whose more weak? - Page 35

Originally posted by: tiny15

though i'd voted 4 icchha as she bcums weak 4 her family's luv & care!!! but in true sense shes going thru so much by accepting such things & even after going thru so much she still hasn't a nervous breakdown which is v.common if such things keep happening in real life. so in a sense shes strong also!!👏👏 but it doesn't mean she shud keep on accepting stupid & disgusting acts by mai or daddaji or dracula or divya or naani!! bcoz all these"ll lead 2 a life widout a single moment of happiness where she has always take care of oders but never herself!!😭

while veer is also weak sumtimes but he'd also his reasons 4 it. 1st one is his luv 2wards icchha & his bro vansh!!

so 4 me both r weak but both r strong also as its really hard 2 sacrifice ur luv, in case of icchha sarificing veer 4 a non-deserving prsn & then veer 4 his bro!!

so i think though we like sum ckt but can't jsutify their sum actors whether its veer or icchha!!👏 and rahul u know wat type of Indian society is.here if a gal & boy ran away from their homes then no1 says boy has ran away or both has ran away( though sum ppl may say but thats rare) but always say oh!! that gak has ran away from her home wid sum1!! thatswhy i think shivani & sum oder frnds wants veer 2 take charge!! and yaar u know veer has 2 take care of icchha in his house though now its icchha's house 2 but still veer has more say in his house & luk wenever veer triies 2 side wid icchha his mai always started taunting icchha saying she'd lost 1 son & now 2nd is also not wid her!!

i"ll give u a real life e.g. wen my parents got married my grandmother didn't want this though earlier she herself gave approval 4 my mom but then sum1 suggested sum gal whos village was near 2 my grandparents village while my grandparents( mom's parents) place is 70kms from here & those days it was really difficult atleast in my state(H.P.). so she wasn't happy at all but had 2 agree bcoz my father put down his foot & told her that now he"ll marry only this gal & asked my grandmom 2 think that same thing can b happened wid her daughter 2!!

so wen my mom after marriage came 2 village my father told her that he knows wat type of prsns r my grandmom & aunt(though they r not bad) but typical saas & nanand, so its up2 u how u handle them. and my mom took all insults which were given 2 her by my daadi but after 6 months my father told my mom that she wud go wid him where he was posted as he didn't want her 2 suffer more. and ask my mom complete her B.Ed. so that she cud apply 4 lecturer's job though my mom'd done M.Sc. in Zoology!! but after my father's death 15yrs. back that same daadi of mine took care of our family & my mom like her own daughter & never even scold her rather always listened 2 my mom's decisions & advises!!👏

sorry 4 such a long post!! i only want 2 say both r equally weak but bcoz of certain situations & they both've 2 bcum more strong & esply icchha!!👏

what a nice and inspirational post dolly👏👏ur mom is a ⭐️ deserves👏
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Ichha is definitely weak she doesn't have the courage to oppose her elders even if they are wrong and emotionally blacmailing is definitely a sign of a weak person (the dialogue about pregnancy)

Originally posted by: tiny15

though i'd voted 4 icchha as she bcums weak 4 her family's luv & care!!! but in true sense shes going thru so much by accepting such things & even after going thru so much she still hasn't a nervous breakdown which is v.common if such things keep happening in real life. so in a sense shes strong also!!👏👏 but it doesn't mean she shud keep on accepting stupid & disgusting acts by mai or daddaji or dracula or divya or naani!! bcoz all these"ll lead 2 a life widout a single moment of happiness where she has always take care of oders but never herself!!😭

while veer is also weak sumtimes but he'd also his reasons 4 it. 1st one is his luv 2wards icchha & his bro vansh!!

so 4 me both r weak but both r strong also as its really hard 2 sacrifice ur luv, in case of icchha sarificing veer 4 a non-deserving prsn & then veer 4 his bro!!

so i think though we like sum ckt but can't jsutify their sum actors whether its veer or icchha!!👏 and rahul u know wat type of Indian society is.here if a gal & boy ran away from their homes then no1 says boy has ran away or both has ran away( though sum ppl may say but thats rare) but always say oh!! that gak has ran away from her home wid sum1!! thatswhy i think shivani & sum oder frnds wants veer 2 take charge!! and yaar u know veer has 2 take care of icchha in his house though now its icchha's house 2 but still veer has more say in his house & luk wenever veer triies 2 side wid icchha his mai always started taunting icchha saying she'd lost 1 son & now 2nd is also not wid her!!

i"ll give u a real life e.g. wen my parents got married my grandmother didn't want this though earlier she herself gave approval 4 my mom but then sum1 suggested sum gal whos village was near 2 my grandparents village while my grandparents( mom's parents) place is 70kms from here & those days it was really difficult atleast in my state(H.P.). so she wasn't happy at all but had 2 agree bcoz my father put down his foot & told her that now he"ll marry only this gal & asked my grandmom 2 think that same thing can b happened wid her daughter 2!!

so wen my mom after marriage came 2 village my father told her that he knows wat type of prsns r my grandmom & aunt(though they r not bad) but typical saas & nanand, so its up2 u how u handle them. and my mom took all insults which were given 2 her by my daadi but after 6 months my father told my mom that she wud go wid him where he was posted as he didn't want her 2 suffer more. and ask my mom complete her B.Ed. so that she cud apply 4 lecturer's job though my mom'd done M.Sc. in Zoology!! but after my father's death 15yrs. back that same daadi of mine took care of our family & my mom like her own daughter & never even scold her rather always listened 2 my mom's decisions & advises!!👏

sorry 4 such a long post!! i only want 2 say both r equally weak but bcoz of certain situations & they both've 2 bcum more strong & esply icchha!!👏

