Though the pretty Ragini Khanna is from a filmi background, it wouldn't be wrong to say that she has woven her very own success story with much passion and perseverance. The perky girl who made her television debut with Radhaa Ki Betiyaan Kuch Kar Dikhayengi has certainly come a long way. With her unusual yet remarkable act in Bhaskar Bharti, Ragini won the hearts of many.
Currently essaying the role of Suhana in Sasural Genda Phool, this actress' career graph is nothing short of impressive. That's not all; the versatile star has also managed to amaze all with her electrifying dance moves in Jhalak Dikhhla Jaa. Showtime caught up with the chulbuli actress for a quick Hard Talk session. And her bold replies sure made for an interesting read.
Tell us about your first attraction.
The first thing that comes to my mind is clothes. So yes, clothes were my first attraction.
What was your first date like? How far would you go on a first date?
I didn't even realise it was my first date when it actually happened. I went for a drive with a friend and before I knew it, it was a date! I don't think I would go very far on a first date. A tad bit of flirting too depends on whether I am able to strike a chord with my date or not.
What would you wear on a hot date?
I would wear a dress and make sure that I look pretty.
I wouldn't bare my assets. But at the same time, I should look sexy.
Would you call yourself a flirt?
I'm not a compulsive flirt.
What is your take on one-night stands?
It suits some. I am not the kind of person who would go for a one-night stand. I need an emotional connect and a one-night stand certainly doesn't include an emotional bond.
Have you ever been attracted to someone of the same sex?
No. Never!
Has a girl ever hit on you?
Fortunately, no. I really don't know how I would react if someone ever does that.
What are your takes on homosexuality and bisexuality?
To each his own. I think it's prevalent in society today. Also, everyone is entitled to be the way they want to be. Ultimately, it's a personal choice.
What turns you on in a man?
Good smell can turn me on. Besides, I also appreciate hygienic men. Men who have clean feet are very attractive. I like neat and tidy men. Last but not the least, I should be able to connect with the man and he should know how to keep an interesting conversation going.
How would you react if a guy made a pass at you?
It entirely depends on whether I like the guy or not. Some guys tend to go overboard in making a pass and that really puts me off. I like men who aren't pretentious, they should be genuine.
What are your views on pre-marital sex?
It depends on the intensity of a relationship. Many couples who are deeply in love are quite open about their views on pre-marital sex. They love each other and they're okay with getting that physical.
Do you think men always have sex on their mind?
Not always. But yes, most of the time they are thinking about it.
How much importance would you give to sex in a relationship?
Sex is very important in a relationship. It is one of the most vital aspects of a relationship but not the only one. I believe that if you love someone, physical attraction is bound to happen. How would you show your affection otherwise?
Do you see yourself in a purely physical relationship?
I can't get physical without an emotional attachment. So the answer would be no.
Do you think nice guys have a tough time getting the right girl?
Unfortunately, all the nice guys are either married, gay or dead! But I've noticed how nice guys get attracted to the bad girls and vice versa. In the process of finding a nice guy, you will meet a lot of bad boys.
Only bitches can manipulate men well. I think smart women are tagged as bitches today and they're the ones who can control men best. Men too enjoy the chase and hence fall for such women.
Why do men love bitches?
Only bitches can manipulate men well. I think smart women are tagged as bitches today and they're the ones who can control men best. Men too enjoy the chase and hence fall for such women. But sadly, as soon as they get the girl, very few value them. Most men take them for granted.
Have you experienced the casting couch?
No, never.
Showbiz entities are assumed to be loose. How would you react to such assumptions?
It's not like only people who belong to showbiz have hormones or feel physically attracted. Sex is the most common emotion so it's incorrect to categorise like this. Even a college going guy will fantasize. He doesn't need to be in the entertainment business for that. People from the industry are assumed to be like that because we are popular and things are hyped up here.
People pay to get gossip about us. So it's obvious that we are going to be talked about on these lines. I think it's a very narrow-minded perspective. I know what the truth really is because I come from a filmi background. At the end of it, it's a choice people make. I know so many girls who are willing to sleep with directors even if the directors don't want to. I don't think people spend crores of rupees for half-an-hour of pleasure. It's not right to generalise.
Would you take back your partner who has strayed in a relationship if he regretted it later?
It depends under what circumstances my partner strayed. I do believe to err is human. But when such things happen, they definitely create cracks in a relationship. If someone with a large heart can accept the partner, then that's a great thing. For me, it's very situational. If the guy is genuine and honest, then I would forgive him.
What is your opinion on open marriages/open relationships?
An open relationship is just a matter of convenience. It's barely a relationship. I don't really picture myself being with more than one person. I'd rather have one strong relationship than be in an open one. After a long day of work, I wish to come back to that one person who I can be happy with.
Tell us about your wildest fantasy.
My wildest fantasy involves being with Hugh Grant, even if it is in his toilet. I would do anything to sit and have a coffee with him, in his toilet also.
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* By Chandni Ghosh
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