that If A Person deliberately decides to Ignore someone's presence...they can do it...coz there is nothing to be missed in the presence........
but someone's Absence can never be Ignored.....as Absence makes Heart Grow Fonder...
And here Aham did all his best to Ignore Gopi who was always around him, doing everything for the house and indirectly for him but never showed it...so it always went un noticed from his eyes....
but now when Gopi is not around...her Absence can never be Un-noticed by Aham....he will "Feel" her Absence all the time as her Personal Touch will be missing in everything which All Modi Family including Aham are used to.......
So just waiting to see how Aham will react after Encountering his feelings that "she is being missed by all and by him too"