Just Wondering....

Food for Thought.....

Just wondering, if Rano had substituted Pia as Jai's bride instead of Bani, and if Jai would have come to know of it in the same manner he came to know that he is getting married to Bani and not Pia, would Jai still have gone ahead with marrying Rano? Or for that matter if Sonali would have substituted Pia, would Jai have still gone ahead with the marriage?

Was there always an underlying, unknown, unrealized love for Bani in Jai's heart which led him to take the decision of marrying Bani when Pia deserted him...or is it only Family honor and circumstances which led to Jai taking such a monumental decision?

Similarly, if Pia had ran out on Pushkar on the day of their wedding, would Bani have substitued herself as the bride, considering that she also was in love with Pushkar. Or is it only for Jai's sake, that Bani took the plunge into matrimony? Was it Pia and her honor that Bani sought to protect, or was it only Jai's honor that led Bani to make this decision?

MT

i think jai would have married rano or sonali under those circumstances.because when he married bani it was his ego talking rather than his heart.
and about pushkar i am not very sure because bani sitting for the wedding with jai happened because of jigs and the fact that bani knew that she was indebted to jai for a lot of things.i think bani married jai more for jai's family honour rather than for pia's sake

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Food for Thought.....

Just wondering, if Rano had substituted Pia as Jai's bride instead of Bani, and if Jai would have come to know of it in the same manner he came to know that he is getting married to Bani and not Pia, would Jai still have gone ahead with marrying Rano? Or for that matter if Sonali would have substituted Pia, would Jai have still gone ahead with the marriage?

Was there always an underlying, unknown, unrealized love for Bani in Jai's heart which led him to take the decision of marrying Bani when Pia deserted him...or is it only Family honor and circumstances which led to Jai taking such a monumental decision?

Similarly, if Pia had ran out on Pushkar on the day of their wedding, would Bani have substitued herself as the bride, considering that she also was in love with Pushkar. Or is it only for Jai's sake, that Bani took the plunge into matrimony? Was it Pia and her honor that Bani sought to protect, or was it only Jai's honor that led Bani to make this decision?

MT

Hi MT!

Great Question... a bit freaky though. I am so glad it wasnt Rano or Sonali. 😉

As far as Rano being the substitute, that wont have happened coz rano for one believes in facing things head on... so she would have promptly gone and told Jai Walia that his birde to be ran way. Even in case Rano had sat at the mantap, i dont think Jai would have married her. He would have walked out much before.

When he saw Bani instead of Pia he was shocked.. No doubt. He didnt have any time to think... but there must have been a instinct hinting at the fact that what ever was happening was the way it was meant to be. He in anycase walked out of the mantap after putting the sindoor, he could have walked away before that as well. BUT HE DIDNT!😳👏

I am happy it wasnt Sonali coz may be he would have married her. For some reason i feel jittery about the equation Jai shares with Sonali. 😡

Bani replaced Pia coz of Jigyasa scaring her out of her wits by painting a horrid picture of Jai's anger. If Jigyasa wont have provoked her, do u think she would have gone ahead? I have my doubts.... i am not sure. So if Bani got married to Jai... it was to save Jai's honour more than hers and Pia's. 😃

If there was Pushkar in a similar situation, i dont think Bani would have done it.

So it was for Jai that Bani made teh decison, and if it wasnt for Bani Jai wouldnt have got married. Oh God, this truth is making me feel sooooooo good and happy for the couple😃😳. WHEN will they be HAPPY with their decision??? 😕

Great response rexy and Anu!

I think that if there would have been anyone instead of Bani, Jai would have not got married...something about Bani made him take the instant decision of marrying her, even though he had the chance of walking out...I think it was a mix of his ego, circumstances, family honor, anger against Pia and finally destiny which led to Jai marrying Bani! If Sonali or Rano would have been in place of Bani, Jai would have simply declared to the guests and his family that Pia has gone away and the marriage won't take place!

I always thought that the reason Bani married Jai, was for his sake and not for any other reason! She is an orphan with no family to call her own...there is no question of "Khandaan Ki Izzat" for Bani, unlike Jai! Jigs manipulation was a huge factor in her getting married to Jai, but I think that instead of Jigs, if Jai would have asked her to marry him, without any threat or manipulation, she would have still gone ahead with her decision! The fear of Jai's anger was always there in Bani's mind, she had told Pia that if she now walks out of the relationship, Jai will not leave any of them...but that was not the only factor...she understood how much value Jai has for his name and family honor and for that Bani willingly jumped into the well!

