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I dont agree with you fully as regards Akshara

Originally posted by: mcgregor

I dont agree with you fully as regards Akshara

I dont think she is thinking abt herself , if that was the case then she wud have said that she wants to complete her class and not that how will payal feel? which means she is again giving imp to payal rather than naitik. I want her to be independant and not to give up her self respect. She cud have explained to naitik that she is doing this for herself and it is imp for her just like the work is imp to naitik. but she was afraid that she will disappoint her friend. It is always the same with her either it is her mayka, or the dinos or now a new friend. naitik has always cared for akshara, even during her initial days he had supported her n no of times in front of gayatri. after the nandini episode though it took time he was the one who said sorry. when he brought a house bocoz of akshara he gave it back. did she even acknowledge his gesture..no these were the reasons that whole sneha episode happened and even though naitik was not at fault he apologized.he has been ther for her every step of their marriage and now its high time that akshara gives the same imp to him.

As for G3 i am happy that she is standing up for her son. wud have been more impressed if she didnt crib abt her bahu withh BM

Originally posted by: neel_jay

Yep, two - Akshara and Gayatri!

Akshara - because she is starting to give herself some space and importance. Her life should not revolve around her favorite sasu ma or even Naitik. She needs to do more with her life and others around her, including Naitik, need to understand that they can not always take her for granted. Naitik himself expects that each time he needs her, Akshara will just drop everything in her life and run to him! I would like to see this changed.

Gayatri - because she continued with her rebellious streak and gave "muh tod jawaab" to BM! Gayatri was absolutely right. DJ and BM keep on telling her to ignore Naitik so why all these expectations from him? And what did they do the last time Naitik thought of his sister and tried to arrange a patch up between Nandini and Mohit? All these elders pounced on him at that time and told him he should not have interfered. So why should he interfere NOW?
And the question I want to ask BM is - she is Nandini's MOTHER, why the hell did she not go to Mohit and talk to him about Nandini??? Why should Naitik do everything when she herself is not bothered enough about her own daughter?!

Again, this post is not about Gayatri as a saas. I agree that she is horrible to Akshara. I want to ignore that for the time being and enjoy the way she is fighting DJ and BM these days! 😃

Originally posted by: neel_jay

Yep, two - Akshara and Gayatri!

Akshara - because she is starting to give herself some space and importance. Her life should not revolve around her favorite sasu ma or even Naitik. She needs to do more with her life and others around her, including Naitik, need to understand that they can not always take her for granted. Naitik himself expects that each time he needs her, Akshara will just drop everything in her life and run to him! I would like to see this changed.

Gayatri - because she continued with her rebellious streak and gave "muh tod jawaab" to BM! Gayatri was absolutely right. DJ and BM keep on telling her to ignore Naitik so why all these expectations from him? And what did they do the last time Naitik thought of his sister and tried to arrange a patch up between Nandini and Mohit? All these elders pounced on him at that time and told him he should not have interfered. So why should he interfere NOW?
And the question I want to ask BM is - she is Nandini's MOTHER, why the hell did she not go to Mohit and talk to him about Nandini??? Why should Naitik do everything when she herself is not bothered enough about her own daughter?!

Again, this post is not about Gayatri as a saas. I agree that she is horrible to Akshara. I want to ignore that for the time being and enjoy the way she is fighting DJ and BM these days! 😃

Originally posted by: mcgregor

I dont agree with you fully as regards Akshara

I dont think she is thinking abt herself , if that was the case then she wud have said that she wants to complete her class and not that how will payal feel? which means she is again giving imp to payal rather than naitik. I want her to be independant and not to give up her self respect. She cud have explained to naitik that she is doing this for herself and it is imp for her just like the work is imp to naitik. but she was afraid that she will disappoint her friend. It is always the same with her either it is her mayka, or the dinos or now a new friend. naitik has always cared for akshara, even during her initial days he had supported her n no of times in front of gayatri. after the nandini episode though it took time he was the one who said sorry. when he brought a house bocoz of akshara he gave it back. did she even acknowledge his gesture..no these were the reasons that whole sneha episode happened and even though naitik was not at fault he apologized.he has been ther for her every step of their marriage and now its high time that akshara gives the same imp to him.

As for G3 i am happy that she is standing up for her son. wud have been more impressed if she didnt crib abt her bahu withh BM

Originally posted by: _charu_

🤣 really? this is news to me..seems like i missed a couple of episodes..exactly WHEN did Akshara dropped all her plans and everything in life and run to Naitik ? 😕

loved Gayitri yest 👏 muaah !! she's living upto my expectations..she's the only one who can reply BMA !!! vaise i dun want her to turn THAT much rebellious ke daddaji sends her to naitik's side 😆 in that case she'll be moaning (but not this much) ke she's not able to cook & serve RB 😭😆

Originally posted by: _charu_

and we all know how these classes are..koi board exam hai kya? each course (chinese/continental/desserts etc. ) is of limited no. of days & the course is repeated after a few days..or did she go to some catering institute n took admission in a 1-2 yr course? 😕 whatever, i'm happy she's doing something for herself ! i never expected her to go with naitik...that's the diff. b/w naitik and akshara..after marriage, whatever naitik has done, he's done it for akshara (for her happiness) whereas akshara has always done what she likes & naitik was never a part of it ! "what she likes" was cooking, kitchen, following MA , not going to movies, refusing to go on holidays , outings, dinners etc. etc. 🤢 haan occassionaly she's decorated the room & house for naitik , cooked and cooked and cooked and cooked for him , office ke liye tayyar karna, nashta, tiffin, daal baati and then those smp's ! 🤢

Originally posted by: mcgregor

exactly she shud get her priorities straightened. a wife is not just for cleanin and cooking. I am all for ditching a friend if need be for my husband, that too a husband like naitik. I am sure her friend will also understand.