3IDTZ-Dadi ki chaal,GHSP ka huwa SasBahu wala Haal - Page 38

I loved the Episode today ...in terms of execution... acting.... flow... editing... drama... emotions... camerawork... it was a complete flawless episode that we got after a long time

Yes, in a long time, there has not been an episode that surpassed as todays. Flawless, I can't say. But far ahead in the qualities you mentioned.

.Ok now one thing which I hv noticed all this while....

Everytime there is an issue between them ,they try to hide it from each other and want to alone solve the problem thinking sharing is not a good option because he or she will get hurt then...Whether its MSK or Geet ..they always try to alone solve the problem and protect the other....but never try to share it and then solve it together...I wonder why

MSK too judges beforehand that I should sort out this problem without telling Geet or else she will b hurt..reason why he had hidden the pregnency complication secret from Geet but then Geet finds it out from the doctor and then tells MSK why u r so mahaan and today Get et too does the same and mayb when MSK will find out from some third person,he will also say Geet tum itni achhi kyun ho.

So neither MSK is weak nor Geet is weak here because at certain points both had hidden some facts from each other thinking they r doing a mahaan sacrifice... ..but their main problem still is lack of communication since both feel that hiding things from each other is the best way to see their beloved happy but thats where they r going wrong and they need to rectify this Via Communication

We can't say Geet is weak or wrong today for hiding the blood donation secret from MSK...she is hiding it because she feels ,if she tells him the truth,his ego will b deeply hurt....Earlier too MSK had hidden the pregnency complication chapter from Geet...Was MSK weak or wrong that time ?Nope ..he only had a God complex and wanted to hide it because he felt Geet will b hurt knowing this....but that was never the case and Geet understood him ..right ??...Same is happening with Geet today..she feels MSK will b hurt knowing the truth but mayb he will understand her point more if she tells him the truth....So where is the problem...its the lack of communication in their relationship ...

So is it the CV's fault for not showing the proper communication between them ??In that case we can't blame the new CVs because even old CVs never showed a proper matured conversation between the two except the Tent-Date wala episode.....So I m assuming its not the CV's fault but deliberately they r showing this lack of communication problem between the two so that both can learn from their mistakes and try to communicate more with each other ....if their communication level changes towards the end of this track,then I can totally understand the need of both this pregnency-complication and Dev-fiasco track ...I guess now I can understand what exactly CVs r trying to show to us...they r creating a similar situation for both ...First MSK ka dilemma related to her pregnency and now Geet ka dilemma related to Dev issue ...in both cases ,both hv tried to hide things from each other which hv created a rift between them.....So the question arises..whats really lacking in their relationship ??Is over-possessiveness from each other working against their relationship because the over-possessiveness and over-protectiveness is increasing the communication gap between the two and thats what is affecting their relationship here....So will they understand this and try to rectify it ?? ...

Geet and Maan seem to enjoy supressed freedom in their lives. Geet by virtue of being in a traditional high class family of Punjab, the social customs and traditions dictated the rules for their lives. She was a vibrant young blood but being woman and being denied freedom to express or breaking out to independent thought processes were irrelevant in their lives. Honor killings ruled the day in that village.

Here I see an underlying quality of jealousy at work. Ofcourse, all of us convince ourselves that the great Maan is incapable of such sub-standard feelings and his concern for her pain at the very name or sight of Dev is triggering his words. But jealousy for her, is the translation of his physical need of her. They need to allow a consummation track (angle badal badal ke) wherein his confidence of Geets love will be complete and fulfilling.

Coming to Dadi,She is the main person in Khurana Empire...then why is she folding her hands and begging in front of MSK for Dev's stay in the house ?? ..she could hv told MSK with full authority that its my house and I will decide whether Dev will stay or not because like MSK,even Dev is my grandson...but instead we see Dadi almost begging here for MSK's permission which puts this question that whether Dadi is a Khurana or not ,,...:I m too confused about Dadi right now ..some of her actions r looking a bit fishy to me now...the way today she suddenly got injured on her foot and then asked Geet to take the garam water to the outhouse ...why can't she call a servant there ?? ...and we saw that the servant later came and took the hot water to the outhouse which means servant was available but for some reason Dadi wanted Geet to take the hot water to the outhouse... ...so this tells me one thing about Dadi that she knows that MSK ka weakness is Geet and so MSK will never tolerate Geet again and again travelling all the way to the outhouse for Dev ...so mayb Dadi hopes that just to keep eye on whats happening in the house,mayb MSK will allow Dev to enter the house till he gets fully fit so that he can keep an eye on things and Dadi too gets what she wants..that is Entry of Dev in KM ..Mayb right now Dadi is not manipulative..but somewhere I see the signals of her becoming manipulative later on when she will notice that MSK is listening only to Geet here...she mayb already noticing it from his words and actions ...Today I felt somewhere Dadi was irritated with MSK's dominating attitude....when she folded her hands in front of MSK,it looked as if she was pissed off somewhere with the way MSK was dominating everything but she was forced to listen to his verdict .......So mayb it will b her over-attachment towards her grandson Dev only which will make her manipulative and maybe selfish to some extent because she knows that MSK has it all but Dev has nothing and needs something for survival ..lets see how CVs take ahead Dadi ka pendulum character

Indisputably MSK stands to pull all strings with ref. To KM and KC. I saw Dadi's folded hands as resignation to Maans honorable position as the kingmaker. He has the power to veto in all matters or endorse matters. Her love for Dev just seems her love for a softer, quiter, resigned to the world potha who is unfocussed and indecisive. She would like to be the strong fortress for him. Maan does not need this support of Dadi. Hence this undue love shown.

But this whole first scene of the episode was terrific in terms of some superlative performances given by Anjuji,GC and DD,.,,,,MSK's initial anger when he shouts at Geet in the start...then the way he says sorry to Geet with his eyes filled in pain and agony..then the way he justifies his stand to Dadi and Geet about why Dev can't stay in this house and then in the end the way he gives permission regarding Dev's stay till he becomes fit but with extreme hesitency and a feeling of defeat in his voice and eyes were some flawless exhibition of expressions by GC ...Its not easy for an actor to hv such flawless variety of expressions in one scene but time and again GC-DD hv proved their versatility in this department ..Even DD was flawless with her expresssions of fear and guilt

I agree that GC and DD were sterling performers in this wide arena of emotional drama. A contract worth its weight in GOLD.

I know I m repeating myself again and again ...But GC-DD were indeed terrific in the whole episode and the camera-execution was spot on especially in the last scene today ...it was a technically perfect episode... ...And I m really in awe of GC and DD's performance today...u give them power-packed performance oriented scenes and they just deliver flawlessly the emotions that they showed today were looking so real...His anger and her shivering in fear in the soup wala scene or in the end hot-water wala scene was fantabulous ..gosh even my heart skipped a beat in both these scenes...total powerpacked performances from both......Last scene was the best in terms of acting and execution ...The way MSK gives that painful look in the end with those hidden tears in his eyes questioning her the reason behind her concern for Dev really touches your heart and also looking at Geet's helpless situation here ..the way she is torn between her duties towards Dadi,MSK and her own principles...u just can't help but feel for her ....Again I repeat outstanding performances by both.