Calmed down now rational

I was very upset about todays episode, but we are looking at it the wrong way, Gopi is not educated, she isnt street smart, she is a punching bag for all to use and abuse. when has Aham ever seen Gopi been praised for jobs she has done
But seriously he cant have a conversation with her about work because to him it means nothing , he cant take her out because she does not know etiquette, she would be completely lost in his world. Its all very well being a good cook, smile nodd be the maid but when it comes down to it how will Gopi fit into Ahams world, aham may be attracted to Gopi but that is physical not mental.
Being a businessman (just like hubby) they like to show the person who supports them the better half, being in that position i have to be a good cook etc, i also have to be charming, know my topics when clients are chatting. know when to talk n know when not to talk
Kokila has wasted a lot of time by using Gopi as maid she should think of the long run.

One thing that did come to mind was kokila was right in her choice, as Gopi is not educated, streetwise, she would make a very good student. She can learn or be taught how to deal with situations that arise.

Also for her to be one to one with Aham other than she cooked to have a conversation about the world about her reading a book. or help Aham deal with a business situation

yeah i compltly agree wid u..thts d other side of a coin...needed to b looked at..befr gettin angry at ahem!!

In the serial isn't Gopi shown to be thoughtful,alert n intelligent when she is left to handle a situation herself without any conspiracy,she's also shown to be bright n has a good grasping of the bhagvadgita,sholks etc.....probably with a little support from Kokila n Hetal, she might turn into a 21st century rocking girl.

I believe that Gopi should leave - not go to her mami's place but go to a working women's hostel, find a nice lady to support her, get educated (given she is a quick learner, she could do something to be self sufficient), be a confident person and then Aham should see her - maybe 3-4 year leap or something

Originally posted by: fanbidaai

I was very upset about todays episode, but we are looking at it the wrong way, Gopi is not educated, she isnt street smart, she is a punching bag for all to use and abuse. when has Aham ever seen Gopi been praised for jobs she has done
But seriously he cant have a conversation with her about work because to him it means nothing , he cant take her out because she does not know etiquette, she would be completely lost in his world. Its all very well being a good cook, smile nodd be the maid but when it comes down to it how will Gopi fit into Ahams world, aham may be attracted to Gopi but that is physical not mental.
Being a businessman (just like hubby) they like to show the person who supports them the better half, being in that position i have to be a good cook etc, i also have to be charming, know my topics when clients are chatting. know when to talk n know when not to talk
Kokila has wasted a lot of time by using Gopi as maid she should think of the long run.

One thing that did come to mind was kokila was right in her choice, as Gopi is not educated, streetwise, she would make a very good student. She can learn or be taught how to deal with situations that arise.

Also for her to be one to one with Aham other than she cooked to have a conversation about the world about her reading a book. or help Aham deal with a business situation

Originally posted by: MARHABAA

I totally disagree with the Ahem viewpoint thats being projected . Hes not a martyr nor is a he a rational or even mildly considerate human being .

Dont know why people are readily making excuses for his total lack off compassion to his wife and his mother for that matter.

Not everyone is gifted the ideal match does that mean you have the right to throw them out off the house? Its not a return to store if unsatisfactory policy on a marriage you know!

What an absolute vile way to go about things...

If Ahem was slightly human he would have given Gopi the opportunity and helped her learn the skills to bring her so called up to his level - in my opinion is level is low so dont know what hes harping on about.

He had to deal with a few issues and hes up in arms like a child and that's all he is a spoilt rotten little boy who lacks compassion ,in my opinion there is nothing worse in the world than a person who is so detached and self proclaimed that noone else holds value.

The girl stood strong for his family in their time of need and this is how he repays her??

Absolutely disgusting behaviour of so called lead hero of a drama serial, and who cares if hes so called good looking ,from a humane perspective hes ugly.

his behaviour yes is disgusting i agree, from the time he found out that Gopi was illiterate he felt he was decieved by Gopi. But she did not decieve him others did his mother, rashi, urmilla. He refused to accept her then, he wanted her to leave but only kokila stopped her by making her say all these vachans because they wanted to marry kinjal off. But after a while i looked at from Aham why he was the way he was Modi industries CEO.

If kinjal had not interfered he would have come use to Gopi and got to know her, he would have found out she is a sweet, religious girl since then the interference from Rashi urmilla and kinjal also kokila he has never found out what a wonderful wife he has...

Originally posted by: fanbidaai

his behaviour yes is disgusting i agree, from the time he found out that Gopi was illiterate he felt he was decieved by Gopi. But she did not decieve him others did his mother, rashi, urmilla. He refused to accept her then, he wanted her to leave but only kokila stopped her by making her say all these vachans because they wanted to marry kinjal off. But after a while i looked at from Aham why he was the way he was Modi industries CEO.

If kinjal had not interfered he would have come use to Gopi and got to know her, he would have found out she is a sweet, religious girl since then the interference from Rashi urmilla and kinjal also kokila he has never found out what a wonderful wife he has...

gopi is not stupid she just like to trust people good nature and she get it wrong all the time.she don't now the way of the world.koki say she can be thought i think koki is teaching her how to be hard and gopi is not getting it she see how rashi and urmi are with her.she should have teach her how to read and write ion secret. we r going to see a hold differenrt gopi soon and that what gonna make ahem love her.am happy she left the house.but not happy she is going back to her aunt house