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Posted: 14 years ago
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i agree with sadhli Aham will hurt kokila more, this will put kokila in a life n death situation, but i dont want Gopi coming back because of kokila its because Aham wants her not kokila.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: br2499

I believe Kokila deserves it! Gopi is the one who got life sentence becasue of Koki's faults. Atleast in her Mama's house Gopi had hopes of a loving husband and Koki dashed them.



i agree with that but a the same time
i dont want her to go

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapbubble

Yes, Aham is about to hurt Koki even more than Kinjal has done.

But what selfish kids Koki has! arrogant, self serving! But then Koki deserves a little grief too for being so controlling and overbearing. sometimes, people just won't toe your like, even if it's good for them. Gopi's suffering for everyone else's decisions.
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excellent point. it is a two way problem. koki kids are the worst and don't have much to recommend them, but that is her fault too for raising them like a circus master. funny i am actually happy at aham's stance first time in his whole life he is probably standing up to what he wants, but what pisses me off even more where was this gumption before he got married. he just figures it out now that he actually has a choice, where was this selfishness before. you know right decisions at wrong times actually just makes it a wrong decision.

gopi is a gem but that does not mean every man should love her. that isn't love, love happens it is not forced, and just because we all think gopi is the best doesn't mean ahem has to love her too. i am not upset at the fact that aham doesn't love gopi, no but what is his bigger crime is that he doesn't treat her as a human. i will not believe that crock of bull that he believes she is actually a thief and liar to justify his cruel behavior, infact he was easily persuaded of her faults, it was more like he needed an out a very good reason to hate her so to justify a reason to stay away from her. if he really wanted to give gopi a chance, he would have started his marriage on some sort of optimism. kingal and rashi lied all the way thru but when did he ever check the facts, when did he ever ask her what the truth is, for someone educated and worldly he is dumber than a door nail and we make fun of gopi sheesshhhhhhhh her husband is even worst.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: br2499

I believe Kokila deserves it! Gopi is the one who got life sentence becasue of Koki's faults. Atleast in her Mama's house Gopi had hopes of a loving husband and Koki dashed them.


I wish SNS was real life sometimes like now, as Aham has forced Gopi out, by his own wishes, in real life they would get a divorce allowing them to marry again, Gopi as she is still untouched, would find a nice boy to marry her, doesn't have to be wealthy, just middle class, who she can cook and clean for and be happy with him and his family, as she is an innocent, no airs type of girl that would get along with her in-laws well. But as it's what it is, they will be no divorce and a long separation, where Gopi will keep suffering at her Maami's hands and pining for that moron, until he is convinced by the reformed Vamps to take his wife back.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i agree with that but a the same time
i dont want her to go


i know how you feel, i'm gutted too, that maami of hers will be ill treating and she will be suffering, her maami's house is a two bedroom, one room KinWal, the other her Maama and Maami, she will be on the kitchen floor. Knowing you are unwanted, an extra mouth to feed, leaving off people's charity, eeeeeesh, better if they was another place for her to go, why didn't she go and seek work as a maid or kitchen help somewhere else.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: chennaigirl

I dont want Koki knocking some sense into Aham...He should realise it himself...

We have still not got to see what Aham is thinking of Gopi really in his heart of Hearts/...Is he just being the businessman who just has this now that the deal is over, u shud get out of my life attitude? Or is he blind not to see the good qualities of his wife? Have the earlier incidents created by Kinjal and others made him blind, dumb and deaf? One person who can make the difference here is Kinjal...Only she can clear up the air here, so that he can atleast respect her...and get her back to MM...And can observe whats happening in the house in his wife's absence, for a few minutes sparing his blackberry and laptop and understand how important she was and is to his family....RESPECT ing his wife should be the first point....Then only Love will come....He has hurt her tooo much...


I hate that we can't see what his thinking, does he keep telling himself, for example dancing Dandiya with her, wow she can dance after-all, then she trips and he grabs her before she falls and his staring at her so much and whilst she has her eyes closed his probably thinking like isn't she lovely no forget that beauty is only skin deep she is only after me for my money and don't weaken now Aham. Yep, Kinjal can make a difference by helping her at her Maika, with Urmila and by confessing to Aham about the necklace. But i find if Gopi leaves because her husband doesn't want her, i don't want him to ever want her, his too difficult and he will always have the upper hand in there relationship, always whenever he looses his temper Chup ek dum chup to poor wifey, and she has to shut up, better she finds a well mannered boy who will give her a chance and love her, and doesn't think his god gift to humanity.

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