More important to you?

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Friends, I would like to ask "What is more important to you in --

Friend -

Boyfriend-

Husband-

For me

Friend -- Good natured, be game for any crazy idea, but has a dot of caution. Can talk on any topic that our converstations go on.

Boyfriend -- Must love me totally. Be fun, understanding and considerate.

Husband - same as boyfriend + have a calm nature to offset my wild child nature ( can you imagine like poles permanently together - they will repel)


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Posted: 20 years ago
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friend-always there for me someone with a good personailty someone who i know i can take and care for as a friend and em my friend should mean being my friend not just show it or use me can keep secrets and get use to me lol

Boyfriend- well behaved well natured nice caring and totally therefore you

Husband - em nice caring there for me help me in taking decisions understanding me someone who tells me the truth doesn't look at anyone else lol i mean shouldn't have another affair behind my back😉

and most of all shud love me!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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fer me

Family

Frend

Boy-frend

dunno abt husband since ima not married but ye ofcourse once married..my parents then my husband..and then frends

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Posted: 20 years ago
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is it necessary for u that ur bf dont bcome ur hubby in future?

well.......if its like that and he falls in luv with u........it'll b prob for u and him like in kk

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Posted: 20 years ago
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i totally agre..i couldnt have said it ne better..lol..😉😃
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: sam_84

is it necessary for u that ur bf dont bcome ur hubby in future?

well.......if its like that and he falls in luv with u........it'll b prob for u and him like in kk



I agree but my question was looking for similar characteristics that people look for in a person at different stages in life. Marrying your boyfriend would be the best thing to happen, but there is no guarantee he is right husband material.

Another thing I noticed is no one laid emphasis on looks or even pointed it as a criteria which is interesting.


Thanks all for responding.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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I think that your boyfriend has to be your friend.. and if he loves you enough then he wants to be your husband.. and throughout it all wants to maintain friendship because it is the basis for love, understanding and trust. So before he can become a part of your family he must be your friend.. then your boyfriend.. then your husband.. and throughout it all always remain a friend...

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