TERRORIZED AND TORTURED - Page 7

Originally posted by: Summer3

It is not proper to distinguish them, but sitting in yoiur ivory tower you do not understand what is happening on the ground.

Well the Chinese gals from China are different from the Chinese in Singapore in many ways.

Most of those are less educated ones and come to work in factories or night clubs etc

There are better educated Chinese gals from China too and they ary fine.

Same with most countries.

Most Singapore Chinese are wary of the Chinese from Mainland China.

Hong Kongers and Taiwanese are fine.

Over a period of time the Chines from China too will be okay but for the time being one has to be wary.

Vinu ji the Singapore wives are terrified. However, the Singapore Govt ships back a lot of these China ladies for various crimes such as soliciting for business. There are regular police raids but they keep coming.😆
Same with Vietnam women.

Originally posted by: Summer3

Vinu ji the Singapore wives are terrified. However, the Singapore Govt ships back a lot of these China ladies for various crimes such as soliciting for business. There are regular police raids but they keep coming.😆
Same with Vietnam women.

is soliciting legal or illegal in Singapore ?

Originally posted by: crazy_sunny

<div></div>is soliciting legal or illegal in Singapore ?

Illegal of course as they have no license and not supervised and monitored for health safety.

Dear Shruti,

Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. I am glad to know that you found you way back 'home.'

You raised an interesting and vital aspect of human connections, that of TRUST. Unfortunately we live in times that we can not trust our loved ones let alone strangers. However all is not lost for there are still a few wonderful souls upon whom we can depend upon. As you elucidated in this day and age good character is rare to come by and even rarer still ones who are trustworthy. If good characters are the stars that not only guide us upon the world but illuminate our earth, then your trustworthy father is a comet! The kind I spend many hours staring at the night's sky in hopes of witnessing.

Even further still, due to the alienation of the soul we are unable to trust ourselves. We all 'hope' we would act in a certain way, manner or model but the truth is we do not 'know' ourselves well enough to trust ourselves to do the right and correct thing for our loved ones as well as our own selves. Whist taking into account the differences of temperaments and attitudes I would have to agree with your findings in Indian Serials that propagate the idea that patience is found in being oppressed. My stance is that patience is 'waiting' for doors wherein you can fight your cause. True patience is that inner struggle against 'acting out' wild and extreme emotions BUT there are certain situations when fighting is the true patience.

I hope you can appreciate the fact that in this testing trial you succeeded like a true and noble Asian woman, the kind our history is built upon. You fought for yourself and thereby have come to understand that, unlike the majority of others both men and women alike, YOU CAN TRUST YOURSELF. In my night's horizon you are akin to a supernova!

God bless you.

Love Sabah.

I am shocked to hear how your mother was so dense! Sorry for the crude words, but seriously why such a hurry do some indian mothers have to send their daughters away? And her biggest mistake was hiding this from you before your marriage!
This story again brings in light the disadvantage of an "arranged " marriage. Feel truly sorry for you. But now you can start your life again on your terms! :)