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MARHABAA

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Posted: 14 years ago

What an absolute idiotic woman Gaytri has become , shes like a raving lunatic..shes a daughters mother yet behaves like 12 yr old child throwing a tantrum wohi bi with the household help.

whats it to them if the eat stale,fresh or whatever ? They choose the batwara so now deal with it .So much for the non interference ..they constantly sticking their nose into Akshara and Natiks life even though they pretend that they are not.

Let them live in peace ! It is disgusting tht Gaytri would make such a fuss over Natik having food cooked the night before. She is so proud that hamare ghar main aj taak nah huwa...she should be ashamed that they feel it necessary to waste perfectly good food rather than consume it.

Good on Natik and Akshara in not wasting food and treating food with the respect it deserves .Millions dont even get old food never mind freshly cooked food served straight out of the cooking pan!

what obnoxious view these people have ..they supposed to be preparing for pooja in the house yet they can hold such vindictiveness against people in their own house ..

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Posted: 14 years ago

😡I know how annoying it was to see Gayathri Maaa face. I dont understand why they still want to control everything that Naksh do... If batwara happened, then let it happen in real terms... Why poke in everything they do and at the end say... tumari marzi jo hai woh karo... yet have stinking long facestotally annoyying track

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MARHABAA

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Posted: 14 years ago

They cant help themselves they so so used to ruling their kids they cant stop

then also the have the PARAMPARA hang up ..even though they dont act with any decorum in which u could see that a maryadha or parampara exists....

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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree with you to some extent. Yes, G3 is unreasonable, she is rude, doesn't give her bahu any respect, etc but most of this is Akshara's doing. Akshara never once tried to put a stop to this behavior. Yes, you need to be respectful to your elders but not to the point where it becomes abusive. Had Akshara been assertive from the start, G3 would have sulked for a little bit but would have lot more respect for her.

Akshara has let the dino's walk all over her to the point that her views have become insignificant to them. She has made Naitik apologize for mistakes he never made. These repeated apologies have made him look irresponsible & dino's just dismiss him as a brat. Akshara's weakness has always been covering up for people like G3 and Nandini. Yes, you need to support family but why cover up for their lies or their mistakes? Did she get any brownie points for being nice to people like G3 & Nandini? Instead they use her whenever it suits them coz she has let them take advantage of her.

Why can she never get her word across when she is trying to defend herself? In all this G3 hysteria if she had calmly but assertively asked her to stop and listen to her, things would have been different. With people like G3 you cannot wait for your turn to speak up; you need to intervene & assert yourself. It's time for Akshara to grow up & earn that respect. She is no Gulabo & time for her to let G3 know that.

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anvesha2010

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Posted: 14 years ago

I wonder why do they have fridge then? if they are cooking and eating fresh, then what is the need to preserve the food in the refrigerator?

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: FLGators

I agree with you to some extent. Yes, G3 is unreasonable, she is rude, doesn't give her bahu any respect, etc but most of this is Akshara's doing. Akshara never once tried to put a stop to this behavior. Yes, you need to be respectful to your elders but not to the point where it becomes abusive. Had Akshara been assertive from the start, G3 would have sulked for a little bit but would have lot more respect for her.

Akshara has let the dino's walk all over her to the point that her views have become insignificant to them. She has made Naitik apologize for mistakes he never made. These repeated apologies have made him look irresponsible & dino's just dismiss him as a brat. Akshara's weakness has always been covering up for people like G3 and Nandini. Yes, you need to support family but why cover up for their lies or their mistakes? Did she get any brownie points for being nice to people like G3 & Nandini? Instead they use her whenever it suits them coz she has let them take advantage of her.

Why can she never get her word across when she is trying to defend herself? In all this G3 hysteria if she had calmly but assertively asked her to stop and listen to her, things would have been different. With people like G3 you cannot wait for your turn to speak up; you need to intervene & assert yourself. It's time for Akshara to grow up & earn that respect. She is no Gulabo & time for her to let G3 know that.

Sarita, i agree with you that this is THE solution but it's not easy to achieve 😭 practically...in my marriage, in the past 7 years i followed this approach that one fine day everyone will understand me , they will know the real me, but it never happened..and its never gonna happen..misunderstandings linger on n everything gets messed up...in a way akshara's approach is right in tackling gayitri BUT ppl. like me can never become like her, even if i know whats the right thing to do....the problem is i cannot stay calm if i hear someone bitching abt me..🤢

gayitri will never change....see, her son has also given up 😆 akshara's changed attitude will not sudharofy gayitri....her doormatish behavior has managed to keep the family under one roof that's it....

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: anvesha2010
I wonder why do they have fridge then? if they are cooking and eating fresh, then what is the need to preserve the food in the refrigerator?

thanda paani 😕 ice 😕 milk 😕

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Posted: 14 years ago

i hated her in yesterday's episode.. she's gone totally insane.. with absolutely no chance of recovery.. c'mon now.. how does she noe ki munna n bahu are lying about the accident.?? pagal aurat.. srsly.. i wonder jab uska rajshri ki tarah hormonal imbalance hoga tab kya kya zulm dhaegi vo humare naksh par..

2 days.. itz only gayitri whom i see in the episode.. she's just too much to handle.. dono samdhiyan.. bus.. dimag kharab ho gya hai..

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MARHABAA

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Posted: 14 years ago

Its not really Akshara's fault per say .she has grown up in a household with a very different approach and hasnt experienced these family issues first hand so doesnt really have the skills to deal with them .

She dealt with them in the best way she deemed possible which was try to keep everyone happy.

Which never happens , granted but this is naivety that she thinks that just by apologising to elders to pacify them things will be ok .

But just as happens in evryday life these people are now convinced they are right ALWAYS and are beyond redemption .The Singhanias are the worst inlaws possible for a person like Akshara and have fully failed to see the good in her.The feel like they needed to groom her and mould her into what they wanted for a bahu , thats what Akshara has done and accepted to keep the peace.

She is certainly living in that house under the premise that one day everything will be OK and she is not the type of person to scream and cause strife within the household.

For her chup rehna hei sahi hain.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: MARHABAA
Its not really Akshara's fault per say .she has grown up in a household with a very different approach and hasnt experienced these family issues first hand so doesnt really have the skills to deal with them .
She dealt with them in the best way she deemed possible which was try to keep everyone happy.

Which never happens , granted but this is naivety that she thinks that just by apologising to elders to pacify them things will be ok .

But just as happens in evryday life these people are now convinced they are right ALWAYS and are beyond redemption .The Singhanias are the worst inlaws possible for a person like Akshara and have fully failed to see the good in her.The feel like they needed to groom her and mould her into what they wanted for a bahu , thats what Akshara has done and accepted to keep the peace.

She is certainly living in that house under the premise that one day everything will be OK and she is not the type of person to scream and cause strife within the household.

For her chup rehna hei sahi hain.

oh yes.. all because of her upbringing.. the situations in her house n the situations she's facing in her sasural are very very different.. i was watching akshara's bidai yesterday n saw wat she told to dadi.. "aashirwaad dijiye ki jo atoot rishta aapke aur ma ke beech mein hai.. vo main bhi bana pau".. there was no tension between MIL-DIL in the house.. which is probably why akshara is trying hard to fit in to the singhania house..

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