Originally posted by: Hope 89
I seriously don't understand it. Why do all the people put up with all the nonsense elders gives us? I am not saying be mean to our elders but someone should speak up & say something. We are brain washed from our birth to respect elders no matter what, but is it right when we have people like nani & buva. These kind of people do exist in our society, even in USA there are households were women & girls are forced to be out cast during their monthly.
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u see.. if our elders are wrong sumtyms.. most of the tyms.. they r rite too.. just because their demands are sumtyms very vague and unrealistic doesn't realy mean we start disrespecting them.. they are our elders after all.. they certainly noe more than us..
n y just elders.. it happens with us too.. i don't tolerate wen my younger brother argues with me.. whether im rite or not.. i expect him to do my work.. it is only after sumtym dat i realise it was my mistake.. but at the moment.. i expect him to do as i say.. after all.. im elder to him.. now.. if this happens between brothers and sisters.. im sure it wud happen a lot more often in a saas and a bahu..
yes.. ppl lyk nani and baisa do create a havoc in our lives wen they cum to visit us.. but is it rite to disrespect them and send them to their place leaving them utterly disappointed.?? see.. nani is rite now.. of the jimmy thing that she's saying.. rahi bat baisa ki.. im quite liking the way shez being treated rite now... akshara raised her voice in front of her wen she saw her parents being disrespected.. naitik gave her a stern look wen she taunted him for bringing in medicines for akshara.. gayitri let rashmi go for the party despite her objection.. akshara too refused for the vrat.. n i think that is enuf.. if she begins to taunt more.. the singhania's shud go to daadaji and ask him to tel her the things politely.. but.. dats it.. if naitik and everyone else themselves go on aruguing with her.. wat wud be the difference.?? naitik bhi bole.. baisa aur bole.. dono bolte rhe.. n lo.. din nikal gya.. n realy.. this is not the way..
now.. whether our elders are fully wrong.. the biggest truth remains that they r our elders.. n it cant change..
