HATED Akshara today!! - Page 2

You know, i have seen several posts today claiming that Akshara doesn't need to be a "maid" to Naitik and why can't he do his packing himself and make his breakfast himself?!

My humble answer to all such posts is - it's all about a fair distribution of work in the household! Let me give you guys an example to explain further.

(Note: I live in the US and have no maids at home..)

1. When i was newly married and a housewife, i used to do all the work in the house as well as all my husband's stuff like iron his shirts, etc, etc. I did all of that willingly and with love. I was "taking care of my husband".

2. After some time, my job started. I made my husband understand that he would have to iron his shirts himself. At home, I used to cook and my husband helped with the cleaning.

3. After some more time, i had my first child. I took a break from work and initially expected to do all the house work + all the baby's work myself. But as i said, there are no maids here and i soon realised that i couldn't do everything alone. So i requested my husband to help with the baby in the evenings and also help with the cleaning. He did.

4. My full time job started again and after 1 month of craziness, my husband and i sat down, prepared a list of all work that needed to be done inside and outside and distributed it fairly.

Now guys, tell me, exactly what work does Akshara have these days? Why can't she do her part sincerely and take care of her husband? As of now, cooking and helping with his little things very much fall into her share of the work!

Just my humble opinion...

OMG Charu u r hilarious. I do enjoy all ur posts be it the serious ones or the funny ones Yeahh yest everyone was goin on jet speed. I wonder how the S's do business if they dont have the no of their family dr. isiliye shayad sab kuch loss mein ja raha hai. and Akshi's classes i wud definitely like to attend those, mera class toh 2 din mein khatam kar diya, mujhe bhi shayad koi nayi recipe mi jaye..

Originally posted by: mcgregor

OMG Charu u r hilarious. I do enjoy all ur posts be it the serious ones or the funny ones Yeahh yest everyone was goin on jet speed. I wonder how the S's do business if they dont have the no of their family dr. isiliye shayad sab kuch loss mein ja raha hai. and Akshi's classes i wud definitely like to attend those, mera class toh 2 din mein khatam kar diya, mujhe bhi shayad koi nayi recipe mi jaye..

@neel_jay i cudnt agree more. you just put my thoughts in words. Helping a husband getting ready is not being a maid. and yes the responsibilities shud be shared. u cant expect ur husband to go out and work aur ghar aake bhi ghar ka kaam karo. what will u do then. I am not saying akshara dosent do her work(kabi kabhi toh kuch jyada hi karti hain) but she shud learn to prioritize her work or even relationships. Akshara's phone always rings at the wrong time. And when imp call came she didnt even see it , that is a joke......shayad yeh cvs hame bhi stone age zamane ke mante hain.

he he he! you know, another thing i find very funny is that Akshara carries her phone everywhere, even to the kitchen. i really find that funny. mujhe lagta hai bathroom mein le jaati hogi!! do women really carry their cell phones to all the rooms in the house? none of the women i know do that.

Originally posted by: neel_jay

he he he! you know, another thing i find very funny is that Akshara carries her phone everywhere, even to the kitchen. i really find that funny. mujhe lagta hai bathroom mein le jaati hogi!! do women really carry their cell phones to all the rooms in the house? none of the women i know do that.

Yeah i always find it so funny, she always carries her phone as if it is glued to her hand. shayad loi bhi call miss nahi karna chahti. BTW which ph and service does she have that dosent support call waiting.

Originally posted by: mcgregor

Yeah i always find it so funny, she always carries her phone as if it is glued to her hand. shayad loi bhi call miss nahi karna chahti. BTW which ph and service does she have that dosent support call waiting.

i phone. 🤣

Originally posted by: neel_jay

she should have helped him pack. she should also have prepared his breakfast on time and packed it if he didn't have time to eat at home. you have to remember that in every household, there should be a fair distribution of work. Munna is working very hard these days and Akshara has very little work to do. she should definitely provide her husband all meals on time and should help him with packing and other stuff.

why do you say it's maid's work? i'm married myself and i do these things for my husband with love. in my eyes, it's called "taking care of one's family"!!

as for Naitik doing anything for Akshara, in all fairness, he is being the better spouse these days!! he does care for Akshara and her needs a lot.

