Do you really think VD's decision is for Nivi???

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I have been thinking this since I saw the episode.. do you really think that the announcement or decision made by Vandana to send Nivi to office with Viren is really for Nivi?
I don't know but I feel it is not for Nivi but it is for the benefit of Divya. Today VD saw how DD behaved with Nivi and then had pain. VD is trying to send Nivi away from DD so that DD can rest and not think because of her condition. To me she seemed to be siding on DD's side. Because of DD's condition nobody in the house will take any chances and they will bow to her whims and fansies to keep her happy. And what a way to do that - send Nivi with Viren. I am happy with it as our NiVren will be together and as Viren said "Why Nivi should waste her talent sitting home?" Nivi is today's girl so why not go out and help when her husband has asked her and has no problem with that.
But I also think that there should have been a different way to reduce the tensions in the house, by talking out things... Communication is always the best form of reducing misunderstanding and issues and problems. Nivi ko bhej dene se probem ka end nahin hoga. This is just a temporary solution not the permanent one. Today, VD became selfish and this is wholly my view. I did not like the way she asked her to go out of the room and that she will call the doctor. VD very well understands why DD is behaving this way and she should clarify Nivi's stand as she also knows that Nivi will never say anything to DD.
Sid is another story ... He just stands there as a dumb person just like his wife and says nothing even when Nivi is being taunted infront of him. And forget now, he will not say anything because of DD's pregnancy but what about previously. I am so frustated today because of DD and SId and now VD too. There is a limit to everything. How rudely DD says about Nivi to VD and VD just stands and says nothing and instead asks Nivi to get out of the room???
Please, end this negativity. Give us NiVren and please make Nivi understand the value of her husband. Viren should one day blast her and tell her that she should stop babysitting Divya even though she is her sister and to start docussing on him and their life together... GOD, please give some brain to creatives of this show.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anju let me tell you the CTs have no creativity and the Indian Audience (TRPs) consists of uneducated people - as we see that YRKKH and SNS are popular... so you can never expect them to show happiness for the lead couple as they will always face difficulties ... Its no use putting our educated brains together ...I just see some Nivren scenes and so do most of us who are watching the show .. and the rest have left the show 😭
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anju agree with you completely. I have said in a couple of other threads that VD's is doing it for the sake of DD. Along with DD everyone is becoming selfish.
Hopefully, we get to see some nice Nivren moments with them working together.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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ya i also felt she has done this for divya..or her unborn grandchild...people can turn out selfish and its high time nivi should realise it...when will she reply...maybe this divya is not pregnant at all...wish the report is false...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Nivi needs to let alone everyone and just worry/ care about Viren and their life together. It's too unrealistic to run after people who treat you like door mates.. in Nivi's case its worse. Just because Viren is patient doesn't mean she can ignore him. I feel sorry that Kinshuk and Neha have to waste their talent on such orthodox script.. Shame on ct's for showing todays women so helpless and others as vamps.. Rajan sahi wake up and look around.. its 21st century.. not 1850..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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VD wanted to make her daughter-in-law happy so she asked Nivi to go to work.👍🏼 It's about time...some one to teach this Nivi girl a lesson. It can be very irritating and frustrating when someone feels that they just have to butt in to your conversation or your life. It really tests someone's nerves and annoys people. If she would only mind her own business, there would be a lot fewer family quarrels. She loves to invade others privacy for haven sake Nivi once in your life respect of other people's privacy! She really is damaging life after life. Is she going crazy or what? Something is wrong with this psycho girls head! As a medical professional I would advise Viren to do a drug-induced coma on her...I really think something wrong with her head. It's reversible!😆 She really needs to know the value of a human being.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anju,

Perhaps you're right. It certainly seemed that way. I felt yesterday that Viren too wanted Nivi to get some peace of mind away from those who pick on her and also respects her talent and so suggested a few hours a the office.

In the precap DS is also smiling and agreeing with the decision...I think in his conversation with Nivi he was probing to see what she really wanted and understood that she did want to support her husband and go to the office but didn't want to rock the boat at home...

But I really want Nivi to maintain firmer boundaries with her sister. If she doesn't want to talk to Nivi, Nivi should just leave her alone. Why assume that you have the solution to everyone's problems and force yourself on others. And please focus on your own husband and your own marriage. Agree that the CT's have no brain the way they are dealing with these situations. Soon we'll be totally fed up.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Minu, if you see Nivi has changed a lot and has definitely kept her boundaries since the day DD blamed her that why did she marry Viren. Today too, she did not want to go to her room to give salad, it was VD who sent her. You could see her hesitation. And she took her time to go and help DD when she was calling for servants. Tell me one thing, if you love your sister and if she needs help then will you not help her? How is that interfering in her life or invading the privacy? That day when everybody went for name ceremony, Nivi was the one who knocked on DD's door and asked her how she was instead of directly barging in her room.
I agree Nivi needs to hold off little more but come on yaar, it is family. If somebody is sick or is calling for help will you not go and help? Delivering salad to her room on the request or order of chachiji and still hearing all the bakwaas from DD - is that all reasonable?
Yes, VD is doing for the happiness of her dear daughter-in-law but in the process is not thinking about other daughter-in-law... uski saas to waise hi uske bare mein nahin sochti and now VD too... in the name of DD's pregnancy... kya baat hai.
Now when Nivi will work even then DD will have problem and everybody will still blame Nivi and say that this girl needs to learn a lesson... agar sab aisa sochen to joint family ka concept puri tarah se khatam ho jayega... Nobody in family will help each other as they will be invading their privacy. We need more girls like DD and CC and the shows are just showing that...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anju...what u wrote is good...

But VD's decision may be partly that...and i was thinking if the scene when Nivi was making that mandir drawing with the decoration...this was when Soods were going to install their mandir in sood mansion on returning to simla...VD had praised Nivi on her talent...i have not seen the whole epi and precap...

but i feel this may come as a flash to VD cause of something...

so VD decision can be partly DD and Partly Nivi's talent

And rest what u worte agree...Sid has always been for family and has always been shown helpless...i have always liked Viren's understanding nature and the way he stands by a person and today liked the way he stood for Nivi and wants Nivi to explore her talent rather that sitting at home...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anju this is the main problem of Sood house that they avoid problems and not solve them. Viren was sent away because he seems to become problem for Sood house so they sent him to boarding instead of solving the child's problem they made him bitter. So today too instead of solving problem between 2 sisters they are increasing the problems by sending Nivi away from Divya without realizing that it is not going to help Divya because she will start to feel more insecure. Sending Nivi away is not the solution but it is definitely a solution for us NivRen fan because we can see more of NivRen if CT's actually want this
Sid ki to baat mat karo. I don't know what kind of person he is I think he is second jawaher in making. He just don't know what to do in given circumstances and very indecisive and helpless in nature.

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