Umang was somewhat right today !!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

sorry to say this bt i dont think any one was wrong, coz in real life there are times when 'situations try to prove a person n their decision wrong or right'

if by any chance GoHam would have had a smooth relation, Kinjal would hve nt fallen in love with umang, umang would hv nt returned to take revenge then all of us would hv appreciated koki's decision.
Bt this is nt the case right nw n we are blaming koki n aham.

Same way we cnt speculate wt could hv happened if koki would hv allowed anita n aham marriage. May be anita would have created ' mahabharat' in MM, tried to be overambitious and much much more.

So my thoughts are, each n every individual behaves and takes as per the situation n its all like 'glass to be half full n half empty'

no offence to anyone my thoughts.

exactly, we don't know what would have happened if Koki had agreed with Anita and if things were smooth with GoHam........would we all have thought the same? The grass always looks greener on the other side. LIfe is full of ifs ands and buts. What if I had done this? Everyone is responsible for their own actions. Koki, Ahem, Anita, Kinjal, Gopi, Umang, Jigar and Rashi are all responsible in the mess that is in their life today. What ever the reason maybe that Koki rejected Anita, who knows if it will be for the better? as I said in another discussion......Bhagwan jo be kar tha hai ache leye kar tha hai....(whatever god does god does for a reason and for the better............. )

Originally posted by: bips

my heart went out to umang today ...... he was right ..... koki never gave a damn about anyone but herself ..... i think no matter how much she says that she loves aham , but its all about controlling him ... so no one is more important to him than her

We all know whats going to happen - Anita is going to make an appearance soon, and she is going to turn out to be one manipulative vamp ................ which will justify koki's decision .............

i think a new concept - would be to have anita as a positive character ...... somehow she patches up things between aham and gopi and tells aham he left her, now he should stop taking out his anger on the innocent gopi ..... so he should accept her lovingly

Reading all your posts on this matter, whose to blame etc, i keep seeing Aham and Gopi's engagement, when Aham disappeared (no-one could find him) and Kokila found that he was speaking to a girl on the terrace, who was hiding (Anita), then identified her (by her dress/pallu design) when it was time for Aham and Gopi to exchange rings. When Aham took away his hand (as soon as he saw Anita standing in his line of vision, Kokila was observing him) and the ring fell for Anita to pick it up and give to Gopi and Gopi trying to put the ring on Aham but him refusing to lift his hand (the second time) or even look at Gopi.

Bt a thing dat i most liked in 2dayz epi. Ws d kokila's becharapan she ws helpless she ws so self centered jus rem. Dat moral tit for tat"

Originally posted by: akansha_lnmdj

Bt a thing dat i most liked in 2dayz epi. Ws d kokila's becharapan she ws helpless she ws so self centered jus rem. Dat moral tit for tat"

I heard on SBS that now Urmila will try to get in the good graces of the modi family again by convincing Dhawal to marry Kinjil. She will convince him of this by tellin him bout the money that will get by marrying kinjil. Thank God that the Umang track is finally over and now for sure Anita will never come into the picture. Although What Umang said was right I felt that Aham was upfront to Anita he didn't trick her. Umang acted like a coward because he didn't attack Aham he attacked his sister who technically didn't have anything to do with the situation. I don't think Aham acted cowardly when he refused Anita he just respects his mother so much that for him she is everything. It is his up bringing. Although Anita is educated I don't think that's why Kokila rejected. If she would have married Aham she would have given rise to many conflicts between kokila and Aham and for Kokila family is everything. These conflicts would have lead to separation between the family.

The reason koki rejected all the educated girl bcz she wants power to run Modi family.When her & hetal was young all rights & responsibility were take by Hetal as elder bahu of the house.And also Koki's husband never worked so she always felt inscured.Now this generation Ahem is the elder son as house role all the rights goes to Ahem wife, so koki wants to be queen of the Modi house.She wants to rules the family.She is kind of selfish.Every day some how she show Jijar wife does'nt have any rights.She bought the uneducated Gopi bcz gopi does'nt have any voice & from behind she can rule the house.

Originally posted by: loveanime

Never opened a topic before so here goes.

