Ambaaji:Mother's pain

Today what ever ambaaji said is correct...I feel her pain and sorrow..Every mother will have lot of hopes and wishes on their childs marriage..but poor ambaaji both her sons and her daughters wedding is over without much time and have to say it's only because of her this happened...

I AGREE,even i felt bad for ambaji.she was right to sumextent,but she could have told to postpone karal marriage na.we could get haldi,mehendi etc

Originally posted by: sherma

I AGREE,even i felt bad for ambaji.she was right to sumextent,but she could have told to postpone karal marriage na.we could get haldi,mehendi etc

yeah why they made it all in such a hurry way...

they could have extended for this week...with al lthe rituals...poor ambaji...but she should have forgived mona..

Originally posted by: sri11

Today what ever ambaaji said is correct...I feel her pain and sorrow..Every mother will have lot of hopes and wishes on their childs marriage..but poor ambaaji both her sons and her daughters wedding is over without much time and have to say it's only because of her this happened...

if she agreed anukalp's love then or if she herself as a hetal's mom went to bedis house and ask them about hetal-karan;s marriage this all wont have happened...

I agree with April2007... Instead of her daughter's Happiness she cares about the rituals and all... Well they did do the most imp ritual which is fera, magalsutra and sindoor !! PLUS she cud have postponed both anu's and hetal's marriage!! And plus they are not even financially strong to Have Grand Wedding like Amba jii wants!!

Originally posted by: April2007

What the heck..most parents will very happy that their children got married in good family, rituals actually are not that important.

Anukalap is the only earning member of the family where will Ambaji find money to fund her rituals. She is very lucky that Hetal got married without dowry they had to incur no expenses..gujju family would have taken her to cleaner, plus her daughter would have gotten a MIL who is full of anger and abusive like herself.

This show is very unrealistic, mothers whose husband is not working and is entirely dependant on her son's pay check will consider herself very very lucky to find family like Bedis..Amba is behaving as if she is loaded with money.

I agree with April2007...Ambaji's character is totally uncalled and ridiculous..

I find this show could have been much better if the story was well written - There is too much negativity in this show which is so unnecessary- They could have shown how a girl and the boy have to go through the adjustment in the initial period of married life.

I can understand the pain of a normal mother for her daughter, but I have no sympathy for Bharati Ambaji. Ambaji did not even deserve what she finally got. Anyway, how important rituals are when you are getting a very nice guy and very nice family.

Rituals are important but not more important than a person's happiness. Can't Ambaji just find solace in the fact that her daughter and son are both married to the person that they love and are happy with?