Dolly I am proud of You and ur ⭐️mom🤗
Tqs for ur pateince in writng so much and sharing ur real life experience.
A woman should always b strong, thts what exactly is practised at home, In our family, Mom has a say in everything...and the truth shez responsible for what we are, Dad was only earning but she guides us in our daily and long term decisions and God bless her and Dad with all the best hez got in tis world...my mom actually wanted 2 workk, but Dad was happy tht she just take care of Kids which for him was equal 2 earning .. mom always wanted 2 b independent and she made us all independent..we are fortunate 2 have Gods kind blessing and our Parents blessings..and we are what we are and u know my parents are really proud of their daughters sons incl but we have an edge...😃

Coming 2 the story...as already elaborated I have 2 say both of the are eqaully weak, which in turn means, they have 2 grow stronger and they have 2 do it togather....Ichchas faults seem2 b obv n its an easy option..

Veer has many hidden weakness which ppl seem 2 ignore and i see no reason y they do it except the fact tht its bcoz hez a man...yaa they r ignorant to analyse a situation, I am very pleased 2 read ur point of view...Tqs for ur post..🤗 God bless us and our families..😊

@shivani, anmol & all oders who liked my post thanx 2 all!!🤗 shivani even my dad didn't want my mom 2 do a job bcoz he thought thers no need of it. he told my mom 'i m A-class Gajetted ofcr( he was a MBBS doc though not a speciliast) & earning enough & that time working of females is mostly 4 helping family's earning!! but bcoz of my daadi he asked her 2 complete her B.Ed. & apply 4 lecturership!! and at that time my mom & dad were only ppl in my grandparent's village who were highly educated!!👏👏👏

Originally posted by: tiny15

@shivani, anmol & all oders who liked my post thanx 2 all!!🤗 shivani even my dad didn't want my mom 2 do a job bcoz he thought thers no need of it. he told my mom 'i m A-class Gajetted ofcr( he was a MBBS doc though not a speciliast) & earning enough & that time working of females is mostly 4 helping family's earning!! but bcoz of my daadi he asked her 2 complete her B.Ed. & apply 4 lecturership!! and at that time my mom & dad were only ppl in my grandparent's village who were highly educated!!👏👏👏

but now i think if those situations didn't force my mom 2 do a job then we all 3 sis & bro wudn't b able 2 go 4 higher education. and after my dad my mom took so many pains & go thru so many hardships that sumtimes wen i rem those days i still feel those deficiencies we felt whether they were of emotional & psychological support or financial or any oder support!! i m not saying we bcum poor but we'd 2 lower our standard of living. at that time atleast for 4-5 yrs. i so many times controlled myself 2 indulge in luxuries of getting new clothes or sum oder. though i never compromised on gud food which is my weakness( but never gone overboard)!!😊😊

though i'd dedicated my post-graduation's thesis 2 my dad but in acknowledgement i gave full credit 2 my mom 4 her support, faith,luv & care. and even my daadi bcoz watever she'd done at that 2 my mom but she always took my side & kept me above all of her grandkids!!👏

🤗 Well done Dolly🤗

I think it is a matter of perception.

Some may think Ichcha is weaker because she always gives in whereas others may see it as a strength to bear the consequences of her decisions out of her love for certain characters.

Veer on the other hand has been disappointing of late, but I understand that last Friday he did make a stand..........but on the whole he has been shown as one that stands by his decisions.

I think Ichcha is Veer's weakness and Tapasya is Ichcha's weakness........and sadly Ichcha has let herself be manipulated from the time she was a child by Tapasya..............

Although we have been shown that Ichcha has been the weaker one throughout the serial ( I have been one of her biggest critics on this) I have to admit that her resilience, her able to take all the insults heaped on her shows a strength which is not always something we have admired.

One important point to consider is that if Veer loves and knows Ichcha so well he should be the first one to understand why Ichcha does the things that she does out of her love for Tapasya and if he does then HE should take the decisions out of her hand rather than leave her to make them.

Finally, love and respect are powerful emotions............there is no logic to what makes people do things for those that they love and respect..............therefore even I am loath to call one weaker than the other...............for me they are both weak............one shown more than the other.

Ichcha is weak in her love for others but has the strength of conviction that she is doing the right thing in the bigger scheme of things....mahaanta but still

Originally posted by: rgattu

Ichcha is weak in her love for others but has the strength of conviction that she is doing the right thing in the bigger scheme of things....mahaanta but still

whereas Veer is simply Veeeeeeeek...davaadol character hai...

stance bhi tab leta hai jab paani sar ke upar hota hai...

aur kisi se bhi iinfluence ho jaata hai....

kabhi Mai ka emotional atyachar

kabhi Vansh ko dekh kar Lachaar

kabhi Ichcha ka pyaar

kabhi Tappu ka durvyavhaar

lagta hai koi apna wajood hi nahi...so for me it is him

if he had the guts to drag Tappu back to Thakur Nivas when he discovered that she came as his Dulhan and not Ichcha...then koi baat thi....but iss character mein majboori ke alaava kuch nahi...hameshaa doosron ke haath majboor hona!!!

well although i have voted for ichcha for being more weak but still i would say both veer and ichcha become weak because of their kind heart and love for their dear ones.. so i think they both are equal but why i have voted for ichcha because atleast veer do something while ichcha uptill now she hasn't done anything she keeps deciding to be strong but then againuptill now she has shown no improvement as for guts they both have equal guts to show tapasya her aukat but they both get bound because they love their familes too much and cannot disappoint them