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I have posted about this earlier... n this is my final time posting on this matter....
Lately, i am noticing ... there are alot of posts being posted about the actor/actress ... there is nuttin wrong there.... the problem lies within those posts... why arent we understanding that when a post is being posted ... its directed towards the actor in the Serial... example when discussing IQ performance we will bring Neha in it ... n when u will be discussing Neha ... and IQ will be brought in it ..why are we failing to understand that both of these actors are stars who are totally opposite of each other compared to wht we see for Kripa-Angad...
Its soo disturbing to open any post and see ppl calling for open discussion......and frankly getting tired of this ...i really fail to understand the reason behind all of this ....we r not small kindergarten kids... where we dont know what is right n wrong .... even they know somtimes...so we very well know what we r posting.n what we r saying .Most of the times things always blown out of proportion ...why are we always looking for opportunities to create differences...we can always have a difference of opinion ... but it doesnt mean we go on at each other... .i dont know why we r taking it so seriously... personal matter between the stars... their interaction ... their friendship.. its not our concern.. i mean we watch kyph for Angad,kripa,Prithvi, Misty...the characters. if there is nuttin wrong on screen .. then we should accept it and enjoy our life... by blowing things out of proportion we r not only creating difference in this forum ... we r creating unhealthy environment for ourself... we come here to enjoy the show ...talk about the characters.. they way the show is shaping up...
Another thing- Comparisons posts... when comparing ... compare the character in the serial.. not the stars.... everyone of them comes with a different experience with a different bakground so comparing them doesnt make any sense...put ur self in their shoes.. would u be liked to be compared to ur friends, sister, brother, colleague... No!!right ... then why is it different for others... remeber that actors r also human beings... .....first of all these is no need of the comparison post because its just a very easy way of stirring controversial discussions...
I am giving my example here... i saw a post on Kripa ... and Neha was brought in ... true she is playing the character... but we r failing to see that we r discussing the character.... not the actress acting ability.... When we r saying something against the character ... we r not .... not directing towards the actor.. there acting ability.. their chemistry etc... we r saying it on the character.... Each and every character of kyph .. has had their downfall... sometimes we hate the character ... sometimes we love the character.... ex Kartik turning postive... u start liking the character....
Life is unpredictable... you never know wht might happen next...so why get geared up on these small matters ....all of us come from different backgrounds, views ,culture... definitely their will be a difference of opinion but the main factor that we should all keep in mind is that we know each other through this forum... we r all friends .. n our comments might hurt each other..we r from different places.. be it from any part of the world.. age .Few months ago i rember when i joined i hardly saw this negativity around... what happened to us ... Since the show is taking a new turn have fun... enjoy it ... Another thing is that we r getting hurtful throught our words..." Think twice before u speak" cuz words are mightier then a sword... and we should be very careful when we use them... When u r trying to make a reply think twice... r u sure u wont hurt anyone ... is it a healthy+ a fuuny comment .. ( depending on the situation) .. Each and everyone of us deserve equal respect ... and if u r hurt by anyone comment please use the pm... instead of calling an open discussion. and i am sure the person didnt mean to hurt u ..everyone has a different view of seeing things... just take it lightly ... and move on .....this is not the time to divide the place in 5 different directions...IF was created to meet ppl.. around the world.. make new friends.. have fun and enjoy it and discuss ur fav serial.. n the Characters....... its like u r get away from ur day to day life... so if u r get away gets un healthy then where would one go...
Iam sorry but this will me my last time posting on it . ... but if this made even a small difference then we would avoid these kind of things in future.. .... this is surely going to be our lost ... cuz once this show ends... we will miss these days...Kyph forum was in my opinion was one of the rocking forums.. the pages moved so fast that most of the topics were lost... but now a days even we browse through the pages we r just seeing the same old stuff being repeated again n again... its high time we learn from these mistakes not do this again..
take care
samiđ
I have posted about this earlier... n this is my final time posting on this matter....
