wht r hidden element tht forced jai

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Posted: 19 years ago
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what do u think girls which are the hidden element that forced jai to tell bani the words he never should have.

slightly divert from the point. it is the responsibility of the dialouge writer never to write such a dialouge which disgrace the respect n dignity of any woman. actors are there to perform on what have given to them. now a days in every serial and especially in ekta's, these type of dialouges, rape scences, mother shoot his son, daughter in law killed her mother in law on the base of mercy killing (in india till date its a crime. this is not approve by the government. debate is going on) are very common. which is very bad.

coming to the point. wht jai did with bani n told her is totally wrong. i m a biggest fan of jai n always remain but he disappointed me yesterday. we all know from which situation n mental stress he is passing through. also we know from starting of the serial, jai as human being very straight forward, caring n loving, tough from outside but soft from inside, never utter a single word which affact the dignity of the woman as he respect a woman's dignity the most. we can see his this characteristic e.g. when pia left him n bani support pia-pushkar marraige n got them married in walia house, he never said such a word to both the sisters no matter how deeply he hurt from inside. he used to said that bani, pia n pushkar broke his trust, broke his heart n bla...bla...bla but these type of words as far as i knew he never. when jigs humiliate dadi even then he fired jigs n told her how can she say such a things to dadi. then he told to ranvir about his mother's misbehaviour but there also he never say bad words for jigs. these shows that he respect woman's dignity. here there is no point tht he is egoistic or stubbern. if he would have been egoistic then he never opened his heart to bani or sympethetic with her or start to like her or given a higher post in his office or broght 3 sisters with him in his house when jigs threw 3 sisters from the outhouse n they have no other place to live. coz egoistic people never open their heart to other person. their ego always comes in between. also he is not a stubbern person, if he is so then he wouldn't have said thanks with his eyes to bani for whatever she did when his friends came for dinner. ya, circumstances and situation made him different person.

so my question is what are tht hidden element which forced him to said these type of words to bani?

waiting for yr views girls......

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Posted: 19 years ago
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i dont think that there is any thing which has pushed jai to say such a bad words to bani,all i can say that jai is affected by his EGO,,he doent know what he is doing for the moment,all he is trying to do is just to see the three sisters suffers....
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Posted: 19 years ago
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There is no hidden element except his Ego...... which he certainly doesn't seem to hide very well!


MT

Edited by mistletoe - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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If we know Jai as a person, we will know he wouldnt justify any reason to treat someone like that. The bottom line is that there was NO REASON. It was just an angry impulsive reaction triggered off by Jigyasa's accuse. I wont even say it was the money aspect coz he knew it the night before itself, he kept quiet and would have remained silent aswell till he got an opportunity to talk to Bani alone.
I will always be Jai's staunch supporter, but i wont approve of what he did Yday.. .not only did he demean Bani but also himself by lossing his own Dignity.
I do agree a lot has to be blamed on the creative writers who create an exceptional character like Jai who has a very strong sense of values and carries himself with a lot of dignity, and they write such derogatory lines for him to say... just for the sake of melodrama or for giving the Female protanganist sympathy. That is the fate of all the Male characters on TV. I just wish instead of being baised to female-male characters they should adopt a HUMAN approach to their stories. Even the heroine can do a mistake, and the hero can also stand up for what is right. But it is sad, that just is not the case. A lot of beautifully created characters have been destroyed cause of this menatility that prevails... be it Sujal, Angad or Mr. Bajaj and even Jai's portrayal proved the bais Y'day. I like to mention here that the discusiion is not on the actor but the character. If i hate Jai yday, then i thought Ram was exceptional at his job of being mean and nasty Jai Walia for he convinced even me that Jai was WRONG!

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Edited by anushka_5 - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i think jai himself doesnt know what he is doing and why,he is totally lost
the pain which pia gave him has let him forget everything he right now only rememberrs the pain 😕
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Posted: 19 years ago
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jai really disappointed me in yesterday's episode,he said all those things while remembering pia n whtever happened with him😭😭how could he not listen even to aditya😭

before saying all those things he never thought abt baa whom he says is like a mother to him,why did'nt he asked anything to sahil afterall rano was not alone in his room😭

hope he gets back to his senses soon😊

Edited by bellle4u - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I am terribly disappointed with Jai as a charater which previously stood for dignity class and charisma but yesterday his character hit rock bottom because of derogatory lines uttered by him courtesy serial writers 😡 kekta is always happy to invoke public sympathy for one character and hatred for the other inorder to popularise her serial this has always been her game plan 😡 I wish they had taken public sentiment into consideration before writing such dialogues 😕 Kekta 😡 and her team has really failed yesterday by hurting viewers sentiment by accussing charater of a Bani 😡 her serials from past have also shown disrespect for women which really sucks 🤢 but I am hurt to see it repeating in KS 😡
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Which Ekta serial really preaches good values and when has she ever cared about viewers sentiments? To be really honest with you all I was expecting this sort of thing but did not mention it on the forum. Her leading lady always has to get sympathy and the hero always has to be bad initially only to be reformed by the heroine. This according to Ekta is showing women are great,powerful adarsh bhartiya nari blah blah.... In the process they have to bear lot of humiliation and torture in whatever form it may be verbal,physical, mental who cares. This according to her is what happens in the real world. The more the viewers are outraged the more publicity the show gets.

So in short I am not surprised by reading yesterday's update.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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If he has said such things on the day of their marriage I could have been able to understand, but there was no reason at all ... I think ... well maybe he is just scared of the fact that he has started to care for Bani and get closer to her, being scared she would do the same as Pia he decided to hurt her so much that she would never ever think to get close to him again. You know his point was not just to offend Bani, he wanted her out of the house, out of his sight... and probably out of his mind and heart 😉 He told her she let him down and inspite of what Pia did he trusted her. So I think its not only Jai would can't understand the secret words, but our muffin Bani aswell. So that might have been the reason. Well atleast I hope so, it will be a lil more positive than having no reason at all. 😆 What do you guys think?
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i think he just had a bad day and rano inncident didn't help at all and without thinking he said all thoughs words! naughty jai!!!

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