Disha's Dil ka haal!!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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We know that Guhas are suffering from psychological disorder! Hence we have to deal with this crap! But I thought since we are waiting for the catalyst (we don't know who that will be) to come & stop the wedding, till then lets play Sigmund Freud for Disha!

We all know that Dk is agitated, restless & suffering every minute but I was wondering what Disha must be undergoing. Just think like a woman; forget abt the soap for a min. Imagine a girl who has to give up the Man or Love of her life whom she transformed with her tender love & understanding! The moment she felt like a winner was immediately pushed to the opposite direction! Disha has just realized that love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.

Qs. that comes to mind is that why a person so rational like D be so irrational choosing to go ahead with the wedding & is planning of staying together over the risk of leaving just for her people. Disha knows that such a relationship is totally incompatible, but believes that they are both with the best person (Ved is not riddled with mystery) not for themselves but for the family! She is pensive & pretending to be happy, which is very sad needs to read, Interpretations of dreams by SF!

Mink, wants to know what torture D is undergoing in her mind, (D ke man ke dasha ka bayan karma)!!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Dish is being so irrational...............she is hiding her inner feelings for the happiness of her mother who completely misunderstandings her adopted daughter...............She on the other hand is only concerned about the happiness of her biological daughter.....................How cruel could that be????????

Dish should realise by now that marriage is for keeps.................Marry for love or dont marry at all...................FORGET ABOUT YOUR MOTHER...............JUST ELOPE..............after Dish did overhear all the cruel things she had to say about her................

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Posted: 20 years ago
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What do we say about lady D! I've given this a lot of thought since the day Sumi woke up out of her trance & made our lives miserable!! 😡 I can't seem to understand how a headstrong woman like Disha can just let other people make the decisions of her life. She wants to make Suhas happy, I understand that, but hasn't she realized that the last time she let Suhas interfere in her life, things turned ugly instead of good.. so how can she think that this time around it will be any different!

She loves DK but she's just sitting there letting people make the decisions for her.. and not letting them know how she feels esp. Suhas & Ved! Does she really see herself happy with Ved? Or will she pretend that she's happy like now.. 😕 or is she also waiting for a miracle to happen to stop the wedding like us....

Disha's suffering too but she's being tiyaag ki moorti (sacrificing for family). I'm sure she suspects there's a reason behind DK's change of heart but she's not confronting him cuz of Ved and Suhas. She's letting them convince her that DK doesn't care about her and that he's the same when deep down she knows he loves her and will always love her.

I want to see the old Disha back who went to DK and proposed marriage!!!!! Where is that Disha who turned down his modeling offer? Why is she sacrificing her love for Suhas's peace of mind YET AGAIN!!!!!! I don't know.. there are so many loose ends in the personalities of these characters that the Guhas pick & choose as convenient for them.

Sorry once again I went overboard.. 😳

Gulabo

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Hi

I agree gulaboo and thanks for the post Mink i think we are too busy talking about inder, ved and Dk and somehow forget how Disha would be feeling. She is completely in love with DK and it really shows but i don't understand how Suhas and Ved can't see that. Disha i think is suffering becuase she hasnt got a concrete reason from Dk where she can stand in front of Suhas and say that she will wait for him or won't marry anyone else as she loves Dk. DK hasnt been able to come out with it and he told her how they would be together and next minute he is all changed i am sure she is finding the whole situation really hard to believe.

I think she is struggling within herself and she doesn;t know what to do but deep down i think she does believe that there is a reason behind DK's change of behaviour but things around her are happening at a veyr fast pace so she can't really control them.

She is going through the worst part in her life as when Rano married Inder i don't hink it was that bad i think her love for DK is very mature and she can't take him with anyone else as she is really protective of him but circumstances are not in her hand and as gulabooo said she wants to ben tyaag ki moorat once again but i also think Dk is also being the same so they are struggling within themselves as DK can;t take her getting married to someone else to that is why he keeps coming to her and tries to talk to her but it goes in vain. Well i think Disha ke dil ka haal bahut bura hai and us ki zindagi ki disha has been decided by someone else once again..

