love - hate relationship

Love - Hate Relationship: explanation by Dr. John Grohol

A love-hate relationship is between two people who refuse to accept the liking of each other or the enjoyment of one another's presence. The couple usually holds a weak grudge towards one another creating a feud between emotional depression and 'happily ever after'. The relationship is held together by the hatred each person conjures when feeling incomparable to the other's perfection. This anger is the cover up for the love part of the relationship because the couple dislikes society's knowledge of the affair. The hate is also powered by the teasing of each person while the frustration reaches its maximum level through the restriction on releasing their sexual tension and intimacy.

On the other hand, the relationship may be held together entirely by insecurity; the people in the relationship may believe that (for some reason or another) they are "unable to live without" one another, and knowing no other existence but with each other, choose the certainty of staying together over the risk of leaving. The two people in such a relationship are totally incompatible, but believe that they are both with the best person for themselves that they are going to get.

Please do give your opinion. 😊

Lots of Love and giggles from me to all of you.

Happe, pretty deep thought & very true too! But let me tell you, marriage or any other relationship requires "compromise"!

Before we talk about love & hate we should read Sigmund Freud. Some of u may hate him, but he taught us to understand the mind & our consciousness. If you read him then you'll understand about our insecurities & mysterious behavior!

Happe, I hope you know that Dr. John Grohol, treats internet addiction disorder! Probably you & I may have to go to him soon! lol😆

Mink

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Mink I think we do need to go to him. 😆😆😆 I'll make the appointment.

I thought of putting this cuz somehow it does relate to Angad-Kripa relationship.

I have read Sigmund Freud, but don't remember much.

Dogs love their friends and bite their enemies, quite unlike people, who are incapable of pure love and always have to mix love and hate in their object-relations. - Sigmund Freud

Happe u can read............The Interpretation of Dreams
by Sigmund Freud! He revolutionized the way we think abt ourselves!!

I agree your article is apt for A-K relationship!!

Originally posted by: mink

Happe u can read............The Interpretation of Dreams
by Sigmund Freud! He revolutionized the way we think abt ourselves!!

I agree your article is apt for A-K relationship!!

Sigmund Freuds... Id, Ego and Superego crap made me go crazy. but the interpretation of dreams is pretty good i must say.

Hey Happe u always come up wid some deep stuff yaar. good job👏 It actually makes me think 4 a change😆

Thanks for that Happe but still listen one thing..................

Love, life and relationships and their zillion shades are too massive and expansive for miniscule human-understanding.You cannot define them and be done with it..................no matter how much you love, how much you hate, how much you fight, how much you hurt...at the end of the day, if you still can't let go and want to go hand-in-hand, go ahead and do so, tell the person and lock your ego away.You can still be the same person ..it's just that your ex-enemy and current love of life will queitly soften your edges.

If two people love each other in true sense of the word, they shouldn't separate.Of course, we all can live without each other.....but what life is that where your heart is hurt and your soul is desperate?