Yeah, even I am waiting for the day, when both of them stop regretting the marriage and accept it happily...I think Bani is not regretting the Marriage but at the same time she is not happy either, while Jai, even if he is happy, will never show it! 😡

MT

PS: Sonali is going to play a major role in Jai and Bani's relationship, when they eventually fall in love. I think that Sonali still has feelings for Jai and she might want him back in his life, as she realizes that Pia is no more part of it and as far as she knows, Jai has no feelings for Bani!

Sonali along with Rano are the only two people who know that Bani was once in love with Pushkar...Rano will obviously die before she discloses this fact to Jai, but Sonali might delibertely or mistakenly splutter this out before Jai....OMG, can't imagine his reaction!

Originally posted by: mistletoe

PS: Sonali is going to play a major role in Jai and Bani's relationship, when they eventually fall in love. I think that Sonali still has feelings for Jai and she might want him back in his life, as she realizes that Pia is no more part of it and as far as she knows, Jai has no feelings for Bani!

Sonali along with Rano are the only two people who know that Bani was once in love with Pushkar...Rano will obviously die before she discloses this fact to Jai, but Sonali might delibertely or mistakenly splutter this out before Jai....OMG, can't imagine his reaction!

U said it MT... i am uncomfortable even with the name Sonali. Her calm exterior is making her even more dangerous according to me.

I am dreading the day Jai wil come to know abt Bani having loved Pushkar. Rano knows? i never knew that... it is only now that i am following it religiously(except when pia and pushkar are on screen)! Btw even Mohan Khandelwal knows 😕 Remember he refused to marry Bani even though Bani agreed simply for the reason she doesnt love him but someone else. 😡

I am sure Jai wont be able to handle it. For him Bani is an ideal women, when he realises she loves him... he will feel like the luckiest guy on earth. This time around he will go into a self destruction mode... and Sonali will be there 😡😡😡

I dont know how and when but only Bani should tell him. even then Jai's reactions are very unpredictable.😕😕😕

Originally posted by: anushka_5

U said it MT... i am uncomfortable even with the name Sonali. Her calm exterior is making her even more dangerous according to me.

I am dreading the day Jai wil come to know abt Bani having loved Pushkar. Rano knows? i never knew that... it is only now that i am following it religiously(except when pia and pushkar are on screen)! Btw even Mohan Khandelwal knows 😕 Remember he refused to marry Bani even though Bani agreed simply for the reason she doesnt love him but someone else. 😡

I am sure Jai wont be able to handle it. For him Bani is an ideal women, when he realises she loves him... he will feel like the luckiest guy on earth. This time around he will go into a self destruction mode... and Sonali will be there 😡😡😡

I dont know how and when but only Bani should tell him. even then Jai's reactions are very unpredictable.😕😕😕

Hey Anu,

Rano came to know it in an episode where after Jai got engaged to Pia, he left for Kuala Lumpur for a Business Trip and our darling Sanyasi Baba Ranveer threw a party for Pia where he invited Pushkar, because he knew that Pushkar would say or do something to hurt Pia and her reputation! Pushkar got really drunk in that party and when Ranveer calls him to the stage to say some words in honor of Pia, Pushkar instead speaks about Bani and says that if Pia's beauty is the kinds which leads people to go astray, then Bani's beauty is the kind's which show's the way to people....👏 It was a very touching episode, and also Pushkar's best performance till date. When Bani listens to this, she is not able to bear Pushkar's pain and she walks off from the party and breaks down crying, thinking she is alone. Rano follows her and sees her crying and asks Bani if she was also in love with Pushkar, Bani is stunned and does not reply and Rano gets to know the truth!

Mohan Khandelwal only knows that Bani had once loved someone, but he does not know that the person was Pushkar...and my thinking is that even if he knew it, he would never put Bani in trouble, even though he is Jai's closest friend! Mohan really respects and admires Bani and would never want to see her hurt or for that matter hurt Jai in any manner!

But yes, Sonali is pretty dicey...she seems to be too good to be true...and she has admitted that she still loves Jai, infront of Bani! If Jai finds solace in Sonali's company in the next few days, then Sonali will think that she can have Jai back, as he is going through an emotional low patch and would try her best to stop any relationship developing between Jai and Bani!

Sonali has been shown as a very dignified and self-respecting woman, and also someone who is very fond of Bani...my hope and thinking is that she will only help Bani and Jai come closer!

