The truth behind Amma's speech?

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I haven't seen today's episode yet, but here are my thoughts.

Pratigya is a very detached person - I am not saying it in a wrong way, some people are like that.

Krishna could prove his love to her completely when he met death for few moments.

Of course, Amma never behaved in a way Prats could have a happy chat with her, but as you said, Prats is a very formal type. More suited to a house which has a office type environment, where people attend to their duties in a well-mannered fashion and retire after finishing their job for the day.

I do not agree that calling somebody Amma or by the relation name repeatedly does not mean giving them that darja.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Nice post elle,this is d ques troubling many of us that amma actualy had a transformation in a day............🤔😆😆

I whud make short and clear , TO ME mma looked having a plan behind her nautanki,it's quite impossible to belive lady lyk amma changed soo easily.........even K didn't understand his responsibilities and mistakes B4 pratigya metting an accident .........Amma toh is out of the question.......................😆

Also lyk to add that pratigya never gave amma darja of her mother lyk she gives to naina ,bz naina didn't blancked her face lyk amma did..........no matter Pratigya don't talk about it now but a human being in reality can never forget such INHUMAN act happend with her.........

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Pratigya is a very detached person - I am not saying it in a wrong way, some people are like that.

Krishna could prove his love to her completely when he met death for few moments.

I do not agree that calling somebody Amma or by the relation name repeatedly does not mean giving them that darja.Mnsu i don't agree with u full. Prats is very detached person.no i don;t think so. if she was detached she would have gone from TN long ago. everybody including krishna has hurt her. she is also responsible for somethings i know. but with amma. it is give and take .see she knows krishna loves her she loves him back. nowabt amma what all amma has done to her. from the marriage day she has taunted her until now. she even blacke ned her face. she told so much horrible things. so how will one speak with love to her. i won;t do it. i will hate her and won;t even face her. atleast prats is keeping quiet and maintaining her respect that is more. To a relationship to build both the parties have to work on it and understand each other and respect each other. who ever it is that is what i think.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: laks76

Pratigya is a very detached person - I am not saying it in a wrong way, some people are like that.

Krishna could prove his love to her completely when he met death for few moments.

Of course, Amma never behaved in a way Prats could have a happy chat with her, but as you said, Prats is a very formal type. More suited to a house which has a office type environment, where people attend to their duties in a well-mannered fashion and retire after finishing their job for the day.

I do not agree that calling somebody Amma or by the relation name repeatedly does not mean giving them that darja.Mnsu i don't agree with u full. Prats is very detached person.no i don;t think so. if she was detached she would have gone from TN long ago. everybody including krishna has hurt her. she is also responsible for somethings i know. but with amma. it is give and take .see she knows krishna loves her she loves him back. nowabt amma what all amma has done to her. from the marriage day she has taunted her until now. she even blacke ned her face. she told so much horrible things. so how will one speak with love to her. i won;t do it. i will hate her and won;t even face her. atleast prats is keeping quiet and maintaining her respect that is more. To a relationship to build both the parties have to work on it and understand each other and respect each other. who ever it is that is what i think.

Laks, I agree with what you have to say. Amma, with the behaviour she has shown, is by no means fit for Amma ka dharja from pratigya.

Let me clarify the word detached that I used for pratigya - It means that a person who cannot make friends very quickly with who ever they meet or do not feel the emotional bonding easily with a person who they knew for a short period of time. They can make friends or feel the emotional bonding only after they know the person completely and fully. And I do not think that is bad by any means, these kind of people may come across as too formal and reserved for some body who do not know them closely.

Hope you understand.

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elle45

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: anusarkar
Hello Elle,

Nice post!

I believe that every human being has the capability to change. Amma has always been a twisted character. She has always been the queen of TN. She feels that she has been betrayed by SS although of her undying loyalty towards him. He, keeping her in darkness and going out and planning with Kesamma is an utter betrayal to her. And now she wants to get even with SS and Kesamma. She has sensed that Kesamma is in the TN for all the wrong reasons. Remember, it has always been SS who is desperate for a heir, not Amma.

I felt that this change is genuine in her. People react differently in different situations. Amma deep down knows that P is a genuine person and would never do any harm to the family. P with her honesty and integrity has won over SS too. Amma realized that if she did not welcome or support P, then thinks might be very difficult for her.She needed back that assurance from the family. Today I saw a desperate woman trying mend her ways.

Handing over the keys to P was an attempt to save the property. She knows P is a honest woman and it would be intact and safe with her. The fact that SS openly declared giving anything to Kesamma is still in Amma's thoughts. She also remembers that Kesamma declined taking anything , promising she would take it at the right moment.

There couldn't be any other alternate motives because her thinking to separate Kriya is put of question after she saw Krishna's pain. She knows very well that going after P means losing K forever. SS and Amma has both realized this truth.

So, I believe that the reason for her tramsformation is to save her family from the danger she sees in the form of Kesamma.

Hello Anu 😊

While I don't agree with you that Amma has genuinely changed (I think her transformation will be very gradual, over months.... it woulld take more than a few few words from SS to change her. Just a while back she discussed how Prats was spinning everyone in her web, and few minutes later, she changed herself? Doesn't seem possible to me.... but I could be wrong, I'm thinking like a pessimist, because I think that even SS has something up his sleeve)

However, I do agree that this move by Amma is not against Pratigya. She knows it's no use wanting to seperate Prats and Krishna, coz then she will lose her own son as well. It has to do with her own fear of losing her position at TN, and getting back at SS and Kesamma.

Handing over the keys to Prats and not to Kesar is bound to cause some sort of rift. Till now, Kesamma thinks that Amma is playing a game. However, if Amma refuses to admit this, Kesamma will resent the fact that her daughter was overlooked. Then, she will start brainwashing Kesar even more. But I don't think Amma is clever enough to make such calculated moves. This seems just like an impulsive decision to get back her family on her side.

Come what may, I'm going to enjoy this sweet side of Amma while it lasts 😆

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elle45

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: mnsu

Laks, I agree with what you have to say. Amma, with the behaviour she has shown, is by no means fit for Amma ka dharja from pratigya.

Let me clarify the word detached that I used for pratigya - It means that a person who cannot make friends very quickly with who ever they meet or do not feel the emotional bonding easily with a person who they knew for a short period of time. They can make friends or feel the emotional bonding only after they know the person completely and fully. And I do not think that is bad by any means, these kind of people may come across as too formal and reserved for some body who do not know them closely.

Hope you understand.

Mnsu, I agree with you completely.... this is something that bothers me about Prats. I know some people are generally like that, but even I feel that Prats is generally very emotionally detached from everything. If you read Mera's post about the Saxena siblings not long ago, even she wrote about the difficulty they have in making friends and opening up with the people around them. They all are very slow to trust people and make new friendships.

While Amma is in no way deserving of being treated like a real mother.... I feel that even Prats lacked in this department. I don't think she ever really made an effort to win over her in-laws. you know, as they say "Kabhi hans key do bol bol deti".... meaning she could have tried to have a pleasant conversation sometimes, small things go a long way.

Maybe it's the faulty upbringing by the Saxenas, their kids have forgotten how to express emotions well. Thank God Pratigya has at least opened up to Krishna, although even that took time 😆

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