I dont know how can people blame Gopi for her innocency calling her stupid.
In her life she never got anything in return and was always happy with that "Vaccume" of Love Less life....but still she was stronger enough to not to end her life as most of people do when they dont have strength to bear whats happening in their life.
But Gopi was always ready to bear all that but w/o speaking....how can it be her fault...
its her nature....if she can pursure her life even after so much torture by Urmila she has the guts to bear it silnetly too....
and same goes in MM too.....she entered MM with so many hopes and expectations but the day she came to know Aham can never be hers....she left him as it is, she never looked back at him expecting anything in return....(remember kitchen steam scene...she put the post on table and left) except "room decoration incident" that too instigated by Rashi on Aham's Compassion....
and today when she was praying Kanha ji.....what she was saying.....just that I think Aham is now changed and that too only after when she saw him concerned abt her and appreciating her....
so again whats her fault....just coz she is out of the world innocent....
naive beyond anything else...
selfless w/o thinking abt herself....
but still m with Gopi and n will remain....coz its her nature to be like that.....I cant blame her for her self determined nature when she is still always ready to help Aham even when she knew that he "hates" her.....
There is a saying in hindi...
Khara Sone me bhi Peetal ki milawat jaruri hoti hai...taaki ek majbut gehna bane...
So gopi is as pure as gold and people want her to have all those worldly "qualities" just to m ake her Aham's level...
I dont Agree...