Jai will surely come to know of Bani's feelings for Pushkar one day. His reaction depends on when, how and by whom he comes to know of it! But given the situation, from now onwards, any day and any moment Jai ocmes to know of Bani and Pushkar would be a BAD DAY!😭 But yes, the more he gets involved with her emotionally, the more he is going to get hurt and more he is going to hurt Bani.....😔

MT

Just wondering, if Rano had substituted Pia as Jai's bride instead of Bani, and if Jai would have come to know of it in the same manner he came to know that he is getting married to Bani and not Pia, would Jai still have gone ahead with marrying Rano? Or for that matter if Sonali would have substituted Pia, would Jai have still gone ahead with the marriage?

If rano would have substituted Pia then I don't think that Jai would have married her. Firstly because she is not Bani. I mean, Jai is on talking terms with Bani and he was quite friendly with Bani before that love triangle occured. Jai does not talk to Rano at all, let it alone, he seldom looks at her. Secondly, Rano is just too young for him, just too young. Thirdly Saahil would not let this marriage take place. Because he never removes his eyes from Rano 😳 . She would not have any scope to go missing and unnoticed 😃 . If Sonali would have substituted then maybe he would have married her. 😕
Kya se kya hogaya, bewafa tere pyaar mein.........

Was there always an underlying, unknown, unrealized love for Bani in Jai's heart which led him to take the decision of marrying Bani when Pia deserted him...or is it only Family honor and circumstances which led to Jai taking such a monumental decision?

I don't think there was any love for Bani. It was simply because of Family Honour and maybe his anger 😡 that led him to marry Bani.
bachke rehna re baba, bachke rehna re.....

Similarly, if Pia had ran out on Pushkar on the day of their wedding, would Bani have substitued herself as the bride, considering that she also was in love with Pushkar. Or is it only for Jai's sake, that Bani took the plunge into matrimony? Was it Pia and her honor that Bani sought to protect, or was it only Jai's honor that led Bani to make this decision?

She would not have substituted herself in Pushkar's case if there was no Jigyasa to provoke 🤢 . Matrimony with Jai was a result from the pleads 😭 and persuasion of Jigyasa. It was Jai's honour that made Bani sit instead, as according to her Pia was supposed to arrive soon. And even if the marriage occured people would have found that Bani was the bride and not Pia. This would have hampered Pia's image 👏 not Jai's.
Gumnaam hai koi......badnaam hai koi
kisko khabar, kaun hai woh, anjaan hai koi..........

Cheers
Melissa 😉

PS: nice avatar MT.

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Pushkar got really drunk in that party and when Ranveer calls him to the stage to say some words in honor of Pia, Pushkar instead speaks about Bani and says that if Pia's beauty is the kinds which leads people to go astray, then Bani's beauty is the kind's which show's the way to people....👏 It was a very touching episode, and also Pushkar's best performance till date. When Bani listens to this, she is not able to bear Pushkar's pain and she walks off from the party and breaks down crying,

WHAT??? Please tell me Pushkar really loves ONLY Pia. Why is it sounding as if he is in love with Bani and hasnt realised his feeling as yet I am not feeling good about this... is it only me or is anyone anxious on that front? 😕

To me it sounding like a situation we are assuming Jai to be in... just infatuated towards Pia but in love with Bani... Trust me if this Pushkar guy even dreams of saying something like this about Bani now with Jai around... he is so so so DEAD! I am not feeling very good about this now. But y did he have to talk about Bani in the first place????

I just hope Pia and Pushkar get married soon, and i really hope the delay is not coz of Pia and her modelling career... i feel any guy will get disillusioned by a girl like Pia. Jai needs to thank his stars for the swap of his bride.

No wonder i gave those episodes a miss... no Jai as Ram had taken off for a holiday 😛

Luv

Anu.

for a moment i thought jai was going to marry sonali becuase pia ran away with pushkar!! but i guess in order to make the serial more interesting they got jai and bani married which was least expected of me... i was still hoping that pia will return but it never happened~~ i never knew it will take this big of a turn!! but i guess everything will happen for the good!

Originally posted by: khoo

for a moment i thought jai was going to marry sonali becuase pia ran away with pushkar!! but i guess in order to make the serial more interesting they got jai and bani married which was least expected of me... i was still hoping that pia will return but it never happened~~ i never knew it will take this big of a turn!! but i guess everything will happen for the good!

It would of been better if that would of happend 😉