids treat their spouses like she treats her own. Kids learn what they see. It does not excuse Ahem the jerk or Kinjal the self server but you are correct. Rashi and Urmi are perfect examples, the apple never falls far from the tree!!

nice point...
Kokila ji logo ko equally treat kerna chahiyai...lolz