OK I felt today Koki deserved every bit of what Umang told her. I always felt the only reason Koki rejected Anita was she knew Anita was educated, head strong, confident and a will of her own, all the qualities one should admire she hated. Koki rejected Anita for all the wrong reasons she knew she won't be able to control Anita. Koki wanted a bahu someone she can dominate, not a wife for her son. I know that Koki keeps saying she never does any wrong, but where was the right in destroying a young girl's life, dreams and hopes and on the way ruining your own son's life and another innocent girl's life to satisfy her own ego and her own version of right. A mother's love is not selfish. If Koki really believed Anita was not good for Aham she should have atleast got to know her before discarding her like a piece of trash. We all think Aham has no heart, which he doesn't, but if Anita really did love him and he loved her then they must have shared something even if we didn't see what that was.

One thing to be admired Umang steadfastness for revenge shows how much he loved his sister, and she really must have been depressed for him to be such a schemer. I would brand Umang evil, if Kinjal wasn't evil herself. She deserves it because what goes around comes around. Umang did what he did in the name of his sister however wrong it was atleast it was for someone he loved and whose pain he couldn't bear. But what was the purpose to Kinjal scheming, for whom did she ruin Gopi and humiliate her and destroy her life. I don't think she did it for Umang, because she is born conniving brat who thought Gopi like her idiotic brother was a bug to be squashed.

Koki did wrong to Anita. Every girl is someone's daugher and sister. I hope Koki feels some ounce of guilt for which her whole family is suffering, and more so Aham for being a gutless mama's boy. Everybody part of this scheme was wrong, first Aham for being spineless and heartless, Koki not understanding the meaning of love and sacrificing all to satisfy her ego, Kinjal for never having a brain or any good values that a girl should have, Umang for punishing the wrong person he should have gone after Aham. The only two people who are guilt free and suffered with no fault of their own are Anita and Gopi.

Originally posted by: Fsgtsarakhan

I . Although What Umang said was right I felt that Aham was upfront to Anita he didn't trick her. Umang acted like a coward because he didn't attack Aham he attacked his sister who technically didn't have anything to do with the situation. I don't think Aham acted cowardly when he refused Anita he just respects his mother so much that for him she is everything. It is his up bringing. Although Anita is educated I don't think that's why Kokila rejected. If she would have married Aham she would have given rise to many conflicts between kokila and Aham and for Kokila family is everything. These conflicts would have lead to separation between the family.

i agree that aham didn't trick anita like umang but if his mom's approval is so important to him, then he should have gotton the the approval before dangling her for ages ....... imagine how cheap a girl feels when the person you love behaves as if you are good to have an affair with but not good enough to marry ......... if aham couldn't go against his mother, he should have made sure that the woman he was dating matched his mother's expectations

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

sorry to say this bt i dont think any one was wrong, coz in real life there are times when 'situations try to prove a person n their decision wrong or right'

if by any chance GoHam would have had a smooth relation, Kinjal would hve nt fallen in love with umang, umang would hv nt returned to take revenge then all of us would hv appreciated koki's decision.
Bt this is nt the case right nw n we are blaming koki n aham.

Same way we cnt speculate wt could hv happened if koki would hv allowed anita n aham marriage. May be anita would have created ' mahabharat' in MM, tried to be overambitious and much much more.

So my thoughts are, each n every individual behaves and takes as per the situation n its all like 'glass to be half full n half empty'

no offence to anyone my thoughts.

Its not a question about whether koki's decision was right or wrong ..... maybe she was right and anita would not have fit in with the family ..... the point is that she treated a girl very poorly .... she discarded her without a thought about her life/future/emotions .......... maybe anita was an arrogant, snobbish, inflexible girl but aham knew her and loved her all the same and he should have stuck by her ..... like i said before, if he can't listen to anyone above his mother's approval then he has no right to keep someone hanging in hope ....

So, in the long run maybe the decision was right, but her bahaviour towards anita was appalling ..... As much as i don't agree with umang's tactics but koki needs to feel the hurt when someone deliberately hurts and humiliates one's child

^^^^ Very rightly said. It is the way Anita was treated by Koki that was appalling. Koki is really a hypocrite. When she was talking to horse faced Urmilla about her bashan about being a woman and thinking like a mother, well where were her such sentiments when she treated Anita like that. Koki's love is really very selfish, who knows what she really loves, money, power and prestige more or her kids.