Love=Forgiveness...But to what extent?

So I was thinking about the RaSam story and wondering whether being in love also means forgiving the person whatever they have done in the past?

Nice topic Yumna!

Hey um difficult to say as Ive personally never been in that position but I believe there is a limit to how much you can forgive someone and it all depends on the act, and how apologetic they are afterwards. Just because you love someone doesn't mean you HAVE to forgive them but people mostly do due to the fear of losing that someone.

Yumna loved the question and it can have no straight answr can it....

Originally posted by: kubare

Yumna loved the question and it can have no straight answr can it....

Love for everyone differes...whats right and whats wrong differes...what can be forgiven and what not also differs from person to person....

The best examples are the classics that we may have read....without going into detail...just naming teh titles...they are some of my favourite books....Wuthering Heights...the cahracter or Heathcliff and Catherine...Pride and Prejudice...Elizabeth and Darcy, Jane Eyer....Jane and R..I forgot his name....are few examples really....

Some people can't forgive even small grievances for years and years and then when they see that what they held as a grudge was a pty issue adn are ready to forgive or move on ..it may be too late....

In the same way we ahd Khanak ...over time forgive Shaan for being responsibel for her hubbies death...if she wanted .....she could have never forgiven him at all no matter what...

Thus siting Rasam as an example...their can be seen in the same light..or we can say it was more a petty issue that was left pending for 5 years...

Thus...everyone deals with the past present differently...love...is not easily descibeable as everyone has a different definition for it....So to each its own....

The best wordings describing love for me are from the bible...

"Love is patient;

love is kind and envies no one.
Love is never boastful,

nor conceited, nor rude;
never selfish,

not quick to take offense.
There is nothing love cannot face;
there is no limit to its faith,
its hope, and endurance.
In a word, there are three things
that last forever: faith, hope, and love;
but the greatest of them all is love."

@ Rooj

lol yumna I was going to say the same to Khrishna, all of those books mentiones are apart of my all time classics and those lines only made an impact when I watched a walk to remember awww love nicholas sparks loved the notebook to.

@ Yumna: awww thanks darling!🤗 I try to keep things fun and logical...too much drama in real life and too much negativity that it is best we keep things into balance!

@SYS.. and others.I'm learning to live without you now
But I miss you, Baby
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I figured out, I have to learn again
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But everything changes
And my friends seem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore

There are people in your life who've come and gone
They let you down and hurt your pride
Better put it all behind you; life goes on

@ Rafia