Thunderstorm gathering at Walia House!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I finished watching yesterday's episode repeat which is aired at 12:30 Pm India Time!

Pretty depressing episode, especially after the super-romantic flirting sequence between Cuddles and Bani😔....what's up with Jai, he certainly has a bee in his bonnet! Bani ke peeche haath dho kar pad gaya hai!🤢 And to boot, that good for nothing Babaji (Sorry Doe, but Ranveer really bugs me to no end. But I still like Siddharth!😳) has decided that while Jai is at his job of making Bani's life hell, he will also contribute his two penny! Ab Ranveer ko kya pareshani hai Bani ke saath?

I have noticed one thing, when Jai and Bani are alone, his behaviour with her is much better....but the moment someone of the family is with them or the issue of Pia crops up, the devil in Jai raises its ugly head and then he simply doesn't know what he is saying or doing! In yesterday's episode, Jai had simply flung the file with Pia's pictures on the floor, but the moment Bani came in, he deliberately told Ranveer to arrange for the Fashion Show in the Hotel, just to spite and hurt Bani! The good thing was that while Jai does that, Bani is only looking at Ranveer with hatred and anger in her eyes....atleast she understands that who is the bigger culprit!

Secondly, I really don't understand Aditya! He claims to be Jai's best friend and well-wisher, then why did he advice Jai to divorce Bani? His reasoning and explanation was quite sound and practical, as he tells Jai that the choice of living with pain or living outside pain is Jai's own and he has to make the choice....but wouldn't it have been better, if he had adviced Jai to try and work out his marriage instead of breaking it! Anyways, Jai wouldn't have listened to him, he always does what he wants to, then why not give an advice that would have atleast stayed in the back of Jai's mind! Aditya is forgetting that by telling Jai to divorce Bani, he is only making Jai more obstinate and unbending towards Bani, as Jai thinks that everyone in the house and elsewhere supports her and not Jai!

Bani ka toh aaj band bajne waal hai...one the poor soul has not eaten a single morsel of food or even drank a drop of water the whole day, on top of that she worked like a donkey throughout and then she is going to come home to get a real-time sounding off by Jai!😔 And inspite of the fact that she refused to have food at Pia and Pushkar's and wanted to have it at her own house (maybe she wanted Jai to come home and then have Dinner with him!)....Khana toh door ki baat hai, aaj Jai usko zinda hi kha jaayega!😡He did look pretty thunderous by the end of the episdoe, thanks to his lovely sister!

It was really depressing to see Jai in such a tired, worn-out and anguished mood! See, this is what happens when you bug your wife so much!😉And I felt so sad listening to what Jai tells Aditya, "Yeh thakaan man ki nahin, dil ki hai...." Atleast Jai knows what is wrong with him, but he is too stubborn and pig-headed to do anything about it! He would rather self-destroy himself, as long as Bani is also extinguished with him!

Bani's most limiting factor is her inability to express anything, be it love, be it anger, be it sadness or be it frustration....I don't understand why does she always have to be so strong and self-sufficient! Why can't she just for once shout at Jai and give him a ticking off or just break down crying unabashedly in front of him? She has plenty of reasons to do so...why does she have to put up with everything that he throws her way? Bani knows that Jai in himself is not a revengful and bad person at all, infact he is quite the opposite, then why doesn't she shake him up a little bit? I really wish that Bani gives him back today, if Jai says something to her (That he will for sure!)

It would do a world of good to Jai, when he gets to know that the reason Bani went to Pia and Pushkar's house is because it was her Mother's death anniversary and not because she wanted to enjoy an evening of Cards with her sister and brother-in-law! Let him feel guilty like hell, let him realize that he is not the only one in the World who is lonely and sad, let him know that there is someone right next to him, in his own room infact, who is as lonely and as sad and yes, much more victimized and misunderstood than he is!

If Bani can realize that Jai's anger and hatred is more because of circumstances and the added manipulation by Ranveer and Jigyasa, why is Jai being so obstinate regarding Bani? At the same time, one just can't help feeling but sorry for Jai....it was really heart-wrenching to see him totally broken and dejected and confused.....as he himself says that earlier any amount of workload was nothing for him, but now it seems that age and stress is catching up with him (Yes, this was the first time that Jai mentioned his age issue....that might become an hindrance for Jai in his love for Bani....from his side, that is!) Seriously, he really needs his gorgeous and loving wife to get him a cup of Brook Bond Red Lable (😆For the uninitiated, this is the most popular brand of tea in India!) and make him "Taro Taza"!😃 Poor Cuddles!

But yeah, after watching yesterday's episode, my sympathies were entirely with Bani....and I won't be at all surprised at seeing her faint right into Jai's arms (Oh, wishful thinking!) when he is giving her a lecture on what a horrid wife she is.....Jai, you better brush up your act and get Bani a glass of Orange Juice when she faints!😳 Poor Bani!

Btw, today's episode of Saas Bahu and Saazish announced that "Billo Mausi" is making an entry in Kasamh Se next week and that should bring about a change in the "Cloudy Weather" that prevails Walia Mansion! You bet, we are all crossing our fingers and hoping for the "Miracle Mausi" to act as Cupid for Khadoos and Honey Bunny!😳

Cheers,

MT

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Posted: 19 years ago
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gr8 job MT....as usual i like reading your posts....
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Posted: 19 years ago
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aaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwww bless MT !!!! that was amazing feedback....

