Chawl people talks sense sometimes !

Heyy I am not on IF regular, but I couldnt stop posting this.....

Savita was given a good piece of advice by chawl people (with whom she usually keeps Sachin, rather than with Archana) that why is she hell bound not to make peace with her Son and daughter in law ?

She gave her example of aaj kal ke log, how they treat their mom and dad.

Savita is blessed with such a caring responsible and loving son, who sometimes stands against Archana for his mom....

And a daughter in law who is a gem who loves her in-spite of what she is from day one of her marriage( seriously tell me how many girls will ever want MIL like Savita in her rarest of dream )

The day she will accept this that she is the luckiest person in the world that she has all the loving people in this world with her, she will be the happiest and most content person :)

-S-

Savita is lucky to have Archu but I wont say the same in case of Manav..She is in fact unlucky to have a pathetic husband like Damo who just keeps degrading here n has not supported here once even in her sickness n keeps singing the praise of his Bahu which is good but has not bothered about his wife..Its coz of him that Manav had to work from his young age to support his family...Manav has not done anything to say to savita or convince her.He has not done anything concrete all his ideas are not on his own some one had always tell him to do so..This all began when he gave preference to K;s props n did not even bother to see what was happening in D's..So its Manav n Damo fault too for being so ignorant..They cant escape here..Its Not Archu responsibility here...Its not a war between savita n Archu..In fact Savita is least interested in Archu n hence she wont fight back...First Archu needs to understand that first n butt out a bit n let Manav do something here for a change..ITs Manav who needs to sort it out n not Archu...Savita is I dont know what her sickness can be called but she is in a very pathetic state of mind n Manav as a son instead of depending on his wife needs to say to Archu that now so far u tired its not quite working leave it for a while give me a chance to try let me do it now you stay out of it for a while...Give Archu some break n he needs to handle his mom..He started it he needs to finish it too!!!

Lovely Post.. I agree with you completely..

The Chawl lady really gave a good piece of advice to Savita Aai..

Actually I should say Savita Aai is very lucky to get Manav and Archu..

She might have had a bad marriage as she got a husband who did not take the reponsibilities well but she has a son who was ready to do anything for her but her stubborness spoiled everything...

She has got a bahu who loves her so much even after taking so many abuses.. Even today she is ready to take her hatredness only to make her normal..

She is also lucky to get these Chawl People who are still supporting her and caring her even after seeing her behaviour...

I wish Savita Aai melts down soon and we see a good relation between them.. Savita Aai and Archu make a great Saas Bahu.. I still remember the day when Savita Aai took Archu's shoulder to cry when Vandu got married to Ajit.. They both are good together.. Waiting for that day..

@ Jaishankar, from where did damodar came?

And s Damo comes into picture coz he is the better half of Savita if the better half is not understandable then your life is not going to be easy..Well just giving medicine or asking one to eat does not mean you are taking care..Taking care means showing proper concern n love which Damo might have but have always emoted in a wrong way...

every body has their problems but a family member is not well its duty of all the members of the family to take care of that person show proper love n concern n consult a good i mean good doctor give them proper medication n love n warmth..Well these things are missing here...coz of this approach taking by Archu only coz neither Damo or Manav are doing anything here ,Archu has to do this..They are simply supporting this idea instead of taking an initiative to take Savita to a proper doctor and follow his instructions...If a sickness is mysterious you consult doctor first proper doctor n do as he says n not allow a Bahu to take charge here barge her with all responsibilities and you sit back n watch..That is what wrong here both Father n son in this case..Savita's condition is a failure of D's as an entire family to take proper care of her...Its unfair to just put the blame on an mentally sick women whereas the entire family is to blame for their ignorance and not taking right approach..

PS : Well said Sherma!!! Thats what I am also trying to say too!!!

@ sherma, thanks for responding to my topic.

Yeah I agree Archana was indeed weird and harsh on Savita.

It was pretty sad when we see our favorite things thrown like this...

What kinda beemari are they showing :-S , she seems pretty normal sometimes when she is with Archana.......she is definitely not indifferent with Archana ( becoz of beemari) coz Savita took water from chawl lady but not from Archana, when she first served her water...

@ soumya, I just wrote what I thought, not thinking about the leads but Savita on whole how she reacts to everyone, to surrounding people, Manav and Archana are inseparable part of her lives as Savita is for Manav........

Barely 2-3 people reside in the deshmukh house and in that too we say leave archana aside leave Manav aside, then who remains?damodar baba....we have to live happily with the people we have...

I would also like to have some thoughts on my topic too :)