well if natik has more work to do then akshra can join the office with him she is edicated girl in 21st century, atleast they work together spend time together, they work in jewellery business she can add lot of input into the styles as she is a neye yug ke ladki,
well maid is what saasuma would expect from a bahu in serials not in real life, hey i have husband and 2 sons merried and bahus they share house work with wifes as bahus work with them equaly, and i have told kids to do things them selves so if they are in hurry they do stuff at nightbefore like packing or ironing shitrts, no excuses, and on weekends they help bahus with house work, ok we are in one of the westren country but if i was living in india they would have done that there too as lot of girls there have careers too and they dont have luxry os having family around to help, and at home my husband help me too.
well i agree natik has grown up since the batwara, so has akshra, thats why i said nandini need one too from DJ and BM

She did so many things today that i didn't like -

1. she knew about Naitik's trip, why didn't she wake up early and help him on time? why didn't she keep his breakfast ready? she could atleast have packed for him to eat at the airport.

If its abt gtng early yo naitik jaldi nahi utha ya alaram laga k ya aksh ko bata k nahi soya k ive to lv early so plz mujhe jaga dena??.ha aksh ka bhi fault hai??raat ko hi bags pack karna chchiye tha??n breakfast bhi bana na chahiye tha as naitik ko jaldi jana tha

2. why was she picking up her cell again and again when Naitik was in crunch mode? sometimes, i'm in crunch mode and my husband helps too. couples are supposed to do that for each other. when you are stuck in urgent work, you are supposed to ignore your cell phone!

In yest epi??aksh ka sabse bada fault yahi tha k wo baar baar payal ka phone pick kar rahi thi??.i mean y??..wh u r in hurry?..n don't hv tym?.n sbse badi baat whn ur hubby is nt liking it toh phone thodi der baad kar lena?..thodi der mei to who chala jayega

Hmmmm??.aksh ki ye baat bhi I don't liked yest??yaar y payal?payal?.n payal??.baar baar naitik ki baat kaat rhi h??..uski bhi sun??..agar mai naitik ki jagah hoti toh mai bhi ayhi karti

Some other reactions at today's episode:

1. liked Gayatri feeding Naitik meetha dahi

Lol??..Aksh ne g3 ko bataya kya style se tha k naitik Delhi jaa raha hai

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3. Rashmi wasn't being smart. as soon as she heard that Akshara had the number, she should have run to her room to get the number. during emergencies, it's foolish to ask permissions "main bhabhi ke kamre se number le aaoon?"

Haa??.maine bhi yahi kaha tha ?.. yaar ye pooch kyu rahi hai??bhgti kyu nahi jaldi se no. laane ko??.aur G3 aksh ko bula nahi sakti thi agar kuch emergency thi toh

IMMEDIATELY??..itna lamba wait karne k baad toh usko yeh khyaal aya k hospital bhi le ja sakte hai??.yaar DJ ws complaining k meri chest mei pain ho raha hai??n tht stupid RB ws lyk?.dawa ka dibba lao mai dawai lata hu??yaar aise case mei toh sbse phle hospital le jana chahiye??chahe prob kitni bhi choti ho

Originally posted by: neel_jay

but why did Akshara need to pick up the phone every time someone called? she was completely ignoring the need of the hour! there's something called prioritizing and focusing one's attention on the urgent matter at hand! clearly, Akshara lacks this quality. she should have ignored the phone ringing.

and no, Naitik doesn't like bread and butter at all. he only likes his parathe and puri, no matter how unhealthy those are! it was very much Akshara's duty to cook for Naitik on time. that is her share of the work and she should do it honestly and sincerely.

he likes parathas n stuff.. but dese days hes dieting!!!😆 he has cornflakes n other such stuff!! he dusnt have parathas!!!
akshi cud ahv kept the phone on silent.. but i feel.. once she told payal shes busy.. she shudnt hav called again... varsha bhi toh nai karti.. she says tu jabhi free hogi.. cal karna..

Originally posted by: divi4u

2. didn't like that Nandini didn't seem that much bothered given that it was her DAD that was ill! Gulabo and Gayatri were much more bothered and anxious than DJ's own daughter!!

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🤣 i said the same thing!!! nandu irritates!!!🤣