Hi all:
It seems there are many speculations for the new track and many have started blaming geet for not seeing Maan's POV..
I have seen through out the history of Maan and Geet's trouble that every time it happened because they were not on the same page.
While during the engagement and those misunderstanding occured because they did not sit together and shared what was in their heart and may time listeing to half conversations..
Anyway my point is this time though they have been married and have good rapport and enjoyed all the moments of the preparaion of the arrival of baby but this sudden loss has brought much turmoil in their lives..
Geet is hurting badly and so is Maan. Geet's main thing is the loss of the baby and the void she feels and connection she has lost.. and though Maan feels the same but now his main concern is Geet and her health and her ability to take this loss so his focus is changed from baby to Geet.
Every time he sees her she is in baby's room laying in the bed hugging the doll and crying..
He is practical person and so he thinks that elimination of the cause of the pain would cease the pain. One way he is right but it is a harsh treatment and he needs to be with Geet to make her understand taking her lasing at the same time. He needs to break that wall of pain to reach to her.
While for Geet to cling to the memories of the baby is like a solace to feel for this loss. In her pain filled mind who ever comes in between the memory of baby and her is not a good person. She may feel that if she does not mourn for the baby and go her usual way then she is betraying the memories of the baby.. and I also think that one way or other she feels responsible for the loss of the baby and that is why she wants to cling more to the memories...
When dadi came and told geet that she needs to go to doctor otherwise she would not talk with her then Geet agreed and went with her but I am sure that she would not have listen to Maan if he said that.
So the bottom line is that Geet only could lash out at Maan because he is the one she loves the most.
If she forgives Dev than also it's ok as now she has lost all connection to her painful past and at the pain of losing the baby has made her disinterested in having keep that un-forgiveness. As I think that the baby was the reminder of the cruelty of Dev to her but with Baby gone that feeling is no more and she has no interest in keeping that feeling in her. So if she forgives Dev then it is natural and I think it is one kind of healing process too..
But I do believe that confrontation of Maan and Geet is unavoidable and in that they will lash out at each other and hurt each other so.. It is inevitable... They will hurt each other and accuse each other and bring out their hurt and sorrow and will be healed realizing oh Gosh what are they doing to each other..
anyway I think it is a healing process and they will be more with each other after all is emptied from their heart...
hope you guys will keep the patient and see how CVs lay this out and shows the reality as how a person acts and behaves in such state of mind...
love to all eva
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