Gosh man jai needs to get a grip.....i am so waiting for todays episode..it will be damn interesting...

but you know what i don't get jai ....... .why does he always refer to bani not caring about his feelings.........when jai hardly cares about bani.... jai is a confusing man .... he needs to sit down in a peaceful mode and think about his life rationally.... !!! 😉

P.S. MT i hate what angad did to sheetal in KYPH... he gave me a shock of my life...
Edited by xsimzxchickx - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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MT,
and you wonder how I am able to post my thoughts or observations without watching the serial even for a day!!!
Your write ups give me enough insight into the serial. 👏

I really wish Bani falls into Jai's arms.... 😉
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: xsimzxchickx

aaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwww bless MT !!!! that was amazing feedback....

Gosh man jai needs to get a grip.....i am so waiting for todays episode..it will be damn interesting...

but you know what i don't get jai ....... .why does he always refer to bani not caring about his feelings.........when jai hardly cares about bani.... jai is a confusing man .... he needs to sit down in a peaceful mode and think about his life rationally.... !!! 😉

P.S. MT i hate what angad did to sheetal in KYPH... he gave me a shock of my life...

totally agree with u except the last paragraph 😆 with me the whole walia family cofusses me 😕

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Posted: 19 years ago
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i agree wid wot ur saying, but at the same time, this is wot makes bani higher than jai, the fact thats shes not petty minded like him.
i reckon this is one of the reasons which will one day make him realise after she leaves, how much he loves and needs her.
two reasons that may give her reason to leave are:-
1)Her mothers dad may surface
2)She may somehow come up wid 80 lakhs to pay him.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Beautiful analysis MT 👏

These days my standard dialouge has become "Yeh Jai bhi na..." 😕 He lost it yday.... what i dont understand if he himself doesnt like doing it why do it? He is destroying himself and wants Bani to give him company. God save Bani today...though i am hoping he will give her silent treatment.

As u said even i am bugged with Bani being so strong, she needs to vent it all out. That could do her some good. Her untimely silence only makes situations worse. Yday was her Mom's bday and there was puja. I dont expect her to tell Jai that(though i am hoping he realises it is her mom's bday.) but atleast when here boss told her she cant go, couldnt she say she has to go coz there was haven for her mom? I am sure Jai would have asked her to carry on. Bani confuses me no end at times, she is far too personal about a few things, and on the other hand she is out there helping out Jai like a dutiful wife. Jai has never stopped her from doing anything, but he has always told her the consequences. He respects her privacy and lets her be... but itne bhi privacy kis kaam ke? 😕


I am upset with Bani for another reason, we were expecting Jai to appreciate/Thank her in private once they are in their room. But Bani instead decided to stay in the hall worrying about Pia-Pushkar 😡 She is upset coz Jai turned Mahesh against Pia-Pushkar, why didnt she think Jai took her side even if it was for Dadi's sake 😕 😭
Today Bani better faint in Jai's arms. i am assuming like always Jai asks everyone to leave before he talks to Bani... that way only he will be there to hold her and take care. He asks Rano or dadi to take care of Bani i will.... 😡 And jai t'row Bani is off work, u better order her to stay at home. U can say 'u dont want ur employees fainting at work', Very typically Jai!

And Aditya 😡 😡 😡 What is wrong with that guy? He is advising divorce to Jai??? Even if he had Bani's interest as his primary motive, he is doing her harm . Didnt he see Bani blissfully happy on day of the dinner? He should have told Jai to consider working things out with Bani... but instead, gave him an easier option out. I just loved the way Jai reacted he wasnt even affected by the word divorce coz he knew he would never let that happen. What bugged him was someone interfering in his and Bani's life and more over taking Bani's side. This guy is very possessive about Bani... agar 'Nafrat' mein yeh haal hai, tho na jaane 'Pyar' mein kya hoga 😳
Just hoping today goes well, and Billo massi announces her arrival. Btw Mt, what do u think those papers which Bani signed?
Luv
Anu.

Edited by anushka_5 - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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😃 Aap sab Bhool Rahe hai ke Jai aur bani ...aur sara Walia Khaandaan ... Kekta mai Ki Katputliya Hai .. Jai Yeh kyon nahi Karta .. Woh Kyon NahiKarta
Jai Bechara Bani se Kya Panga Lenga..? woh to sirf 17 saal ki hai
Gosh .. MT .. This was the funniest Post u have written to date .. My stomach is aching when i laff .. 😆
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Posted: 19 years ago
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😆 Haila Klueless, from what angle was my post Funny???? 😆 😆 😆 I thought it was a petty depressing and teary kind of post....Lolz...now I am Konfused! 😆

Jai is just being pig-headed now, he better brush up his act...warna ek toh haath se nikal gayi hai, ab doosri se bhi haath dho bethega!

MT
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i have written this b4 but i am still writing it despite knowing dat people will cum with jharu towards me 😉 😆
i dnt understand why everyone is complaining abt jai for his behaviour with bani
jai is behaving completely normal,. yes, he was crossing his limit when he tried to put pushky in jail by framing him. but now, his reactions with bani might be enemy-like but he has reasons to do so
as for jai , bani uska aparadhi hai. 😕 the biggest mistake she has done when she knew pia pushky are eloping one day b4 marriage and still she didint go to jai herself to say evry truth. bani convinced pia to get ready for marriage for sake of family honour. she didnt think of happiness of jai or pia. i know pia was to be blamed for her confusions but bani, who is so strong and highly principled , should have shown the courage to tell the truth. then jai cud have postppone the marriage and there wud nt be so hatred. even then jai- bani's relationship can be developed and in a more beautiful and unconventional way.

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