Samy

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Posted: 20 years ago
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I also agree with Gulabo and Samy. But more than tyag ki moorti, I think she feels indebted to Suhas and Vijendra. Ever since she found out that she in not their real daughter, she feels that she owes everything she has to them so her desires to fulfill their every wish. She knows that Suhas wants nothing more than to see Rano happy. She married DK to please Suhas and give Rano her love. Now she is marrying Vedant because this is what Suhas wants.

She feels berried under their debt. She loves DK and knows very well that he love her. But I don't think she will ever go against Suhas.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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I fully agree with Nisu. I feel exactly in the same way that Disha feels very much indebted to Suhas and Vijyendra for bringing her up inspite of the fact that they lost their only son because of negligence of her own father Dev and somehow she feels responsible for that.

She loves DK and knows that he loves her too but she is very well aware of the present circumstanes which are very much unfavourable for them. She finds herself sourrounded by the people who only hates DK, otheres have their own selfish reasons and wants her to get married as soon as possible like Suhaas who feels insecure for Rano and feel kind of threat if Disha is not married and staying in that house then Inder might leave Rano and try to get involved with Disha, so she wants her to get married for her selfish reason and Ved who wants to avail this oppurtunity to get her by marrying her, if he wanted to be a true friend to her then he would have rather helped her in this difficult phase of life but he is just making use of it for his own benefit. She is alone and has no one to support her, her only support DK is caught in his own circumstances and can't stand by her. Since she does not know the real cause for DK marrying Pori, she feels cheated by DK and she is definatly in bad shape.

maya😭

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Posted: 20 years ago
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I totall agree with all you guys.

Here though is what I think is going on in her mind.She is head over heels in love with DK but our man has not told her why he did not come to pick her up as promised.As far as she is concerned he has betrayed her love and sometimes the betrayal of love can leave anyone demoralised.It is almost like all your strength is sapped away.There is nothing left.I think it leaves an emptiness in your heart and sometimes you are so miserable, you cannot look beyond it.

DK on the other hand can be such a strong person, in general and yet when he comes by to see her to tell her that his mother has blood cancer and she gets mad at him and tells him to go away and asks him not to see her again.He does lots of drama about noone can stop him from seeing her and yet he does say the most important thing which is thathis mother is sick.He seems to lose his guts when he has to say important things.

This does not help anyone cause.Just my opinion

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Posted: 20 years ago
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I agree wid you guys she feels she is indebted towards Vijendra and Suhasni however she is not even though their foster parents they are still her parents and its their duty to fufil the duty of being a parent. Suhasni is being selfish for Rano on one hand because she wants Disha to get married Asap so that Inder and Rano can stay toghter and noone can spilt them up however she also wants to fufil the promise she gave to DK of getting Disha married wether Disha is happy abot it or not. Suhasni is always being selfish because fo Suhasni This is the second time she will loose her love first because of Suhasni she lost Inder just because Rano wanted Inder she is always sacirificing everything for her family and then the second time now because Suhasni is feeling Insecure and she wants to make DK know that Suhasni can get disha married. Suhasni knows Disha loves DK eventhough Disha don't say anything in the update we hear that Suhasni had to change topic as Vedant was asking Disha do you want to marry me are you happy or not? etc and Suhasni lied and said that Disha is unhappy because she is going away from ayi.ON the other hand mabey Ayi is feeling bad what she doen to Disha and now is using w/e way that comes to her mind which she thinks will keep her happy. Suhasni is thinking about what the society will say Disha married her brother in law i utterly disagree on such a relationship and thinks it unbearable to watch!

Disha betta hurry up abot her feelings on any way try to stop the marriage or else she is going to loose her second love. Suhasni should stop acting like she is doing everything for Disha because Disha is getting hurt by the seperation of her and DK she doesn't want to marry DK and noone can force her. Suhasni is being tunnel vissioned and thinks what she is thinking is absolutley right however it is not her tunnel vission and obbession is reaching a limit where is destroying Disha's life wether she means it or not because she is feeling insecure about Rano's relationship she is trying to basically get rid of Disha as she feels till Disha is there Rano can't continue her life wid Inder! Inder the bunder and the stick is the main problem to be honest and he should hurry up found a way out so Disha can get married to Dk!

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