Lately, i am noticing ... there are alot of posts being posted about the actor/actress ... there is nuttin wrong there.... the problem lies within those posts... why arent we understanding that when a post is being posted ... its directed towards the actor in the Serial... example when discussing IQ performance we will bring Neha in it ... n when u will be discussing Neha ... and IQ will be brought in it ..why are we failing to understand that both of these actors are stars who are totally opposite of each other compared to wht we see for Kripa-Angad...
Its soo disturbing to open any post and see ppl calling for open discussion......and frankly getting tired of this ...i really fail to understand the reason behind all of this ....we r not small kindergarten kids... where we dont know what is right n wrong .... even they know somtimes...so we very well know what we r posting.n what we r saying .Most of the times things always blown out of proportion ...why are we always looking for opportunities to create differences...we can always have a difference of opinion ... but it doesnt mean we go on at each other... .i dont know why we r taking it so seriously... personal matter between the stars... their interaction ... their friendship.. its not our concern.. i mean we watch kyph for Angad,kripa,Prithvi, Misty...the characters. if there is nuttin wrong on screen .. then we should accept it and enjoy our life... by blowing things out of proportion we r not only creating difference in this forum ... we r creating unhealthy environment for ourself... we come here to enjoy the show ...talk about the characters.. they way the show is shaping up...
Another thing- Comparisons posts... when comparing ... compare the character in the serial.. not the stars.... everyone of them comes with a different experience with a different bakground so comparing them doesnt make any sense...put ur self in their shoes.. would u be liked to be compared to ur friends, sister, brother, colleague... No!!right ... then why is it different for others... remeber that actors r also human beings... .....first of all these is no need of the comparison post because its just a very easy way of stirring controversial discussions...
I am giving my example here... i saw a post on Kripa ... and Neha was brought in ... true she is playing the character... but we r failing to see that we r discussing the character.... not the actress acting ability.... When we r saying something against the character ... we r not .... not directing towards the actor.. there acting ability.. their chemistry etc... we r saying it on the character.... Each and every character of kyph .. has had their downfall... sometimes we hate the character ... sometimes we love the character.... ex Kartik turning postive... u start liking the character....
Life is unpredictable... you never know wht might happen next...so why get geared up on these small matters ....all of us come from different backgrounds, views ,culture... definitely their will be a difference of opinion but the main factor that we should all keep in mind is that we know each other through this forum... we r all friends .. n our comments might hurt each other..we r from different places.. be it from any part of the world.. age .Few months ago i rember when i joined i hardly saw this negativity around... what happened to us ... Since the show is taking a new turn have fun... enjoy it ... Another thing is that we r getting hurtful throught our words..." Think twice before u speak" cuz words are mightier then a sword... and we should be very careful when we use them... When u r trying to make a reply think twice... r u sure u wont hurt anyone ... is it a healthy+ a fuuny comment .. ( depending on the situation) .. Each and everyone of us deserve equal respect ... and if u r hurt by anyone comment please use the pm... instead of calling an open discussion. and i am sure the person didnt mean to hurt u ..everyone has a different view of seeing things... just take it lightly ... and move on .....this is not the time to divide the place in 5 different directions...IF was created to meet ppl.. around the world.. make new friends.. have fun and enjoy it and discuss ur fav serial.. n the Characters....... its like u r get away from ur day to day life... so if u r get away gets un healthy then where would one go...
Iam sorry but this will me my last time posting on it . ... but if this made even a small difference then we would avoid these kind of things in future.. .... this is surely going to be our lost ... cuz once this show ends... we will miss these days...Kyph forum was in my opinion was one of the rocking forums.. the pages moved so fast that most of the topics were lost... but now a days even we browse through the pages we r just seeing the same old stuff being repeated again n again... its high time we learn from these mistakes not do this again..
take care
samiđ
Shiv Shakti
