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siddie! i am loving this healthy discussion yaar! we might not agree but we are still ready to respect each others opinions. btw, priyanka should officially appoint you as her lawyer! you do a great job of defending her😆 i love how fiercely loyal you are to her. acha bus ab enough with only priyanka, before this thread turns into a war zone. i want to hear your views on my take on rasam and shanak as well. i demand that you go and re-read my post!🤣
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just saw your second reply. siddie, pagli, it's supposed to be the opposite actually. only if one is neutral and unbiased can one actually have a healthy discussion. agar har koi sirf apne favs ko hi support karey ga tab tu ho chuki WWIII!😆
@bold: yaar,.. i used to have that view as well till like an year back.. but i took a prejudice course in psyc😆..and more than that i was part of mjht forum!😆 and wht i have realised zenn, is it is extremely hard, almost impossible i wud say , to be unbiased and neutral.. it is just not possible yaar....😳 i dunno.. i feel that... i mean don't u feel that? if for eg, cv's come to the forum today and ask u : that they will have a raffle where every1 puts in the name of a couple - and the winning couple wud get full 30 minutes episode with ONLY them... then won't u place shanak's name? even if putting in rasam's name wud mean we may actually get to see a lot of wht their story is abt...?? or for eg, if tomorrow there was a fight between rasam and shanak.. won't u feel just more inclined towards understanding and feeling for shanak more?? perhaps u may not agree with shanak, but still u will find urself just paying more attention to them,...right??
yaar... if a person is able to remain neutral, if u can see rasam with a neutral and unbiased view (with NO thought of: yaar kaash yeh scene ki jaga shanak ka scene hota!😆😆), then i truly APPLAUD U!!👏👏 seriouslyy i wud!😳 cuz i know it is just tooo hard to be neutral.. specially in these dramas where u have like more than one couple... it is IMPOSSIBLE..
u know mjht forum pe kya hota tha? ppl used to EXPECT each other to be neutral... but they weren't - understabdly so! cuz half loved mayur and half loved sajan..becuz of the mayur love themayurians ended up disliking sajan.. and sajanians ended up disliking mayur... yet v all expected each other to be NEUTRAL - per we werent.. despite expecting others to be neutral, we ourselves werent... is tarah se there were so many problems.. so at the end of the whole fiasco - the most important thing i learned was: we all have biases...and those biases WILL surface.. so better than expecting the opposite person to be UNBIASED, it is better that we ACCEPT their biases ( so u know i am biased towards rasam and i will be so in all of my posts) , and thus u will be able to see where i am coming from more clearly... 😊 this way we wont have to go back to our :" u r getting angry for no reason , that was nothing to get angry at khanak abt", kinda talks everytime we make some comment.... 😳 wht u say??😳😆
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